More and more girls are discovering themselves attracted to nerds, attractive guys whose charm often hides behind a pair of glasses. You probably think it's easy to impress one of them, but sometimes that's not the case.
Steps
Step 1. Get to know his tastes
Don't assume that all nerds like the same things. You may have something in common, but if this is not the case, at least try to be broad-minded and get close to him, without having to lie or always agree on everything he tells you. For example, if the guy says "I love MC Lars" but you have never heard of him before, don't answer "Me too!", Rather ask him what it is and after you inquire tell him what you think.
Step 2. Try to be "just a friend" for him, at least in the beginning
Get to know each other. You could scare him and make him uncomfortable if you ask him out immediately without first trying to hang out with him and get to know you a little.
Step 3. Laugh with him if he makes a joke
Laugh even if it's not exactly funny, even a giggle is enough. But don't giggle every time he says something.
Step 4. Don't tell your friends
As with any other guy, if he realizes that you have confided your interest in him to your friends, he may lose a lot of enthusiasm for you. How would you feel if his friends started pointing at you and giggling every time you walk past him?
Step 5. Flirt with him
If you don't want others to see you while you try to touch him, even a hug will be enough, as long as you don't make it last an eternity - he too will have his commitments, after all.
Step 6. Contact them online
Having his e-mail address and contact on Facebook or Twitter can help you break the ice and overcome the embarrassment to propose a meeting.
Step 7. Be aware that nerds often try to be very careful in choosing relationships, especially if they have had bad experiences or are looking for a person who is their equal
It may take some time to overcome his reluctance and gain his trust.
Step 8. Be yourself
Dress comfortably and don't behave differently just to please them. The guy might get suspicious if until the day before you were a sporty and casual girl while now you only think about clothes and hairstyles.
Step 9. Always dress casually, you never know when you will really meet him
A t-shirt and a pair of jeans are a perfect combination - be simple but attractive. Don't get caught wearing sweaty or dirty shirts.
Step 10. Take care of your personal hygiene
Nerds have a soft spot for simple girls as long as they take great care of their personal hygiene. Put on the deodorant and wash your hair well with shampoo.
Step 11. Don't overdo the makeup
Wear a natural eye shadow and a little blush on your cheeks at the most. Do not cover yourself with make-up and avoid both eyeliner and foundation. Nerds like girls like soap and water.
Step 12. Have a nice time by her side
Even if there is never a story between you two, at least there will be a good friendship.
Step 13. Find out about his interests and find out more
Do it even if it's not exactly your passions.
Step 14. Nerdy guys typically fall in love with girls like them
If, on the other hand, you are a popular and trendy girl, you may face a lot of difficulties when you decide to conquer a nerd. In any case, avoid changing for him and stay yourself!
Advice
- Nerds are generally great partners and treat their girlfriends well.
- Be yourself. Nerds don't like girls who pretend to be different than they are just to impress. There is no point in pretending with a guy, in any case sooner or later he will realize that you have not yet introduced him to who you really are.
- Don't neglect yourself and take care of your personal hygiene.
- Don't decide to have a nerdy boyfriend just to pursue a fad!
- Show the boy, and everyone else, your best qualities.
Warnings
- Don't try to change him in any way and don't push him to be like you. If you are attracted to another type of guy, you simply have the wrong goal.
- Always be yourself. You don't necessarily have to share his interests.
- Don't brag to him. It is more useful to compliment him.
- Be aware that your friends may make fun of you. Also be prepared for such situations when you go out with a nerd.
