If you are a teenager, you may be afraid of getting bored. You probably want your friends to consider you an interesting girl. There are many fun and inexpensive activities you can do with your young friends to keep them happy and cheerful.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Create a Fun Mood
Step 1. Ask your parents to allow you to invite your friends more often
If you want to have fun with your teenage friends, create a fun environment in your home. If you offer your friends a relaxing and cheerful space where you can meet and feel comfortable after school and on weekends, you will certainly impress them.
- First, talk to your parents. Tell them that you would like to spend more time with your friends and that you want to make them feel welcome in your home. Ask your parents to be more understanding when you make noise or confusion.
- Try to be as respectful as possible when talking to your parents. If you have a rude or pretentious attitude, you will almost certainly not get what you want. Try saying, "We will feel more comfortable and safe if we could see each other at one of us at the weekend. I think you too would be more relaxed if we stayed at home than if we went out every night."
- Be understanding when your parents express their point of view. You can ask for some privacy, but don't overdo it. For example, the cellar or basement can become the area where you and your friends can play games, listen to music, watch television, and so on. Your parents may give you this option, but with some restrictions: they may ask you to leave the door open, or they may come and check from time to time to make sure everything is okay. You have to be willing to compromise, because it may be necessary to snatch a "Yes".
- Agree to take on some responsibilities yourself. Offer to tidy up yourself. Spend your monthly allowance to buy snacks for you and your friends.
Step 2. Decorate your room
If you want to have fun with friends, create a relaxing and cheerful atmosphere in your room. Change the decor of your room to allow your friends to chat, relax and listen to music.
- Your teenage friends probably love music. Make sure you have a device in your room to be able to play it. Speakers may be enough for your iPhone or iPod, or a small stereo.
- Make sure there is plenty of seating. You can purchase inexpensive folding chairs or bean bags at home improvement stores. Ask your parents if they have an old sofa they no longer use and put it in your room. Your friends can get dirty, so make sure the furniture is easy to clean.
- In some cases, having a nice room can be fun. Look for posters, paintings, and other cheerful decorations. Take a tour of the flea markets or local art shops to decorate your room in the best possible way.
Step 3. Stay up to date on the most interesting activities and events
If you want to be a nice friend, you need to be up to date with what's going on. People who have fun are always full of ideas, projects and new insights.
- Learn about the entertainment activities available in the city. What films will be released this weekend? What live concerts are scheduled? Are there any sales at the mall? Is there an important football match on Saturday that everyone will attend?
- Always try to find fun activities that you and your friends will enjoy. Be the first to send an email or a Facebook message to suggest going to the cinema or a concert all together.
Step 4. Make a joke
People love to hang out with laughers. If you want to be a nice friend, try to always have a joke ready - making your friends laugh is a great way to have fun. If you have a good sense of humor, you will be able to make your friends have a nice evening even if you see each other at your house.
- Some people have a natural tendency to make jokes. If that's the case, try to bring out this propensity when you hang out with other people. If, on the other hand, you are more reserved, try to get out of your shell slightly. If you think of something funny, say it without hesitation. Share all your funny stories.
- Be funny. Many people are afraid of showing their childish side. Don't be afraid to be immature from time to time. While you shouldn't make crude jokes during a drama movie, when you think the time is right you bring out your silliest side. Laugh at the silly jokes and funny things that happen. Watch funny videos on YouTube and read the most hilarious comments on Twitter. Always look for opportunities to have a laugh.
Step 5. Introduce your friends to new things
Another way to have fun is to expose people to activities they are not familiar with. People are naturally drawn to those who are able to introduce them to new experiences.
- If a new restaurant opens in town, plan a night out to try it out. Watch new TV shows and movies as they come out, and if they deserve to be seen, invite your friends over. Watch out for new store openings. Go to an area of the city you don't frequent often and set aside a day to explore it.
- Share your tastes. Many people are afraid to share their tastes in music, books, fashion and more. You, on the other hand, try to be open with your passions towards your friends. Just remember not to be pushy. Try to gradually let them know what you like; for example, play a CD of your favorite band when you see each other.
Step 6. Let things happen spontaneously
You may think you have to plan everything to always have something fun to do. In some cases, however, the most exhilarating activities happen by chance: always be open to the possibility of meetings organized at the last minute and changes to the plan. If the movie night is interrupted because your friends want to chat and laugh, that's not a problem. Let the fun activities happen on their own.
Method 2 of 3: Make Projects
Step 1. Organize a movie night
One of the simplest ways to have fun at home is a good old movie night. Invite friends over to your place for a movie marathon.
- Choose a movie genre. You can watch movies you loved as a child, choose classics or the latest popular movies. Get some DVDs or download some movies before the big night.
- Snacks can be a fun addition to a movie night. Make some popcorn or buy some potato chips. Also make sure there is enough seating. If they are missing, bring chairs from the dining room or kitchen into your room.
Step 2. Write your list of things to do before you die
You can insert big dreams, like canoeing on the Amazon River or writing a best-selling novel, and smaller wishes, like watching the sunset with your future boyfriend. You and your friends can enjoy writing these lists together before comparing them. To laugh even more, look for the items on the list that you can complete at home and do it.
Step 3. Decorate accessories or clothing
Decorating is a very fun activity that you can do at home. You can use DIY products and more.
- Decorate bags with sequins, glitter, and other DIY products. Ask your mom or older sister if they have any bags they no longer use so you can decorate them. Your friends will have fun and can leave with a nice gift.
- Get white t-shirts and decorate them with black markers. You can ask all your friends to draw a custom signature or drawing. This way, you will all have a cute new shirt that reminds you of your friendship.
Step 4. Be a tourist in your city
If you don't know what to do on the weekend, consider yourself a tourist. Where do people go from outside the city? What are the most visited museums? What are the places to see? Are there any zoos or other tourist attractions? These activities can allow you to spend time in a fun way.
Step 5. Go to the cinema
Watching movies at home can be fun, but so is doing it in the cinema, to be able to see the latest releases on the big screen. If you don't know what to do one night, consider this idea.
Step 6. Create a new outfit with only € 20
It can be fun to try to create clothing without breaking the bank. In the end, saving something is also a good idea if you don't have a lot of cash on hand. Go to the mall and shop within your budget. It can be difficult to do, but it can also be a lot of fun. Look for items on sale and discount, or shop at affordable stores.
Method 3 of 3: Talk to friends
Step 1. Don't filter what you mean
In some cases, even just talking can be fun. However, you need to work on your communication skills, as well as making sure you and your friends always have a smile on their face when chatting. A great way to ensure that a conversation is hilarious and engaging is to say what's on your mind without any filters.
- People often get stuck in conversation, not knowing how to proceed. You may find yourself thinking, "Would I look smart if I said this? Would I look brilliant?" Censoring what you mean can make you sound corny. Try to avoid filtering your thoughts when you speak.
- Don't think too much before answering. Express what you think, as long as it's not something bad; people will almost always react favorably. In general, almost everyone is better off when they don't feel the need to pay attention to what they say. Your friends will find your uninhibited nature amusing and feel more free to say what they really think.
Step 2. Ask for more information
While you should say what you think when talking to someone, that doesn't mean you should dominate the conversation. People have more fun if the listener is interested in what they have to say. Make sure you always listen carefully to your friends and ask follow-up questions.
People love to hang out with those interested in their stories. If your friends say something, say "Oh, that's great!", Or "Tell me more": this will encourage them to keep talking and make them feel flattered. Asking questions is a great way to keep a conversation going
Step 3. Tell stories
Funny anecdotes are great additions to any conversation. People like to hang out with someone who can tell good stories.
- Engage in conversations with relevant stories with the topic of discussion. For example, imagine you know a hilarious episode involving a prank you and your brother played on your mom during a ski holiday. If your friends are talking about April fools, this is a great time to tell your story.
- You can tell stories that haven't happened to you personally. You can find funny anecdotes everywhere. Have you heard anything interesting in the latest news? Have you read a fascinating article in a magazine? Do you know an interesting episode about the life of a famous actor? These are all stories that you can add to any conversation.
- If you don't know how to tell a story well, try listening to those who do it by profession and notice what methods they use to engage the listener.
