When you go to shops, to school, to a sporting event, to a concert and so on, do you see any girls you would like to get to know better? Here are some steps that should help you attract girls.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Make Her Happy
Step 1. Get to know her
Talk to her and listen to her. Ask her about her family and where she grew up, her religion, her political views and what she likes to do for fun. Do not answer in a rude or critical way: they are his ideas, not yours! Respect their views and beliefs. Girls like to be treated like people. If you want girls to find you attractive, respecting them as people is a good place to start.
For example, ask her about her favorite hobby and how she got into it. This is a great way to talk about where and how she grew up, her family and so on
Step 2. Find out the things you have in common
She likes Metallica… you like Metallica and bam! You have a topic to talk about! Ask her what music she listens to, what movies she loves to watch, and what she does in her spare time. Find some common ground, so you'll get a great excuse to get to know each other better and maybe bond.
Step 3. Be a good friend
If we made sure you don't become "just a friend", we would be lying. But making friends with a girl and showing her what a great person you are is a good way to impress. Show her how happy she can be with you and then see how happy you are with her.
You have to support her when she has a difficult day and you have to try to make her forget her problems. Be available when he needs you and listen to what he has to say
Step 4. Don't be creepy
Don't stare at it and then look away. Don't go around her and then not be able to tell her anything. Don't stare at certain parts of her body (or at least try). Don't make weird sexual advances if you don't know her well and don't approach her with the usual excuses. Things like that will scare her and make you look unattractive.
Part 2 of 2: Being Irresistible
Step 1. Improve your self-esteem and confidence
Both are very attractive qualities. Girls lose their minds over a guy who has faith in himself and what he can do. Do things that help you gain this trust, such as volunteering, developing new skills, or traveling.
- You can increase your confidence with volunteering by joining different groups. It will test you and you can prove your worth.
- You can also learn to do new things, like learning a second or third language. This can also be done online, there are several free sites.
Step 2. Don't compare yourself to others
This won't make you feel better about yourself. The only person you can be is you and that's wonderful! Show the world how irresistible you are and stop trying to be someone else.
Don't act like another. Girls notice when you try to look different and being "fake" won't make you look attractive. You monkey a gangsta even though you grew up in a middle-class neighborhood? You are a poser. She will notice it. Be yourself and happy to be. Girls find him very attractive
Step 3. Take care of your appearance
Don't neglect personal hygiene and your wardrobe. Why should you like a girl if you don't even like yourself enough to take care of yourself? Wash your hair and shower regularly, use deodorant, wear clothes without holes or stains, and brush your teeth.
- Don't worry too much about getting designer clothes. She will notice a lot more how good a dress fits you or how well you matched the colors regardless of the name written on the label.
- Don't overdo it, of course. A little gel is fine, but your hair shouldn't look greasy and rock hard, right?
Step 4. Be available
Don't appear angry, sad, irritable, or an unpleasant person to talk to. If you seem angry at her every time she talks to you, why would she want to chat or even go out with you? Smile, be friendly, and be open to dialogue.
Step 5. Try to be a wonderful person
Be someone girls want to hang out with. You don't have to be smart but at least try to be curious and knowledgeable. Try to be a kind person who tries to improve the lives of the people around her. And do something for yourself. This part is really important. Go out and do your best to make your life better.
- You can be better informed if you read things that interest you. Do you know that there are entire books on the evolution of weapons such as swords? Books on dinosaur hunting techniques? Great, it's library time!
- Take your dreams into account. What do you want from life? What is your great passion? Showing your true interests is very attractive to girls: they want to think you love them as much as … baseball or whatever.
Step 6. Try to be nice and nice
Try to help her and always smile at her. A smile can make your day even more beautiful. Avoid posing and don't always talk to your friends when she's around. Try to find some time for her alone and speak to her in a gentle tone of voice.
Step 7. Keep doing well in school
You don't need to have high grades, but always try hard. Aim for good gaps, but avoid becoming arrogant. Offer to help her with her homework she's struggling with and help her study for her exams. However, don't take her personally if she refuses your help.
Being organized is equally important. Girls like organized boys who can always deliver their homework on time
Step 8. Play sports
This not only allows you to attract those girls who already play some sport, but it helps you develop your self-esteem. Girls like athletic and fit guys. Train and try to join a sports team with the people who attend your school.
Advice
- Always be polite and courteous.
- Don't text or do anything else when she's talking to you, always look her in the eye.
- Don't make the first move too soon.
- Show her respect when you talk to her.
- Girls like guys who understand them, listening to them is VERY important.
- Don't stare too hard. He'll think you're weird.
- Compliment her look and make her feel comfortable.
- Jokes are a lot of fun when you know what to joke about, so be careful and don't overdo it; don't tell her her friend is weird or stupid. If they have a very close relationship, you will have ruined your chances with her.
- Understand her and understand how to interact with her.
- Look deeply into her eyes.
- Know that the "attraction" phase is only part of the relationship.
