You are sitting next to each other in the classroom and no one is doing anything in particular. It is the perfect opportunity to ask for his mobile number! But wait, how do you plan to do it?
Steps
Here are some methods to choose from:
Method 1 of 4: Casual and Elegant
Step 1. Start a conversation five minutes before the lesson ends
Talk about his interests, such as his favorite TV shows or movies, the sports he plays or the pastimes he enjoys. Make sure you are calm and casual, but make sure you look interested.
Step 2. A minute or so before the bell rings, look at the clock and say:
"Oh it's almost over. Give me your number, I'll call you later!" Don't say it too excitedly. Stay calm, as if it's something you always do.
Step 3. If he refuses, don't be upset and exclaim:
"Oh, ok. We'll talk about it in person tomorrow, maybe." Don't be too angry if he says no. Some guys don't feel comfortable with such requests. However, if he declines, wait some time before introducing the topic again. Otherwise, he will understand that you are interested in him.
Step 4. If he says yes and gives you his number, then don't act like an elated girl right in front of him
Say thank you and smile. You can let yourself go later!
Method 2 of 4: Directly
(This method should only be used if you are already friends or if you are a very daring person)
Step 1. Go to him and ask him for his number by saying something like:
"You know, I was checking my contacts the other night and realized I don't have your number" or "I really need your number!".
Method 3 of 4: In a Sneaky Way
If you are friends, it will work better: when you notice that he has the phone in his hand, ask him to see it and if he lets you enter your phone number in his address book. It's very nice to act like you're not exactly sure what you're doing (however, if you have a very basic phone don't do it; only use this method if you have a Blackberry, Android or iPhone). Then he exclaims, "Oh, I put my number in your address book. What's your number?" and hand him your cell phone to register his number.
Step 1. Once again, if she refuses, don't take it too hard and keep doing what you were doing
If he accepts, wait until he is gone before cheering.
Method 4 of 4: Fun or Creative
The first only works if you are friends. The second, if you attend the same class or if you have some courses or lessons in common.
Step 1. Go to him and tell him:
"I don't want to use the usual excuse like: 'I lost my phone, can you lend me yours?' so could you give me your number without making me use an excuse?"
Step 2. Or:
take a piece of paper, write your name, your phone number and a nice phrase (like: have fun!) and insert it into the cap of a pen. If you go to school together and he asks you to borrow a pen, the note will be there. If he does not find it and wants to return the pen to you at the end of the lessons, tell him: "Keep it. And check it carefully …" If he also has feelings for you, he will call you or send you a message. Here you are, now you have his number and he yours. But remember not to overwhelm him with messages or calls unless he is the first to do so. Nobody likes nagging and needy people.
Advice
- Be confident and behave naturally.
- Get to know him better before asking for his phone number. Just asking him, without even knowing him, might seem too strange.
- Be sure of yourself! Even if he refuses, don't get discouraged! It doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you.
- You can also ask a friend for his number. If you decide to ask a friend of his, look for an alibi: for example, that you need it to ask him for his homework. You could also use it as an excuse when you call or text him. It's a quick and easy way to start a conversation. When he has given you your homework, don't just say "thank you" but keep talking asking him how he is or what he is doing. In the end he's the guy you like, shouldn't you try to strike up a conversation?
- Never tell him you like him via text message.
- You can also ask your friend to give the guy you like your phone number and wait for him to call or text you.
- You can ask one of your friends for his number. But remember: many like to talk and gossip!
