Impressing a girl can be a seemingly difficult task, but it's not as hard as it sounds. You have a chance to surprise her if you take care of your physical appearance, highlight your wonderful personality and demonstrate your unique skills and / or qualities. Once you get her attention, a few simple gestures, like smiling and looking her in the eye, can take you a long way. You can also try to organize exciting outings and give her the opportunity to exchange some favors so that she grows fond of you more and more. Just keep in mind that falling in love is characterized by an aura of mystery and that you probably won't be able to ignite love in every girl.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Striking a Girl
Step 1. Show the girl you like her that you have a great personality
Show her how amazing you are before you even ask her out. If you are positive, kind, funny, thoughtful and polite, you will be able to show her that you are a good guy so much that she can see you as an excellent boyfriend.
- If you feel that you are lacking in something from a character standpoint, work on improving your personality. For example, if you tend to be pessimistic, make it your goal every day to identify three good things in your everyday life. Over time, you will find it easier to see positive aspects in your daily life and you will also be able to increase your self-esteem, sleep better and develop empathic skills.
- Remember to talk to her. Some research has shown that a strong personality can be a strong attraction for people. However, if you don't talk to her, she will never notice the special guy you are.
Step 2. Make sure you look good and feel good about yourself
By looking after your appearance and personal well-being, you will be more confident in the presence of the girl you like and that may be enough to win her over. Don't neglect to eat healthily, exercise, get enough sleep and take care of your body every day. Feeling good about yourself, you will radiate happiness and security from all pores, characteristics that have always been attractive.
- Eat healthy and exercise regularly.
- Rest and relax every day.
- Make sure your hair is always in place.
- Wear clothes that reveal your personality.
- Use perfume and deodorant.
Step 3. Find some opportunities to showcase your unique skills and resources
Some women may find some aspects of a man interesting that are not so attractive in the eyes of others. The only way to find out if the girl you like finds your qualities attractive is to look for new opportunities to show them off.
For example, if you are an excellent guitarist, invite her to your band's rehearsals or shows. Or, if there's a sport you excel at, suggest that they attend one of your games
Step 4. Do what you like
Some girls are impressed by boys who show enthusiasm for their interests and find time for themselves. If there is something you enjoy doing, try to devote a lot of time to your passion. For example, if you are an avid reader, do not stop reading even when you are intent on winning the girl you are interested in. You will have more topics of discussion when you see her and maybe she might even be favorably impressed by accidentally finding yourself immersed in your reading at a bar table one afternoon.
Method 2 of 3: Ask her out
Step 1. Plan your approach
It may seem scary to ask a girl on a date, but if you get organized, you're less likely to be. Think about when, where and how you plan to invite her. Try to understand how you would like the approach to be and imagine for a few moments how you might receive a positive response.
Step 2. Dress well and try to be tidy
It's a good idea to look your best when you ask her out for the first time. If you're wearing a messy shirt and haven't showered in a couple of days, it won't make a good impression of you. On the other hand, you don't need to wear a tuxedo or go through a radical physical transformation before inviting her. Just take care of your personal hygiene, wear clothes that flatter your figure and fix your beard and hair.
Step 3. Look her in the eye
Confidence is a strong attractive component, so one of the things that can bring out your confidence the most is making eye contact when you ask her out. While you may feel more comfortable looking down and confusingly phrasing your invitation, know that this attitude won't impress her. Look her straight in the eye and hold your head up to show her how confident you are.
Step 4. Stand straight
Posture is also a sign of safety. If you collapse or stand with your arms folded, it may interpret this as a sign of fear or nervousness. Rather, stand straight with your arms at your sides. Keep your shoulders back and your chest a little out. This way, instead of approaching her with a hunched posture, you will show her how tall you are and the width of your chest, impressing her more.
Step 5. Be concise and direct
There is no need to talk to her for an hour before asking her out. In fact, if you take too long, you risk getting nervous. Instead, walk up to her, give her a quick compliment, and then ask her if she'd like to spend time together. If you'd rather call her, that's fine, but don't invite her via Facebook or text, otherwise she might think you're too nervous to talk to her.
Try saying, "Hi. You look really good! Look, I'm in a bit of a rush, but I wanted to ask if you were interested in going out with me sometime. Can I get your number?"
Step 6. Don't put too much weight on rejection
Sometimes, despite your best efforts, a girl may refuse to go out with you. Sometimes "no" is something you should expect when you invite someone on a date. If he refuses, don't be angry. Just don't put too much weight on us and try not to be too disappointed.
For example, say, "You know, you seem like such a nice, quiet person that I wanted to ask you out. But don't worry! Have a nice day!"
Method 3 of 3: Make Him Affect You
Step 1. Try to be amazing
If the girl you like accepts your invitation and you have a date with her, do everything you can to make sure she wants to go out with you again. Small gestures, such as opening the door, helping her put on or take off her coat, and paying for dinner, can surprise certain girls. If you really intend to be successful, show up at the door of her house with a bouquet of flowers, take her to some fabulous place and surprise her by offering advice on dishes to order at the restaurant.
To make an even more favorable impression on a first date, find out what she likes when you talk about this and that and arrange a date that takes into account her preferences. For example, if she likes horror movies, take her to see the latest one just released at the cinema. If you love Chinese cuisine, go to a Chinese restaurant for dinner. If she is a fan of mini golf, offer her to play a game
Step 2. Compliment her
The first time you pick her up or meet her on a date, try to give her a sincere compliment on something in particular. For example, you could just say to her, "You look great in this dress!" or "This hairstyle looks really good on you." Whatever you choose to say, be sure to compliment her directly, looking her in the eye as you express it.
Keep complimenting her as you see each other and get to know each other, but not just her physical appearance. Make sure you also praise her brainpower, sense of humor, and other qualities as you learn more about her. For example, you might say to her, "I really admire your talent in sports."
Step 3. Talk about safe topics at first
When you get to know a girl you like, be careful not to delve into personal matters too much. Limit yourself to topics that don't arouse a feeling of discomfort or that are too sensitive. For example, try asking her what genre of music she prefers, what movie she's recently seen, or what her hobbies are.
Avoid issues that might make her uncomfortable, such as your ex girlfriends, family conflicts, or your religious beliefs. Rather, focus on topics that facilitate your knowledge. Ask her what she likes and hates, about her friends and family, what her interests are and so on
Step 4. Ask her other questions to get to know her better
It's important to have fun while getting to know a girl, so be sure to ask her questions that highlight her personality. Once you know a little more about what she is interested in and doesn't like, you will also have the opportunity to delve into this kind of subject a little better.
For example, if she told you that her favorite movie is the one you saw on your last date, ask her what she liked best, how many times she's seen it, what her favorite character is, and so on. She will be struck by the fact that you haven't forgotten what she said to you and by your sincere interest in the things she likes
Step 5. Keep dating and be patient
Getting to know someone can take a long time, and the same goes for falling in love. However, don't be discouraged and don't be impatient. Keep giving your best to show her that you are okay with her and to get to know her. Try to consider every time you go out or spend time together as an opportunity to find out more about her and show her what makes you worthy of her love.
Advice
- If she doesn't like you, don't try to persuade her otherwise, or you'll make things worse. You can't force people to feel certain emotions.
- Avoid ignoring it when you are in the company of your friends. Friendships will always be there, and if you neglect it when you are with them, it may feel like you don't really care.
