To get a Gemini girl, you need to prepare to meet two different people. We are talking about his dual personality and nature and his ability to show two different personalities at different times. However, both sides of it can be just as eye-catching and intriguing. If you're ready for anything, a Gemini girl is for you.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Understanding his Personality
Step 1. Be prepared to be surprised
Gemini represents yin and yang in equal parts. This means you never know which one you are dealing with! One minute it will be smiling and childish and the next minute it will be serious and reserved. If you can handle both aspects, you will have a chance with this dynamic woman.
You never know what you're going to get with a Gemini, so if you're looking for a girl who is consistent and always takes care of you, you'd better woo a different sign, like Virgo. She can be submissive and feminine but also dominant and masculine. If she is a true Gemini, she will have both sides in balanced parts
Step 2. Try to understand how creative and witty she is
Gemini women are unstoppable when it comes to quick wits and creativity. They joke with you, play puns, and tell you they're writing a novel or painting something when you least expect it. He probably spends his free time doing something related to music, art or literature.
A Gemini girl is the type who can take you in the chest, but who can also take offense. She may be joking if you make fun of her by flirting, but you'd better expect her to return a witty and cutting remark
Step 3. Know that it can be a little immature
There is a side of Gemini that is very young, childish, fickle and immature. It has to exist to balance its almost overly mature and serious side. However, he can't always check when he comes out. The "younger" Twin can come out when meeting your parents or in the middle of a conference - who knows!
A Gemini benefits from the presence of a well-balanced person. A person who highlights his immaturity could lead to dangerous situations, while one who highlights his darker and more serious side might not lead to any fun. It is best if you are well balanced
Step 4. Expect to never know what will happen next
If you have this girl around, one minute you might find yourself on the sofa reading a poem together and the next you might find that she left you a note saying that she is leaving for Italy on vacation. This girl is curious and always looking for the next adventure, so when this side comes out, she is unstoppable.
This unpredictability irritates some people. It's easy to go wrong in thinking she's not loving or caring enough, when she just needs to mind her own business. Plus, he's checking to see if you'll be there when he comes back
Step 5. Don't expect her to be interested in makeup and magazines
Most Geminis are too smart and capable to value simple girlish things like cosmetics and magazines. She knows she is naturally beautiful, so why bother? And when it comes to magazines, no thanks. Instead, he may love Tolstoy or Hemingway.
It doesn't mean that a Gemini isn't feminine - because she is. Well, at least half of it. He just doesn't share the way society views girls. And, if you talk to her about it, she will probably convince you of the validity of her beliefs
Part 2 of 3: Courting a Gemini
Step 1. Show your intelligence
A Gemini girl wants someone who can match her physically and mentally. She needs to know that you can support her with whatever it is. The last thing she wants is a partner she feels superior to - she wants someone she can share the glory with.
When you are with her, tell her about the book you are reading. Ask her if she would like to go to the museum. Quote an article you read the other day about a little-known current event. She will find you intriguing and wonder what she can learn from you
Step 2. Show her that you can be comfortable together sexually
Gemini has two sexual parts - the dominant and the submissive. You'll see her shy and subtly flirtatious fluttering her lashes here and there and then reveal her dominant side, asking you out and making the first few moves. When this happens, take the hit! Let him take control when he needs it, after which you take the reins.
She doesn't need someone who is just dominant enough or just submissive enough - she needs someone who can handle and integrate whatever side she is showing
Step 3. Let her chat
Gemini are notoriously very social creatures. When their childish side comes out, they can be quite talkative. When she goes off on a tangent or tells you every little detail of the book she is reading, sit back and relax, leaving her in the spotlight. Observe its energy. Let her have fun.
Since Gemini needs someone who can stimulate her mind, ask her questions about thoughts or theories. Talk to her about what you are thinking or asking yourself questions about. You can confide in her and go on an exciting journey
Step 4. Ask her out on an interesting or exciting date
A Gemini loves to be entertained, surprised and intrigued. When you start your relationship, she will want to do things that aren't exactly traditional. Ask her to go pottery or go to a cheese tasting. She will be very impressed with your originality and ingenuity.
Don't feel pressured to always be at your best. She has two sides - once you've shown her that you can handle her more difficult side (the curious and adventurous one), show her that you can also relax in your pajamas in front of a movie and a pizza
Step 5. Be ready to put in some effort
A Gemini can be emotionally unavailable and difficult at one point, but loving and attentive the next. This sounds a little mentally unstable, but that's just the nature of this sign. However, for their partner, this can be a bit unnerving. You will need to work on the relationship, survive when she is away, and be available when she is ready to return.
Remember: this is not all up to you. Although he is very hesitant to start a relationship, he is in no way unfaithful or unloving. He just wants to make sure it's completely worth it
Part 3 of 3: Making the relationship last
Step 1. Keep her on edge
A Gemini girl needs to be kept on edge. Being so full of surprises, she wants her partner to be amazing too. Tell her you'll go out for dinner, but instead spend the night at the planetarium. Bring home a song you wrote for her that you kept hidden from her. These are the little things a Gemini truly appreciates.
Amaze her too. If you are not a lover of the outdoors, ask her to take an excursion. If you are new to music, offer to take it to the opera. If she thinks she can't conquer you, conquer her
Step 2. Give her her space
There is a very independent side to Gemini. Sometimes she needs to be left alone and have space to find her own adventure. Don't be discouraged when it happens - it's not turning away from you, it's just dedicating itself to itself. And there is nothing wrong with that! She will come back, excited about all her experiences that she will want to share with you.
If his independent streak bothers you, tell him about it. He will love talking to you, knowing how you feel and explaining what he feels like. She will likely appreciate your concern and will try to please you as much as possible
Step 3. You must be able to handle jealousy
The problem with a Gemini is that once she has 'finally' decided to engage with you openly, she can get quite jealous. She's spent a lot of time deciding if you're worth a serious commitment, which scares her a little. If he feels that you are drifting away, he may not be able to handle the situation well.
- See it as a declaration of love and not as an aggravating circumstance. All of which means that she cares for you and wants to make sure you are hers.
- Keep in mind, though, that if you want to make her deliberately jealous, she'll want to see it straight and probably won't tolerate it.
Step 4. Know when he needs treatment and when he needs adventure
Once you get to know her, you will probably be able to figure out which of her sides you are dealing with. Knowing what to expect and managing his character swings correctly can keep the relationship flowing healthily for a long time. And, in this way, she will feel safe in your arms.
Simply accepting the existence of these two dynamics of her personality constitutes the greatest challenge for each partner of a Gemini. Once that point is reached, everything else in the relationship will go smoothly
Advice
- Always be yourself. You can be the messy type, nerd, sporty, etc. Just remember to take care of personal hygiene and choose a good perfume.
- Sometimes it can happen that your feelings do not allow you to be the cheerful person that she would always like to have around. Just like her, you have feelings too. When you feel a certain emotion, talk to her about it and explain exactly why you are sad, happy, etc.
- Know that you can't hold a Gemini girl when she's about to explode, but you can certainly calm her down by saying "Do you need me to be close to you now?" when he is about to cry. If she doesn't respond, hold her hand, or hug her and say, “It's okay, I know you'll be okay because I know what you look like. Call me when you need me”. At this point, you can leave it alone; if he needs you, he will call you. When she's upset, just tell her, “Don't worry, sometimes things aren't what they seem… but trust me, I care about you. You can talk to me when you have calmed down”. Leave her alone for a while and, perhaps, offer her a cup of tea or ice cream.
- Remember that Gemini opens up and shares her emotions with difficulty. Sometimes even when you are intimate. Asking repeatedly will annoy her even more and she'll be less willing to talk to you. Try saying something like, "Remember I don't judge you, so feel free to tell me anything."
