We live in the era of instant gratification, we want everything now! While this approach doesn't always lead to love that lasts "until death do us part," it can certainly help you find a boyfriend and make him lose his mind for you in just 7 days.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Choosing Your Target
Step 1. Decide who you want to conquer
First, think about the guys you would like to start a relationship with and write their names on a piece of paper. Use this list to narrow down and focus your attention on the guys you might get along with.
- Compile a list of single guys that you find interesting.
- Think about all the pros and cons of each - for example, one might be particularly cute, but you don't have much in common. Don't just think about looks, but also consider who you might get along with best and who would make a good boyfriend.
- Don't be afraid to include guys who are already your friends but would like to become your boyfriend. They may reciprocate your feelings, but you'll never find out if you don't send signals of openness.
- If you want to get close to a guy you don't know, think about the physical, personality, and intellectual characteristics of your ideal boyfriend. This way you will know what you are looking for when you meet new people and you will immediately understand if they can be potential partners.
Step 2. Exit and start searching
Go to places that the kids you like most often hang out with, like a bar, library, gym, or beach.
- Make sure you are available and open. For example, don't get too immersed in reading your book in the library and don't get distracted with friends.
- Go places alone, dress well and try to catch a guy's eye with a smile.
Step 3. Search internet dating sites (if you are over 18)
Many sites offer a 7-day trial to new members, so you can use it to browse profiles for potential boyfriends.
- Subscribe to at least 3 sites, so you have a wide selection of guys.
- Find 5 interesting guys that match your preferences of age, geographic location, personality or whatever and send them a message. Contacting 5 men increases the chances of reaching an agreement with at least one of them and starting a relationship by the end of the 7-day trial.
Step 4. Go to a "singles" meeting
Another surefire way to meet potential boyfriends in no time is to participate in an activity dedicated to those without a partner. You will meet many interested single men and already have a common hobby.
Step 5. Find potential speed dating boyfriends (if you are over 18)
This way of getting to know each other and starting a relationship is becoming more and more popular.
- Search the internet for speed dating in your area and sign up.
- You will have the opportunity to participate in many "dates" of 30-60 seconds with a dozen guys in a single evening.
- You may find someone you'd like to see again after just one evening of searching!
Part 2 of 3: Getting More Attractive
Step 1. Exit the "friend zone"
This now common term indicates situations in which there is a difference of feelings between two people; for example, when a guy would like to date you, but you "prefer if you stay friends". It can help to already have a friendship with the guy you like, but to make him your boyfriend you need to create the right chemistry and show yourself more attractive than just a friend.
- Wear clothes that showcase your physique and colors that suit your skin tone, eye color and hair color.
- Make your best features stand out with the right makeup and hairstyle.
- You don't have to worry too much about your looks, but try harder in the week you're trying to grab the attention of the guy you like.
Step 2. Develop an attractive attitude and personality
Physical appearance isn't the only factor that determines attraction. Your behavior can also attract or alienate men.
- Be sure of yourself. Show your courage and talk to the guy you're interested in. Confidence is an attractive quality and he will know you like him if you make an effort to give him attention.
- Do not overdo it. Don't overdo it, don't be too direct or aggressive in your attitudes, especially if the guy is shy.
- Try to make him feel comfortable when you speak by choosing fun and light topics. Also give him space to step forward.
- Make sure to compliment him often so that he feels more confident around you.
Step 3. Use positive body language
Your attitude can go a long way in communicating that you are available and interested in turning a friend into your boyfriend.
- Play gently with your hair as you speak. This way you let him know that you are available and at the same time draw attention to your beautiful hair.
- Look at him across the room and make eye contact when you speak.
- Touch his arm from time to time while you talk to get his attention and let him know that you are loving, outgoing, and physically comfortable with him.
Part 3 of 3: Taking the Next Step
Step 1. Send the friend request on Facebook to the guys you meet
Don't worry, this won't put you in the dreaded "friend zone". On the contrary, it is an important first step, especially if you have just met a man; show your resourcefulness and let him know that you are interested in him, at the same time opening a possible way of communication.
Step 2. Find opportunities to meet him
The more you see each other, the more you will have the chance to talk to each other and you to conquer it.
- Go to your favorite places at school, at work, at lunch or in the city. Of course, avoid acting like a stalker and don't wait around every corner, but plan your travels so you can meet him every day for the next week.
- Participate in groups and activities that interest the guy you like. This shows him that you have common interests, but you will also end up seeing each other more often if you are involved in the same activities.
Step 3. Ask him to go out with you
Don't wait for him to do it! You can take the initiative as a modern and emancipated girl.
- Clearly explain your feelings by telling him that you are interested in him as a boyfriend and would like to go out with him this weekend.
- If he says yes, you got what you wanted! You have a date and (probably) a boyfriend.
- If he refuses, don't worry. If he doesn't like you, it wouldn't be a good experience to hang out with him anyway. Pass it on to someone else; there are a lot of guys in the world and at least one who will like you just as you are.
Advice
- Remember there's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend! Being single can be a lot of fun and allows you to have more time for yourself. Above all, avoid getting desperate to find a boyfriend, because despair is almost never an attractive trait.
- Remember that you won't immediately like a guy from day one. It takes time. Make sure it has the right personality for you and that it is worth your time.
