If they've broken your heart more than once, chances are you want to turn yourself into a heartbreaker. Full self-confidence is the key. Interested in learning more? Keep reading.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Part One: The Right Attitude
Step 1. Have fun
It's simple: the people who seem to be enjoying themselves are the ones who attract the most people around them. One of the quickest ways to get attention is to show a more carefree version of yourself.
- This is easier in certain contexts, so choose the right venue before going out. For example, dance-based clubs, parties and events are ideal. Let yourself be carried away by the music without worrying about what others will think. The message you will convey is self-confidence and a carefree attitude.
- Smile often, even when you don't feel like it. Laugh at jokes, even when they're not that hilarious.
- Check your laugh. A flirtatious chuckle will attract more positive attention than a coarse one.
Step 2. You decide what to do and when, don't let your opinions be pushed aside
- If a guy you're flirting with offers you to seclude yourself, check the situation by telling him you prefer to dance or chat for a while, even if you would like to follow him. Then, at the right time, let him know that you are ready. The key is to show that everything runs by your own rules, and not those of others.
- If he asks you where you want to go, suggest a place, even if you don't want to go there. Even in this way you will still be able to maintain control over the situation.
Step 3. Play with the crowd
When surrounded by strangers, play around with the looks of some guy you've targeted. Some may feel put off by the competition, while others will accept the challenge or find your obvious confidence attractive.
- Another advantage created by this situation is to project a certain cheekiness, suggesting the idea that you can be happy without always having the same man by your side. It sounds counterproductive, but what you are doing is throwing a challenge.
- When approaching someone in particular, focus most of your attention on them. To be a heartbreaker, you need to let a glimpse of at least a glimmer of hope.
Step 4. Reveal only the emotions that are beneficial to you
Keep your deepest thoughts and feelings hidden, reveal only those that can help you become a true seductress.
- Have light conversations away from serious topics. Don't get too well known.
- If your mood suddenly turns sour, resist the urge to let him know. Stay detached and confident until you get home.
Method 2 of 3: Second Part: The Right Look
Step 1. Show a few inches of skin, but don't turn half naked
Choose clothes that are sexy, but not attention-seeking and not vulgar. Uncover and, at the same time, cover up enough to spark the imagination.
- Show some cleavage, but if you do, don't wear a mini skirt.
- If you hide the neckline, opt for a mini skirt. You can also wear a dress. Show off your best traits. But be careful: if you see too many inches of leather as soon as you sit down, maybe your skirt or dress is not of a suitable length to make you comfortable.
- Backless tops and dresses are also sexy when worn right. During the day, this part of the body is almost always covered, so putting it on display evokes sensuality, but without giving rise to a vulgar effect. Also, in this case you won't have to worry about the possibility that they let you see more than you should. Just make sure you don't notice the bra.
Step 2. Enhance yourself by wearing clothes that draw attention to your most beautiful features
- If your body shape is rectangular or you have few curves, try to highlight the waist with a belt or shirt that ties in this area. This trick also serves to disguise wide hips. Accentuating the waist highlights curves and creates a harmonious silhouette.
- If you are very skinny, wear straight cut shirts, dresses and skirts. In order not to have a square figure, choose your exact size. Pieces of clothing that are too large will make you look sloppy.
- If you want to draw attention to the breasts, wear eye-catching necklaces, deep V-neck tops and tank tops. Also consider the garments decorated in this area.
- Do you want to show off your hips or legs? Wear detailed skirts, such as pleats and decorations, and pencil skirts, especially if you have long legs.
Step 3. Spray some lingering perfume
Some fragrances will assist you more than others in your attempt to be a seductress.
- Avoid floral and marine notes. They are ideal for a casual look, but they are too light.
- Focus on the woody, musky or perhaps oriental ones, which are richer and spicier.
Step 4. Spray some perfume on the wrists, behind the knees and ears and at the base of the neck
Don't overdo it, or you'll make those around you nauseous.
Step 5. Fit the right shoes
Needless to say, high heels are a must, but they will have to suit you.
- Choose a pair that makes you comfortable, otherwise you will walk badly and risk getting hurt. No, this way you will not be able to seduce!
- There are also limits when it comes to shoes. If you can't decide whether a pair of shoes is sexy or vulgar, you probably won't feel comfortable wearing it.
- High shoes with straps are feminine and go with most dresses and skirts. High ankle boots, on the other hand, can guarantee you a more aggressive look.
Step 6. Make up to accentuate the best parts of the face, without excess
Emphasize the eyes and lips and keep the skin natural.
- Use foundation and concealer to hide blemishes. Set with a touch of powder. Use products with a natural finish.
- If you decide to indulge yourself with eye makeup and not lip makeup, apply mascara, trying not to create lumps, eyeliner and eyeshadow, opting for smoky makeup over bright ones.
- Do you prefer to emphasize the lips? Apply a classic red lipstick. Avoid the slightly more original ones. If your eye makeup is already loaded, apply a gloss.
Method 3 of 3: Part Three: Cultivate Your Heartbreaker Side
Step 1. Invest in body care
Keep fit and don't neglect personal hygiene.
- Monitor your weight by eating a balanced diet and exercising. The calories consumed should equal those burned through exercise. To lose weight, consume more than you put in. To put on a few pounds, introduce more than you consume.
- Shower every day and wash your hair according to their needs.
- If your hair is brittle and damaged, nourish and moisturize it. If you have oily hair, opt for products aimed at rebalancing the sebum.
- Moisturizes the skin after a shower. Avoid exposing yourself to the sun; if you like to do it, spread some good sunscreen.
Step 2. Keep the men on the rope
Don't go any further with who you just intend to play with. A few kisses while flirting are acceptable for a heartthrob, but don't give the impression that you are an easy girl. Rather, your challenge is also not to give in to courtship right away.
As a Marina & The Diamonds song goes, “You have to look chaste. / Greet him at the door of your house and let him want you even more”
Step 3. Don't get attached or attached to anyone
Don't treat a particular man in a special way.
Once you fall in love, your heartthrob days will be just a distant memory. It is not wrong to do it, God forbid, but consider if you are willing to give up your lifestyle
Step 4. Don't go to the same clubs and people too often
If you are recognized by a lot of people, you may get an unflattering reputation, and many may stop coming close to you.
Warnings
- Remember the saying "Reap what you sow". A heartthrob look and attitude can help protect you and attract the opposite sex, but if you hurt others, you risk finding yourself alone.
- Mark the boundary line. Occasionally flirting is one thing, running fictitious relationships for gifts, money and attention is another. In the first case, it will be evident that your purpose is to have fun, in the second, you may have an unnecessarily cruel attitude and get yourself into trouble.
