Sometimes, you meet someone who makes fun of you. And you realize it. If, and only IF you're sure you really like this guy, you can try to go for it. Now, it doesn't always work, but it's not impossible to get a heartthrob to make a romantic commitment to you.
Steps
Step 1. Find out if he's kidding you
If you're sure he's going out or sleeping with other girls, it's time to take action.
Step 2. The next step is to try to be less available
Behave in a cool and controlled manner. If the heartthrob hasn't been hiding that he went out / slept with other girls, act like you don't care at all. Go out with members of the opposite sex as much as possible.
Step 3. This way he will be very, very confused
He won't understand why it's no longer your number one priority. Human beings want what they cannot have. By making you unavailable, he will want you more. He will think more of you.
Step 4. If he wants to sleep with you again, kiss you or whatever, try saying:
Um and why? You are not my boyfriend. That way she'll respect you more and think you're different from other girls.
Step 5. At this point, if you are doing everything right, he should have downloaded the others and is thinking only of you
He may even think he is in love with you. He keeps making you want him, but slowly re-enters his life. Don't go out with other guys, but don't ignore them either. It is not yet time to go back with him.
Step 6. Once you realize that the heartthrob has realized that he really likes you - more than the other girls - you can let your guard down a little and work hard
However, since the guy still has a heartthrob past, you'll always have to keep him on edge. Sometimes act like you are in love, other times like you are not.
Step 7. If you are really meant for each other, maybe she will really work hard
Good luck!
Warnings
- When you get wanted, don't ignore it and don't be mean or rude in any way. He might get the wrong idea.
- It might not work. If the heartthrob isn't interested or doesn't like you, STOP. You are simply not meant for each other.
