Even if you feel like the most experienced Latin lover on the planet, it happens to everyone that you lose control after a wonderful kiss. Panic comes over you, and you wonder what you should do. There is no single right answer to the question "What to do after a kiss?" - and that's a good thing! Be yourself and don't rush.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Reacting to Your First Kiss
Step 1. Enjoy the moment slowly, without worrying about what will happen next
A big kiss is a moment out of time, so savor it. Don't think you have to go straight ahead and don't feel the need to do something. Enjoy the kiss! In most cases, you and your partner will find something to talk about, or you can keep kissing, so let the moment happen without forcing.
- In general, the best advice is to go slowly. Do not rush. Take a deep breath and try to control your thoughts.
- Follow your heart. It may seem trivial to you, but all kisses are different and, if you trust yourself, you will understand what to do.
Step 2. Finish the kiss, but don't move away from your partner's face
After the kiss, pull your head back leisurely, to give both of you some space. If you have hugged each other, you can slowly loosen your grip, or continue to stay close, for a more intimate moment.
Step 3. Look your partner in the eye and smile
As you walk away, a simple smile is a great way to show your emotions, without having to think of something memorable to say. In most cases, you will laugh nervously and smile naturally, but don't worry if you have nothing to say. This awkward, almost awkward moment is the perfect way to show how much you value each other's company, without having to resort to movie quotes. You may also:
- Run your hand through her hair;
- Hug her;
- Wrap your arms around her, or squeeze her face;
- Touch his nose with yours;
- Make your nose and forehead come into contact with hers;
- Hold her tight for a moment of silence alone.
Step 4. Try not to force phrases, quotes or jokes to break the embarrassment
After a first kiss, whatever the situation, things can get a little awkward. It's normal! Learn to accept these moments, which will be less awkward and more exciting, if you don't say something out of place. Most of the "playboy" phrases people say after kisses are really bad. A simple "I liked it very much" is often more than enough.
- Do not think too much! Keep being yourself.
- If you feel confident and have something to say, do it! Even if it was something cheesy - at worst, you'd get a laugh out of your partner.
Step 5. Continue to develop your relationship after the first kiss
The first kiss is just one of the many steps that mark a romantic relationship, so don't put too much weight on this moment or you'll end up forgetting that you are yourself. While things might be slightly different for a day or two, there's no reason why a single kiss should change the way you behave with each other.
If you learn to treat the first kiss as a small step in a complex relationship and not as the most important moment of your life, you will be able to take many more from the girl you love
Method 2 of 3: Continue after a Passionate Kiss
Step 1. Hold your partner close, almost touching her face
A long, passionate kiss is often a precursor to intimacy, but all energy will be dissipated if you walk away. Stay in contact with her body by squeezing her with one arm behind her back or keeping a hand on her face. Staying tight helps keep the sexual charge alive and allows the kiss to continue.
Step 2. Start another kiss if this seems appropriate
Maybe she stayed close to you and looks you in the eye. Gives evasive glances at your lips. You both smile and feel that the time is right. By going slowly after a kiss, staying close to your partner and not being in a hurry, you can let the situation develop naturally, often in another kiss.
At this point, you should stop reading this article! Let yourself be carried away by the moment, trusting yourself and your partner
Step 3. Kiss other points on your partner's face and neck
If the passion grows, move along the neck or near the ears. Bring her closer to you, directing her head with your fingers where you want to be kissed. Let your lips and hands decide what kind of experience you want; come down if you want to spice up the atmosphere, or stay on your face if you want to proceed slowly and get to know the other person better.
You both have the same rights in deciding what will happen after a passionate kiss, so remember that you are free to set limits or slow things down
Step 4. Before continuing, pause for a second and ask if you can
After the kiss, if you want to try to make the moment more intimate, it's always worth waiting a moment and asking the other person if they agree. It may seem strange to you, but it won't spoil the atmosphere. You will simply show respect for your partner.
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A kiss is not an invitation to other activities.
A kiss is just a kiss - don't assume you have permission to do whatever you want.
Step 5. Try not to take yourself too seriously
In movies, passionate kissing scenes are often intense, dramatic, and mostly silent. In real life, however, passion is expressed in many different ways, exciting, ridiculous and slightly clumsy. Nothing ever goes perfect and that's what makes intimate moments fun. Remember that you can laugh if she steps on your feet or if she gets a sneeze. Instead of trying to control everything for the moment to be "perfect", "passionate" or "sexy", just enjoy the company of your partner. Let things run naturally and just think about having fun.
Method 3 of 3: React after an Unwanted Kiss
Step 1. Move away from the other person with a firm, dry motion
If for whatever reason you didn't like a kiss, you don't need to panic or jump away. When it's done, take a firm step back to clearly show that you don't intend to continue. You can also hold your hands in front of you, non-aggressively, palms down, to send the message that you need space.
Step 2. Gently explain to the other person that kissing was not a good idea
He's probably passionate, so be short and concise. A simple "I don't think this is a good idea" is often the best reaction, because it's not offensive and isn't likely to trigger a fight. Make it clear that you didn't want a kiss.
In a situation where one of you, or both of you, is enraptured by passion and emotions, the best solution is to avoid justifying your gesture and starting a fight. For now, use simple sentences and leave explanations for later
Step 3. Get away from the situation
There is no reason to delay. If necessary, you can explain your actions in the future. For now, you can just say "I'm sorry" and go further, walking away. Forgetting what happened will be easier for everyone if you are not in the same room.
Step 4. If it feels right to do so, take the time to explain why kissing wasn't the right choice
If a friend of yours had been drinking a little too much, your ex misunderstood your words, or a platonic partner wanted more than a friendship, you may decide to explain why you don't care for a romantic relationship. Keep in mind, though, that you don't owe anyone any explanations if you don't want to give them any. Not wanting to kiss someone is more than enough reason to decide not to.
