How to Avoid Talking to Your Parents: 9 Steps

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How to Avoid Talking to Your Parents: 9 Steps
How to Avoid Talking to Your Parents: 9 Steps
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Have you ever gotten angry about something your parents did? Maybe they stopped you from doing something or they fight with you all day and you just need your space. Follow these steps.

Steps

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 1
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 1

Step 1. Determine why you want to avoid your parents and determine if it is worth it, as interrupting your relationship with them could have negative repercussions

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 2
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 2

Step 2. Hide some non-perishable snacks and some drinks in a cool place in your room

Stay in your room and only go out to go to the bathroom.

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 3
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 3

Step 3. When they talk to you, close conversations quickly and don't listen to them

Just reply with quick and vague answers. If they ask you to have dinner with them or go with them, politely say no.

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 4
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 4

Step 4. Lock yourself in your room

If you can't lock the door, use headphones, so you'll have a good excuse if they ask you why you didn't open the door.

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 5
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 5

Step 5. Bring all your stuff into your room:

computer, mobile phone, video game, media player, tablet etc. So you can have fun and talk with friends without being in the presence of your parents.

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 6
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 6

Step 6. Tell your friends not to call you at home

If they never do, so much the better. That way your parents will have no reason to come into your room to talk to you.

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 7
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 7

Step 7. Do your parents accompany you to school?

Ask your friends' parents to give you a lift or, even better, walk or cycle to school.

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 8
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 8

Step 8. It may not be possible to do this if you share your room and your brother or sister has kicked you out

Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 9
Avoid Talking to Your Parents Step 9

Step 9. Spend more time with friends in the neighborhood

  • Step 10.

    Advice

    • Never feel bad, remember what they did to you.
    • Your parents will understand that you want to be alone.
    • Stay away from home as much as possible. Get a job, an extracurricular activity, or play a sport.
    • You need to understand why you want to avoid your parents. After all, they are your parents.
    • If your parents get angry because you don't want to talk to them, give up and tell them what they did to you.

    Warnings

    • If you think you are doing this in order to receive special treatment from your parents later on, Not to do it. In reality, they will only think that you are immature. Capricious teenagers don't get what they want.
    • If your parents need it, they'll make you run errands for them. So try to solve the problem with the help of your brother or sister, or just by talking to them.
    • Your parents may get angry if you ignore them for a long time. Remember that even if you are free to manage your feelings towards them, it is still your parents.
    • It may not be possible to do this if you share your room and if your brother or sister has kicked you out.
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