You may become inhibited or even unnerved when you are in the presence of the guy you like. In order not to go unnoticed in his eyes, you have to look flawless, you have to show him that you care and flirt a little. More than anything else, try to show all your sympathy so that you seem like an open and funny person.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Appealing to the Boy You Like
Step 1. Make eye contact
Looking him in the eye, you will let him know that you listen carefully to what he is saying. It is also a silent form of communication. Generally speaking, try to maintain eye contact for about 30-60% of the conversation, especially when you are intent on listening to him without speaking.
- Don't stare, or you could make him uncomfortable and communicate hostility.
- On the other hand, if your eyes don't meet often, you risk looking untruthful or interested.
Step 2. Smile and laugh
A happy expression will make you seem approachable, nice and funny. It is exactly what you need if you want him to notice you and get close. If you don't smile at all, you may seem disinterested or even hostile.
- During a survey in which photos of unsmiling women were shown, 60% of men called them "moody", while 66% of female subjects surveyed called them "disinterested".
- On top of that, you can feel happier if you smile and indulge in a few laughs.
- That said, feel free to screw the people who order you to smile!
Step 3. Adopt proper posture
Keep your back straight and your chin elevated. Put your chest out, without overdoing it. This way, you will be confident and full of energy. Keep your legs and arms relaxed instead of crossing or crossing them. By doing so, you will communicate openness and friendliness.
- Get into the habit of doing a few simple exercises to improve your posture. Do yoga, Pilates, or some stretching.
- Avoid hunching your back or leaning against the wall, as this indicates insecurity or disinterest.
Step 4. Take the initiative
Don't be afraid to say hello to the guy you like! The woman is often taught to sit down and wait for the man to make the first move. However, by taking the initiative, you could be very attractive and stand out from the crowd.
Part 2 of 3: Take Care of Your Appearance to Make You Notice by the Guy You Like
Step 1. Choose your clothes and hairstyle carefully
According to some studies, it is important to look well if you want to impress someone. So, wash regularly. You don't necessarily have to do the styling as often as if you were going to a prom, spending hours in front of the mirror with the iron and the hairspray, but make sure your hair looks clean.
- Sometimes, the attention you put into preparing yourself and the choice of style depend on the type of guy you want to conquer. Some men are attracted to more outspoken women and soap and water, while others prefer the more refined and elegant looking ones.
- It smells good. Bathe or shower regularly and apply deodorant, but don't overdo it with perfume, sprays, and body lotions. The guy you have a crush on doesn't have to start sneezing or get a headache when he sees you because you put on too much perfume.
Step 2. Dress carefully
According to some research, flawless, formal and well-fitting dresses are considered the most attractive. In other words, you should wear clothes that are intact, clean, chic and able to highlight your shapes.
- That said, it all depends on which guy you're trying to impress. Some people find a more casual look appealing. Regardless of your style, if you want to look and feel more confident, dress to be comfortable.
- According to some research, red increases people's appeal.
Step 3. Keep your teeth clean
According to a study, the teeth are "what in people corresponds to the peacock's tail". In fact, it has been shown that those with white, bright and perfectly aligned teeth are considered more attractive. Therefore, wash them and use dental floss, and if you have the opportunity to correct a defect with orthodontic braces, do not hesitate to take it out!
Part 3 of 3: Discreet Flirting
Step 1. Listen to it carefully
Let him know you like him by paying attention to him as he talks. You don't have to follow what he says verbatim, but clearly show him that you are interested in his speech by nodding, smiling, and responding at the appropriate time.
- Ask him questions related to what he says. If he tells you that he feels sad about his grandmother's death, ask him what he liked to do with her. If he is thrilled by the basketball game he has to play in the afternoon, ask him what role he will play in.
- You should listen to him carefully because when you meet him again you will have some ideas for conversation. Some jokes may also arise between you to help establish a stronger intimacy.
Step 2. Learn more about his friends
This way, you will better understand the guy you like and know if you are truly compatible. Plus, you'll have additional opportunities to interact with him and get noticed, as well as the benefit of making new friends, even if he doesn't notice you.
Step 3. Talk to him even if you are having difficulty
If you are particularly nervous around her, you will probably find it hard to strike up a conversation. Try thinking about some conversation topic before you see it. Reflect on what you have in common, on your friends, on the events you both look forward to (or fear) and see if you can find some more ideas to chat with him.
Jokes and jokes are a great way to interact with him, but be careful not to make fun of other people. You don't have to give the impression that you're a bully or mean girl just to get someone's attention
Step 4. Invite them to do something together
To begin, ask them to join a group you are organizing. The purpose can be a school project or going to the cinema. Just let him know that you are interested in his presence. Once you have become familiar with the group activities, suggest that they do something on their own.
It sounds strange, but a study of more than 1,000 participants found that people who love roller coasters find their friends more attractive after a ride on these rides. So, you might think about inviting him to the carnival
Step 5. Accidentally touch it
If you are sitting close together and your legs are touching, be careful if he moves away quickly or if he maintains contact. In the latter case, he is likely to care, so try to be a little bolder by accidentally brushing your arm the next time you are alone.
- Don't overdo it if you don't reciprocate or stay still.
- He may also have an extremely shy temper and be terrified that his arm is touching yours, so don't overdo it and don't touch it if it seems uncomfortable. Even if he moves his legs when they brush against yours, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you, so try a few other tactics if you see fit.
Step 6. Be yourself
It is the hardest thing! If you try to follow all the advice you've received to get someone's attention to the letter, you may feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable. When in doubt, try to behave as naturally as possible. Treat the guy you like like all your friends, and you'll have a very good chance he'll eventually notice you.
