Did you have a crush on that cute 12-year-old boy who goes to your school? Try to get his attention, talk, and spend some time with him. Please note that there is no way to "like" a person you care about, but you can be kind and deepen their knowledge so that they understand how great you are!
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Get his attention
Step 1. Look him in the eye and smile
Look at him when you are in the same room and smile to let him know how nice you are and that you are happy when you see him. Don't overdo it, but try to get her attention multiple times during a class, game, or party. Once he catches your eye, you can shyly turn yours away or continue to maintain eye contact.
Step 2. Dress up nicely
Wear your favorite pieces to feel beautiful, comfortable and confident the next time you see it. You do not have to follow fashion like other girls do, also because you risk not liking them or it is possible that they may not even notice your clothing. Without a doubt, he will notice if you are casual and comfortable.
Step 3. Apply a veil of makeup and style your hair
Experiment with hairstyles and make-up, but don't overdo it. Go for something that values you and makes you feel good. Start by taking care of your personal hygiene: shower and shampoo, put on deodorant and brush your teeth every day.
- Gather your hair in a ponytail, bun, or whatever you like best. If you want a new look, try curling or ironing them.
- Apply some mascara on your lashes and concealer or foundation on your face if you want to cover acne or some redness in your skin.
Step 4. Come closer
Stand next to him when you are among friends and approach if you are sitting next to him. You can also lightly touch him on the arm while you are talking or give him a playful nudge if he is teasing or joking with you. However, pay attention to the signals it sends you. Some people don't want others to invade their personal space or feel uncomfortable when physical contact becomes stubborn. In these cases, it doesn't necessarily mean they don't like you.
If you'd rather not be too close to him or touch him, you can just mimic his body language. If he crosses his arms, rests his head on his hand, or stands up with his hands in his pockets while talking to you, wait at least 20 seconds and act the same or make very similar gestures. You will let him know that you are attentive and interested in him
Step 5. Make him ask you something
Watch him to find out what books he reads, what music he listens to or what his favorite team is. When you see him, try reading a book by the same author or wearing a shirt from his favorite band to take the initiative and strike up a conversation.
Step 6. Write him a love letter
Write a loving or funny note and put it in his backpack. Leave him anonymous by signing him with a name or code word and tell him that he will be able to discover the author by following the clues he will receive in subsequent letters. Stick to a few simple jokes or compliments if you don't want to be too cheesy or pushy.
Part 2 of 3: Talk to Him
Step 1. Find out what you have in common
Ask him about his family, hobbies, school, movies, books or sports and you will most likely find you have something to share with him. Bring up one of these topics to start another conversation and invite them to watch a TV show, play a game of volleyball, or just talk about something you're passionate about. For example, if you both like basketball, you might say, "You know, I have a basket in the garden. We could play together sometime!"
Step 2. Prove your intelligence
Let him know how smart you are by telling him funny anecdotes, helping him with his homework or just talking to him about a topic you know very well. Never belittle your brainpower and don't "play stupid" to get her attention.
Step 3. Be honest
I showed you what you really are and honestly answer his questions as you get to know each other. Resist the temptation to tell him little white lies or say you like something just because he loves it. The truth will come out sooner or later and he may lose interest in you if he finds out you were faking it.
If he says, "I really like country music," don't say he likes you too if that's not true, but keep the conversation going. You might add, "That's great. I prefer rock, but in the end I listen to a little bit of all genres! Which country artists do you like?"
Step 4. Listen to it
Do not get distracted when he talks to you and remember the things he says to you so that you can resume the conversation next time. Listen to him by giving him your full attention to show that you really care about talking to him.
Step 5. Be direct
If you've had a chance to spend some time with him before, go ahead and don't hide that you like him! You can tell him, "You know, I think you are a very nice and nice guy. Would you like to go out with me sometime?" or "My interest in you goes beyond just friendship. I'd love to go out with you!".
Step 6. Provoke him and joke with him
Make a few jokes, tease him lightly (without being cruel!) Or offer him an arm wrestling contest to have physical contact, blow him up with a win, or get him excited if he does beat you.
Part 3 of 3: Spend some Time Together
Step 1. Attend it randomly
Update him on activities you do with your group of friends, such as going to the movies, attending a party or organizing a weekly game at someone's house, and take the opportunity to let them know they're invited. If he accepts, you can meet him without the tension of a tête-à-tête date.
First try to chat with some of his friends and invite him too to the activities organized by your group. This way, when you find yourself talking directly to him, you can tell him that his friends will come too and, as a result, he will be more inclined to accept
Step 2. Reach it once you finish school
Find him before he leaves the classroom or chat with him in the hallway.
Step 3. Have lunch together
Sit next to him or at his own table in the café near the school. It's a simple and completely casual way to spend some time with her during school hours.
Step 4. Let yourself be carried away by his passions
Catch games for the team he plays or is passionate about, join the club he is a member of, or take a trip to the arcade, bowling alley, or mall he frequents with his friends. Look him in the eye and snap a button when you see him.
Step 5. Get to know his friends
Approach them to show that you are a nice and pleasant person. This way, you will have the opportunity to spend more time with him and get to know him better through his friendships.
Step 6. Invite him out
When you are ready to make your move, don't hesitate! Ask him if he'd like to go for a bike ride after school or something more traditional, like having a pizza and going to the movies. Suggest something that makes you comfortable and allows you to talk and get to know each other better.
Try throwing him an input in a completely spontaneous way, saying: "You know, I would really like an ice cream now! Come with me!"
Advice
Every guy wants and is attracted to different things. Don't think about flawless dressing and makeup (often, guys don't even notice these details!), But try to be kind and natural when you talk to him and listen to him
Warnings
- Don't change your appearance or personality to please a guy. If you try hard, you risk having the opposite effect or he will take an interest in someone other than the one you really are not.
- Don't despair if the guy you have a crush on doesn't react well or doesn't accept your invitation to go out. It may be that he is not ready to fall in love or he needs more time to get to know you. Don't forget that you are an exceptional person with or without him.
