You are chatting with your friends when you see her walking. She's just that girl you've liked for a lifetime! There's just one problem, she doesn't love you back at all. Well, now what? Start by reading these tips, which, from a female point of view, will show you what to do to get her attention.
Steps
Step 1. Be good
Girls love nice guys, you may not believe it but they easily lose their interest in those who misbehave. So be nice to her, your friends and older people. Don't be a pimp, but, if someone needs help, or has been targeted, help them! And make sure the girl sees how kind you are, but don't change your attitude when she's not around and don't try to get her attention while you're doing something good. You may appear desperate!
Step 2. Take care of your personal hygiene
Girls love guys who smell good. But don't go overboard with deodorants and don't try to smell like a flower. Girls love exotic fragrances that bring back memories of special occasions or places (such as the scent of the sea).
Step 3. Dress well
It is not necessary to put on a tuxedo to go to Mc Donald's, but neither is it necessary to wear the same t-shirt for a week in a row. If you feel comfortable with different types of pants choose shorts one day and jeans the next. Change the theme of your shirts occasionally, if she likes the beach wear a summer patterned shirt someday.
Step 4. Hair
Girls today generally don't go crazy for shaved heads. Personally I prefer slightly disheveled cuts, some like longer and curly hair, others prefer them wavy. There are also those who like crests.
Step 5. Lose bad habits
Like picking your nose or biting your pencil.
Step 6. Commit to school
There is no need to become a Nerd, but try as hard as you can.
Step 7. Be charming
Smile a lot.
Step 8. Male ornaments
Many girls like guys who wear men's necklaces. Wearing chains will give you a tough look instead.
Step 9. Talk to her
Girls are happy when a guy stops to talk to them, especially if the guy is cute. They will feel special. And don't talk too much with her friends, the girl will be pleased to see that you get along with her friends, but, even if you make it clear that you are interested in even ONE of them, she might take it.
Step 10. Return the favor
If a girl starts sending you a message, don't hesitate to answer her, reciprocate the gesture. This way he will understand that you are not indifferent. And that day you will make her happy, no matter what you said in the conversation.
Step 11. Show her that she can count on you
If you are her friend, whenever she is sad or has problems, hug her or put your hand on her shoulder, telling her not to worry. He will understand that he can count on you.
Advice
- Don't binge in front of her.
- Don't just think about your image. The physical appearance might attract you at first but later what will make the difference will be only the personality.
- Even if you realize you don't like her, you can always keep trying, and maybe you can find another girl just as nice.
- You can always introduce yourself to her.
Warnings
- Making her jealous will not improve your situation. The more you try, the more she will hate YOU and the other girl.
- Check your hormones! If you pressure her to have sex, she may walk away and erase you from her life forever.
- She might think you're an exhibitionist if you flirt with other girls in front of her or show off your muscles too much.
- If one day you woke up bad and you are angry with the whole world, avoid venting your frustration in front of her in every way. He could take offense and turn away.
- Don't talk to her about other girls, she might get jealous and lose all interest in you.
