Most people don't look at your physical characteristics with the same critical gaze as you, and some may even see your ears as a positive element. That said, giving yourself some time to find a style you like can help boost your self-esteem.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Using Accessories
Step 1. Try different types of earrings
The right pair of earrings can considerably change the overall appearance of your ears, while the wrong one can make them stand out even more. There are two types of approaches to large ears; try them both and see which one works best for you:
- Small lobe earrings distract attention from large or protruding ears. Stud earrings are a great choice, but rings or small pendants are fine too.
- The opposite approach is to wear large lobe earrings in order to make the ears look a little smaller. As with ear cartilage piercings, with this gimmick your ears will be the center of attention, but in a way you can be proud of.
Step 2. Put on some sunglasses
A pair of eye-catching glasses will not only draw attention to your eyes, but will partially hide your ears when worn on your head.
Step 3. Distract attention with a flashy shirt or necklace
While you worry about your ears, there's a very good chance that others won't even notice them, especially if you get their attention elsewhere. Choose a sweater in a vibrant color, or pattern, or wear a necklace.
Step 4. Contour
Wearing some makeup will draw attention to your face. Try contouring with two shades of foundation. Start by applying a foundation two or three shades darker than your skin along the contour of the face, then use a lighter one to highlight certain areas - for example, the center of the forehead and the root of the nose. Blend the two shades well at their meeting points.
You can also apply contouring along the outer edge of the ears; however, it can be difficult to get it right if you're not used to wearing makeup
Step 5. Use double sided tape
If you feel particularly insecure on some days, attach the back of your ears to your head with a skin-specific ribbon, such as for clothes, to avoid pulling your hair out.
This is a temporary remedy suitable for occasional use. The ribbon can come off if you use it for too long
Step 6. Cover your ears completely
There are many accessories suitable for this purpose, including headbands, earmuffs, bandanas, scarves, turbans, hoods or baggy hats under which to hide them. A large pair of headphones can also be useful when engaging in solitary activities in public.
Method 2 of 2: Change the Hairstyle
Step 1. Edit a short haircut
If you have short hair, apply a mousse, or other styling product, and create a disheveled look to partially hide your ears or distract attention.
- Over time, you can try to grow the hair on the sides to a medium length to cover the tips of the ears. You can keep the rest of the cut short, but not a crew cut.
- The remaining steps in this section are devoted to medium or long haircuts.
Step 2. Add volume to your hair
The larger they are, the easier it will be to hide the ears. You can follow several methods:
- Apply dry shampoo.
- Use a mousse or other styling product;
- Curl your hair, create soft waves, or perm. The easiest way is to sleep with curlers, but you can find more permanent solutions in the articles at the links indicated or at your hairdresser.
Step 3. Make pigtails or braids
If you have long hair, you can also let it fall back so that the sides cover the ears.
- Avoid making ponytails that are high or too tight which would pull the hair away from your ears.
- You can also opt for the Princess Leia style side bun look if you want to completely cover them.
Step 4. Let the bangs grow
Long bangs, pushed to the side, can completely hide the ears. Even a shorter front fringe, with the rest of the hair pulled back, will create a sweeter look and your ears will no longer be the center of attention.
Advice
- Some people resort to a tattoo to make their ears more pleasing.
- In the event that your ears are a source of great discomfort or problems related to self-esteem, you can contact a surgeon to perform an otoplasty that can correct the defect. If the operation is done professionally and under local anesthesia, the risk is relatively low, although you may feel pain for a few weeks until the wound has healed.
