A gift says a lot about you. Not only will it say you like someone enough to give them a special gift, it will also show how thoughtful and insightful you can be. This article will help you choose the perfect gift for the girl you like, as well as make you understand what girls like in general.
Steps
Step 1. Find out what she wants, but in a subtle way
Ask her about her favorite color, her favorite animal, or her favorite pastime. Everyone has an interest that they consider their own; something with which he identifies as an individual. Interest is the key to a good gift.
- Think about the sports, activities, animals, groups, authors and artists she likes. One of these interests represents a potential gift.
- If you don't want to let her know you're asking about her, you can always ask friends to hear their opinion. There is no shame in asking.
Step 2. Use your feminine side
It probably won't be a great idea to buy her a statue of a skull if she doesn't love those things. Put yourself in her shoes, think about the things girls like.
- With jewelry, flowers or chocolates you will never go wrong. Note: If you buy her one of these things, she'll know you have a crush on her. These gifts shout "I like you very much".
- Garments can be a good choice, but choose them carefully. Shirts, scarves, hats and socks are all tasteful gifts.
- In reverse, underwear, lingerie, tank tops or garments to be worn under clothing are not. They are too personal and may not be frowned upon, and may even cause you to be slapped. You can only give her underwear if authorized.
Step 3. Pay attention to the cost of the gift
It may seem strange to you, but she will feel uncomfortable if you buy her a $ 300 necklace and she will give you a pair of socks or nothing. You may want to give her the world, but she may feel embarrassed.
- If you're getting to know your crush, or haven't known it for long, limit yourself to gifts under $ 100. You will still be able to find a gift of class and taste for that figure. Think about:
- Elegant paper and envelopes if you are a romantic person who loves to write. A pen (fountain pen or ballpoint pen) can be a nice gift.
- A set of scented candles. Remember to choose a candle according to her tastes, not yours.
- A camera. It will be difficult to find it for less than € 100, but if you find a bargain, take advantage of it.
- A miniature ecosystem if you love nature, science or biology. Mini ecosystems are customizable, require little maintenance and fit your budget.
- You can accomplish many things for her. Most involve some manual dexterity. Try making a wicker basket or coasters with prints. You can come up with these ideas yourself.
- Make a fabric and beaded necklace, or small Polaroid magnets with photos of the two of you together.
- If she loves food, make her cards that she can print with her favorite recipes, or a fruit bouquet that contains the ones she prefers.
- If you both support the same team or play a particular sport, give them tickets to a match. Make sure she likes that sport though. Don't invite her to a football match if she isn't interested in it.
- If you both love art or cooking, give her enrollment in a cultural or cooking class. Both are fun group activities, and you can turn them into a date!
- There are several methods of wrapping you can try, or you can have someone more experienced than you do it.
- Experiment. Some people wrap a gift inside another gift. For example, you can drill a hole in an old book and put the wrapped gift inside. Then wrap the book too.
- Even if you're giving her some cards or something that fits inside an envelope, be sure to choose a nice envelope. Make a good impression with high quality paper.
- Write a short and sweet note. You probably want to write an essay, but too many compliments could make her feel overwhelmed and embarrassed. Write something simple.
- Tickets are a great opportunity to say something that will impress.
- You can make them suggestive and romantic by saying something like, "Choosing a gift isn't easy, but everything is worth doing to make you happy."
- Or you can choose a more traditional dedication: "I hope your Christmas holidays are full of joy."
- If she has a gift for you, or gives you a present in the following weeks, there's a good chance that she cares about you as a friend and that she likes you more intimately.
- If she really appreciates your gift, you can be daring and tell her how you feel about her. She could do it too! You should do this in a quiet place, because you cannot know in advance what his reaction will be.
- If he doesn't return the gift, and starts not talking to you more, the signs aren't positive. It probably doesn't feel what you do, but you never know. The only sure way is to have courage and ask her out. You have nothing to lose.
- If you're giving her flowers, consider whether she loves people's attention or not. If she's a shy girl, maybe you should send her flowers at home and not at work.
- For many girls, you can play it safe by giving away a CD. Talk to her for a while about music, and discover a few records she misses. It's a great conversation!
- Consider leaving the gift somewhere where she can find it. Simply sign a ticket, letting her know it's your doing. It will be much easier for her to appreciate the gift if she can open it herself without distraction. Be careful with this plan if she has a roommate, a friend who shares her locker, an office mate, etc. Write who the gift is for.
- Make sure you choose the right size if you buy clothes. It would be very embarrassing for both of you if you buy a dress that is too big or too small.
- Don't make her feel obligated to return the gift.
- Avoid giving her a shopping voucher. You will let her know that you don't know what she likes, and that you didn't want to take the time and effort to choose a special gift.
- Don't assume she likes feminine gifts.
- Don't assume you love pink.
- Find out if she is married or if she is already in a stable relationship. In this case, a heartfelt gift may not be appropriate.
- If she doesn't like the gift, don't panic. You can make up for it on his birthday or next Christmas.
Step 4. Create the gift yourself
Anyone can buy a gift. Creating it, on the other hand, takes time, effort and dedication. If you really want to make her understand how much you care, create something for her that she will appreciate.
Step 5. Get her something that reflects a common interest
If you both love a similar activity, why not make her happy and reinforce your commonalities? More things in common means more time to spend together.
Step 6. Cure the package
Use plain wrapping paper with a nice ribbon. Girls don't like gifts delivered in plastic bags.
Step 7. Get her a greeting card
If you decide to take a ticket, don't choose the first one that comes your way. Try to find one that says something about how special it is. All girls love to be told that they are special.
Step 8. When you give her your gift, try to put in a hug
When she's delighted with your big gift, try hugging her. It is normal to exchange a hug after offering a gift.
Step 9. Give her the gift in person
You will make a better impression if you give her the gift in person. Not only will you show her that you have confidence in yourself, but it will show her what feelings she arouses in you. This is a very good thing.
Step 10. Don't give too much importance to the gift
If you are lucky he will understand how much you like it. Keep a low profile and go on your way.
Step 11. Be confident
If you get a gift for a girl, don't hold back. Even if she doesn't like it very much, she will appreciate the thought. If you let your feelings guide you, everything will be fine.
Step 12. If she appreciates the gift, but she doesn't like you that much, stay friends
Accept that she isn't in love with you. Next time, try to find the right girl.
