Parties are one of the best places to meet a woman, especially for those too young to drink. They can also be a little intimidating. Being surrounded by tons of beautiful girls can make anyone nervous, as can the huge competition between guys. Follow these steps and impressing a girl will no longer be just a stroke of luck.
Steps
Step 1. Get ready
First things first: put on your favorite clothes. If you just bought a new shirt, wear it. Put on clothes that make you feel comfortable, confidant, and make sure you are convinced in your mind that they look good on you. Getting ready also means smelling good, so take a shower, shave, and put on your favorite perfume. While you wash and get dressed, listen to your favorite music so you feel energized and in the mood for a party. This way you will free your mind of stress and be ready to go out and meet women.
Step 2. Have a pre-party
Before you get to the actual party, get together with a few friends (possibly at your house) and start socializing. Have a drink to relax before going to the party. Make sure there is some music during the pre-party to get your and your friends in the mood. Make sure you don't drink too much though! You don't want to show up too tipsy at the party.
Step 3. Show off
Arrive with a group of friends and / or have your friends greet you at the entrance. Always be happy to see everyone you know at the party and they will be happy to see you too. The girls notice the presence of a boy when he enters a room and people immediately go to greet him. Demonstrate a high "social status" and you could get a girl invaded before you even speak to her.
Step 4. Explore the environment
Wander around the party and indulge in the vibes. So, rise above it! You need your energies to be at their peak! Quickly wander between different groups of friends and strangers and start conversations. You will look funny and personable. Girls will notice this and feel more comfortable with you if you seem to like other people. If you're lucky, someone from one of the groups you interact with will introduce you to that cute girl you've already noticed.
Step 5. Talk to her
Don't be shy and don't be nervous. Don't sit still and look at the girl you want to talk to every few seconds. Girls recognize insecurity a mile away and do not forgive it. Find any excuse to talk to her (use the environment, talk to her about someone you both know, or make a remark about her).
Step 6. Flirt heavily
Flirting means playfully provoking her in various ways. Challenge her to a drinking contest or invite her to be your partner. All this will open tons of doors for further provocation (mock her if she gets dirty drinking, blame her jokingly if you miss a challenge, etc.). Keep having fun with her as much as possible and don't stop increasing your attraction. If she laughs and pats you while you try to seduce her, that's a GREAT sign! Avoid normal "interview" conversations such as "where do you live?" and what do you do?". Keep the conversation fun and enjoyable. Tell her a funny story, make fun of her, make fun of the drunks at the party etc.
Step 7. Dance with her
If you haven't touched lightly during your conversations, this is a great way to have physical contact. Make sure you know a few dance moves, because guys who can't dance can be a real disappointment. Of course, you don't have to be a pro, but if she likes how you dance, she'll be more attracted to you. If you're getting really close at this point and you feel like it, you can make your move right away.
Step 8. Give her some space
This means you don't have to stick to her all night. Let her have fun with her friends and show her that you are having a great time with yours too. Following her around all night will make you seem clingy and needy of her, which is deeply unpleasant. Also, leaving her space will give her the opportunity to think about you and miss you. During this time, stay calm, relaxed and in full control. Don't be jealous if you see her talking to other guys. Act like you've already got her and she'll notice. This step can go anywhere on the list after you've had a flirty conversation with her, and you can do this multiple times throughout the night (it's also a good chance to get to know other girls!)
Step 9. Make your move
After giving her some space, have her come back to you (and if she doesn't, catch her eye, and resume the conversation). If she's giving you sweet eyes and giving her full attention, wait for the right moment in the conversation, like a pause after something funny or flirty, where you look at each other, and kiss her. If you're afraid she's not the kind of girl who wants to hook up at a party or if her friends are watching you, get her number.
Step 10. Make a plan in advance
Parties can be short-lived. They could be interrupted by the police, in which case you need to have a place to go with her. "Book" a room in the house or a place to take her close to the party so she can accompany her back. If that's not your intention, simply tell her that you will call her at the end of the night and kiss her goodnight.
