Kenny Rogers met a beautiful waitress in a club and ended up marrying her. If you know a waitress you'd like to date, don't hesitate as you may find she's the girl of your dreams.
Steps
Step 1. Sit down at one of the tables he is in charge of
When he comes to take your order, check if he brings faith, be courteous and polite, but not pushy.
Step 2. Leave a substantial tip inside a napkin
Insert a bill into a folded napkin, but make sure the money sticks out of the napkin. Check that she has noticed the tip you left her, otherwise someone else might take it.
Step 3. Sit at her table several times, smiling at her and showing your interest in her
If she tells you that her shift is about to end, ask her to join you for a coffee.
Step 4. Leave her your phone number along with a tip and a short message explaining that you would like to go out for coffee with her one of these days
Step 5. Understand that if you've followed the steps above and she doesn't seem to love your attention, she may be married or engaged
Don't insist further. Accept the rejection and go on your way.
Advice
- Get to know her better and make sure she knows you too! A lot of people try to do it with the waitresses, and even if they are always friendly, they will often reject you unless they know you well.
- When you leave your message, use a clean napkin to write it down.
- Be smart. If she has been talking about the weather all day, try talking about a topic that you think might really interest her.
- Write your number on a € 20 note, or include it in the message you wrote on her napkin. If it doesn't work, you will avoid an awkward situation, while if it does, it might call you. Of course, a call does not necessarily imply that you will end up getting married.
- Don't get up to go talk to her. She might have several tables to take care of and you would end up chasing her from side to side and it could be awkward.
Warnings
- Don't expect him to give you his full attention. Remember that this is his job. If you constantly try to get her attention, you will end up annoying her and possibly getting her into trouble with her employers.
- Remember that while working as a waitress, it is common for many men to hit on her. Do not be jealous. If she likes you, she will accept compliments with a smile and continue to do her job.
- She probably won't want to eat at the place she works, or something like that. Take her to a different restaurant and maybe see a good movie.
- Try not to look like a stalker. If you always eat at the same table and all you do is look at her and smile at her, you could end up scaring her. In addition to smiling and winking at her, also try to talk to her and get to know her.
- As with any other woman, if she doesn't seem to like your court, it's best to stop there.
- Do not make explicit gestures or comments of a sexual nature, especially if you work together.
- Understand that she may be very busy at work. This could be a great excuse to ask her out. Say something like, “I know you have a lot to do here. What would you say if we met for a coffee somewhere when you're not working? " Decide the date of your appointment: don't leave it vague. Say, "Hey, I know you're working tonight, but should you come and have a drink with me this Saturday, or maybe you'd rather go another day?"
- Tip her the most generous tip you can afford. About 85% of what waitresses earn is in tips. It will be easier for you to impress her if you are confident, kind, interested And leave her a good tip instead of a few loose change.
