Did it ever happen to you, going downstairs, to run into your brother's friends? Did they stare at you? Perhaps, one of them smiled at you or was kind to you, making your heart pound? Or maybe you went out with your brother and his friends joined the queue, or did you need a ride and one of them had offered to accompany you? Are you tired of seeing guys falling at your friends' feet? Maybe they flirt like professionals while you don't know what to do? Well, here's a guide for girls on how to impress their older siblings' friends, and maybe, who knows, start a romance!
Steps
Step 1. Say hello
When you meet your brother's friend in the hallway, don't stare. If you are alone with him, smile and say "hi", but try not to seem too intrusive or he will try to distance himself.
Step 2. When you are at home and he is with you, along with your brother of course, look for an excuse to go wherever they are and chat with them for a while
Guys like it when a girl looks for a confrontation with them, and some even find it attractive; however it is not recommended that you go over there, sit down and start chatting. Your brother would understand that you are up to something. Try going to them and saying you were going to make some coffee and wanted to know if they wanted a cup. If your brother's friend plays a sport, go to the game and try to run into him "by accident". Don't be shy or she'll think you're weird.
Step 3. For some kids, physical appearance doesn't matter; it's the way you act and how you interact with them that make the difference
Find out what her interests are and don't just talk about yourself; interested in him. If there is one thing that kids cannot do without, it is having the spotlight on them. With the shy ones it is necessary to insist a little, but do not be intrusive or try to mind his own business because you would end up annoying him.
Step 4. Become the object of his wishes
You know that if you saw him in the hallway at school with someone else you would be jealous. Swap roles. Do not try to make him jealous by flirting with another, but pretend to meet a guy by chance and talk to him in front of your brother's friend. He will go mad with jealousy because he will want to receive the same attention too. He will desire you!
Step 5. Find out his interests and use them to your advantage
You don't have to pretend that you like the same things he likes, unless you really like it. However, try to find out more about his interests: for example, say that he likes bowling … the next time you meet him by chance he mentions something about a bowling tournament. Who knows what he might think when he finds that you like the same things that interest him?
Step 6. Talk to your brother
It would be a good idea to have her permission before pushing yourself further. This doesn't mean you have to tell him you like his friend, especially if you suspect he might not like it.
Step 7. Try to have confidence in yourself and make him want to spend more time with you
If he likes you, he should visit you more often and stop and talk to you.
Step 8. Make sure you have good hygiene, wash your hair and teeth, cut your nails, clean your ears, eat healthy foods and use products to fight acne
Guys know that, like them, girls have flaws too, but still try to take care of yourself. It'll be easier to impress the guy you like, if he finds you physically attractive too. So keep fit!
Step 9. Smile and always be kind
Don't burp and don't be rude because you're not a boy.
Step 10. Last but not least, be yourself
Show him that you are worth who you are and that you have no intention of changing for him. Don't let it force you to do what you don't want. If you want to improve yourself and change your look or put in more effort in general, you can do it without a problem, but stay away from alcohol, smoking and drugs. It's not worth getting entangled with these things just to get a guy's attention.
Advice
- Don't always be in their way. You would end up exasperating them!
- Joke with him! Guys love funny girls.
- Be positive. If you feel comfortable with yourself, he will notice and appreciate that you enjoy being in company.
- Do what he wants to do, for example, if they are playing video games, ask him to let you play and do not get angry if he accidentally "kills" you, because he will probably be trying to joke and have fun with you.
- Show your best side. Move your hair. Licking your lips will make the guys imagine kissing you … Touching your neck is also a great idea.
- Talk to him about things or people in the room, as long as they are not his friends. This also includes your brother, unless you mention him first. That would be a bad sign. Also, avoid talking to your brother about him.
- You know your brother well enough to know what kind of girl he likes to date. Since they are friends, they are both likely to like the same type of woman. I'm not saying try to change yourself, but if you try to make those small gestures that could make a difference yours, it would be a great idea.
- Wear clothes or accessories that catch her eye, such as a tight shirt or pants, necklace, top, or bag.
- Try touching his arm or leg when he makes a funny joke.
Warnings
- Laugh as much as you can. Guys like it when girls laugh at their jokes, without seeming forced. A little smile or a fat laugh is fine.
- Don't forget that you have to be yourself and no one else. If that doesn't work, the sea is full of fish and try not to let your brother weigh in if you break up. It wouldn't be fair to make him give up a friend because of you.
- Don't be the kind of girl who stalks the person she likes, or the kind of girl who sits and waits. Take the reins in hand! Show him who you are.
- Don't look clumsy or lazy. Don't stand there waiting. When they are about to go out in a group and are at your house, join them, so they will invite you too. You will see that the invitation will eventually arrive.
- Don't be too sassy or out of place when you are with them. You will make him feel uncomfortable.
- Don't bother him all the time. You don't have to pretend you're a poor freak, or brag all the time. You would show a total lack of respect. Also, make sure you don't gossip when you are with them. Those travel at the speed of light, even as far as kids are concerned.
- Since there are other older girls who may have already stolen his heart, don't reveal the crush you have on your brother's friend to all your friends. If you do, the rumor may start to get around and some girls may take it badly. Remember that your brother's friend could be the brother of a friend of yours.
- Don't chew gum, especially fruit-flavored gum, and don't balloon while you talk. You would seem vulgar and immature when your goal should be to make him believe that you are more mature than your age.
- Don't be empty. Don't keep silent like a fish. Start engaging conversations and try to create a good atmosphere. Don't try to force him to talk to you about a particular topic. Guys hate it when girls try to bully them.
- Don't try if you know your brother would bother. How would you feel if he flirted with your best friends?
- Don't be rude, pedantic and boring. Try to be nice to them. Offer him a drink, a snack, etc.
