Finding the most beautiful and poetic phrases to spark the interest of the person you like is certainly not easy. Let's face it: not all of us are Shakespeare. Incidentally, for the record, most of the attraction between two people happens long before a word is spoken. That's it. There are so many ways to get your dream girl to notice you without having to talk to her at all (well, at least in the beginning). Read this article to find out non-verbal communication tricks for the purpose of making any woman fall at your feet.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Have the Right Look
Step 1. Create a wardrobe made up of quality classics
Remember that attraction doesn't come from a conscious decision, it can be triggered by the right visuals. Paying attention to certain aspects of your closet can go a long way in trying to get a woman's attention. Keep the following in mind:
- Try to buy nice shirts and t-shirts in preferably neutral colors (black, white, dark blue), without patterns.
- If it's cold, buy crew-neck or V-neck sweaters in neutral colors, such as dark blue, black and white.
- Buy a nice pair of shoes for special occasions, but also a more casual and sporty pair for everyday use.
- Update your look with trendy dark wash jeans. They are so versatile that they can also be worn on a date.
Step 2. Pay attention to the cut of the clothes
Is critical. While you've followed all the steps listed so far to the letter, you won't be impressed if your clothes are too loose or feel bad. So, be sure to hire a friend or ask a salesperson for help - they'll give you a second opinion on items that flatter your body type.
- Elegant shirts. When you turn your head, the collar shouldn't move. If it did, this means that the shirt is too tight. The top seam of this garment should cross the collarbones. Remember that it shouldn't be too snug or tight enough to highlight every single detail of the bust, but you shouldn't get sucked into the fabric either.
- T-shirt. Again, the top seam of the shirt should cross the collarbones. Depending on your body type, you could go for a fitted or classic cut.
- Trousers. You don't have to choose the tight ones, but avoid pants with a crease on the front. They are a little old-fashioned and fatten the tummy.
- Jeans. In general, go for straight, tight ones (even if you hesitate at first), and avoid flared denim pants.
- Go shopping. If you are not already familiar enough with the fashion of the moment, going into different stores can help you a lot. You will be able to get an idea of which trends you like and which ones you don't like.
Step 3. Wear clothes that reflect your personality
Striving to understand trends can affect a girl favorably. After all, many women are passionate about fashion. Similarly, you should avoid wearing every single trendy piece of clothing you come across. You just have to make sure you update your wardrobe always based on your tastes. Remember that a smooth transition is ideal for almost everyone.
- Take a look at your current wardrobe and pick one or two items you would like to change right away.
- Incorporate garments that actually describe your tastes. Are you the number one fan of a football team? Filling your wardrobe with some club-inspired dress could make the transition easier for you (yes, although those shades aren't neutral).
Step 4. Start the transition
It can be quite unsettling, and even difficult, to change the way you dress because it may have become part of your personality. Just remember that a change can allow you to feel invigorated.
- Just do it. Sometimes, over-analyzing our style and wardrobe can slow down progress. Instead, mark the time passages to implement the expected changes.
- Make a commitment to change your style. Sharing this decision with others can have a significant impact on yourself and motivate you to do better.
- Get rid of any obstacles that prevent you from changing your wardrobe. Preparing the clothes you will wear the next morning the night before eliminates excuses like “I didn't have time to match the pants”.
Part 2 of 3: Defining Body Language
Step 1. Be aware of your movements
This is how it is: the way you move says a lot more than you think about your presumed safety or insecurity. Having good awareness can make your moves even more interesting to a girl.
- Walk slower than usual and monitor your movements. These actions indicate that you are comfortable with the whole world and with yourself.
- Take up the space you deserve. Settle into a chair by leaning back slightly and straighten your legs. Imagine marking your territory.
- Be aware of your tone of voice. Technically speaking, it's a huge component of body language. Slow down the speed at which you speak and keep a constant volume.
Step 2. Don't be afraid to touch people
Wait a minute - we're not telling you to make inappropriate moves. On the other hand, don't hesitate to physically express your emotions - you can convey warmth and comfort. After all, attraction is an emotional response.
- Pat on the back.
- Hug a friend or shake their hand to say hello.
- Don't be afraid to get a little closer to people than usual.
Step 3. Pay attention to your body posture
Nothing suggests insecurity more than hunched shoulders and a bowed head. Try the following actions to adjust your posture:
- While sitting, bring your chest forward and shoulders back. Keep your head up.
- Walk with your back straight and with your head held high. Measure your steps and push your shoulders back.
Step 4. Make good use of eye contact
Don't be afraid to look around when you enter a place. If your gaze meets a woman's, holding it for an extra second can allow you to establish a connection.
- As you walk, look towards the horizon. This makes you seem much more approachable and sociable.
- Don't be afraid to convey certain expressions with your eyes. Opening them wide when surprised or squeezing them when skeptical shows that you are involved in what is happening and that you pay attention.
- Smile genuinely. If you feel particularly confident, you might try a vain smile.
Part 3 of 3: Focus Your Attention
Step 1. Try to look rested and well-groomed
If you are tired or have not slept, the next day it shows. Take the right precautions to always have a fresh and regenerated appearance. Make sure the look is neat and tidy.
- Make sure your eyes are clean and your sclera white. Use eye drops to get rid of redness. They will look more awake and refreshed in a matter of seconds.
- Take care of your nails. They must be short and clean.
- If your hair is short, you probably won't have to do that much. If they are longer, make sure they are combed and clean.
- Try not to abound with the colony. Some women don't prefer it at all, or maybe they are very sensitive to strong scents.
Step 2. Be aware of your surroundings
Different places require different attire, especially if you want to impress someone. The way you dress to go to a club should be distinctly different from what you would use to study in the library. Here are some examples.
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If you're going to a club, get noticed by dressing more casually. All the other guys are likely to be quite stylish. By showing yourself different, you will automatically project confidence.
One observation: we are not suggesting that you wear the shorts you put on to go to the gym. Think stylish jeans and a cool t-shirt
- If you go to the library, the kids in attendance are likely to be wearing overly casual shorts instead. It is a great opportunity to take care of the look a little more.
Step 3. Try to be dynamic
Showing that you are a guy full of interests can be very intriguing, because it shows that you are capable of making a commitment. Also, a girl would have the opportunity to observe your usual gestures from a safe distance.
- If you are in the right environment and play an instrument, prove your ability! What girl doesn't like musicians?
- Do you have to go to a bar? Bring a nice computer case with you and choose business casual attire. Making it clear that you are there to finish a job can be a sign of determination and concentration.
Step 4. Pay attention to the people around you
Whatever environment you are in, make sure you have an active role in interpersonal interactions. Not only is he polite towards others, he also shows that you are capable of looking beyond your nose.
- Nod your head to confirm that you are following your conversation partner's thread.
- Every so often, change where you focus by looking at other people in the group.
- Don't take out your phone while someone is talking. It is a sign of disinterest and rudeness.
