Can't find the courage to ask the girl you like at school to go out with you? Read the tips in this article to find the right inspiration.
Steps
Step 1. Do some research
Too often many people believe that it is enough to be themselves and everything will turn out for the best. In the presence of a girl you really like, you won't be able to be yourself when the time comes to ask her out. You will stutter and lose all your self-esteem.
Step 2. Calm down
It will not be the end of the world or if he says yes or if he says no. Take a deep breath and relax.
Step 3. Expect the worst
If you go to the person you like with the belief that they will say yes, you will be devastated in the event of a rejection and it will take you much longer to recover. If you go to her prepared to receive no for an answer, it won't be as much of a shock.
Step 4. Don't blurt out what you have in mind right away
You may catch this girl unprepared and she won't know how to answer you. Try to introduce the topic slowly. Start by giving her some compliments.
Step 5. Don't try to take your breath away
If you tell her that you want to give her your heart for eternity, you will only scare her. Say something like "You know, I really like you", without exaggerating. This sentence has a double meaning to which we will return later.
Step 6. Be cheerful
If you go to her with a straight face, the girl will think that the relationship she might have with you will always be like this. If you go to her smiling and you can make her laugh, however, you will be able to start off on the right foot.
Step 7. Be honest, but remember that you are not under oath
You don't have to tell her everything about yourself; some things are better to keep quiet or tell them when you get to know each other better. Starting the relationship by making her a full-blown confession would not be a good idea.
Step 8. Be prepared for his reaction
If she says no, say "I thought you should still know I like you" or something like that. Don't make a fuss of it and you will at least be able to remain friends.
Step 9. Don't apologize
If you keep apologizing for being a fool, the girl you like will feel uncomfortable. If you feel the urge to apologize, hold back! Also, don't apologize for apologizing.
Step 10. Remember that the words he said don't mean he can't change his mind in the future
They don't even mean he'll change his mind tomorrow. Don't lose hope - but don't have any false illusions either.
Step 11. If the answer is yes, continue to behave with her exactly as you did before
The girl will appreciate enjoying your relationship as she used to. Sometimes you go out as a couple, though, and do things like in love.
