Guys, guys, guys … Either you love them or you hate them. Since you are on this page, the second hypothesis probably applies to you. But how to find one just for you? It's a question as old as the world, but wikiHow is here to help. Read on to find out how to make him think you're cute and nice and make him fall in love with you.
Steps
Step 1. Start talking to several guys
There are girls who say, "Oh, we're never going to get to know any guys." It's a big lie. Look around you. There are guys everywhere! All you have to do is take the time to get to know them. You never know in life, that weird boy who comes to school with you could be the boy of your dreams! Talk to him and try to find out if it is worth spending time with him, and if you have something in common. If not, move on to someone else! Don't be one of those who jump from one person to another leaving the previous one to grope in the dark. Be nice, just tell him, "Well, see you around then!". Just to be safe, at least wait until the conversation is over.
Step 2. Start talking to him about various topics
Try to find out about his interests and hobbies. You will become more and more friends over time. Don't jump too much from topic to topic, though - he'll think you're a little weird if you out of the blue try asking him if he likes carrots. Other than that, it's best not to ask him questions that can be answered with a yes or a no. For example, instead of asking him if he likes dogs, ask him what kind of animals he likes.
Step 3. Try to get along with his friends
If his friends don't like you, he probably won't like you either… well, unless his friends are jealous. Avoid explicitly asking his friends if only jealous, though.
Step 4. Find out what the kids want
We all know that most guys are attracted to femininity and having all the curves in the right place. But what else do the boys want? Here are some "preferences":
- Good-looking.
- Self-confidence.
- An always sunny girl.
- Intelligence.
- Sense of humor.
- Patience.
- Generosity.
- Being sophisticated.
- Character (not arrogance).
- A nice smile.
Step 5. Make a list of all the things you like about yourself
You have beautiful eyes? Well, start using the pencil to make them stand out even more. You have beautiful hair? Try straightening them, curling them, styling them in different ways or adding various accessories, such as colored hair clips! The point is, if you focus on the things about yourself that you like, the guys will start to notice them too.
Step 6. Get the kids to notice you
Try to "accidentally" stumble in front of them (but not too obvious, or they will notice that you are faking it). You will certainly get their attention! It will probably ask you if everything is ok. If he does, he should, try saying something like, "Hey, nice shirt", or "I really like your shoes!". You can also tell him something funny. However, limit yourself to a few exchanges, do not start talking too much. Try not to seem never desperate for attention, because that's something guys hate. Just be firm and smile all the time.
Step 7. Compliment him, one way or another
Try telling one of his friends that [boy's name] seemed particularly nice to you today (or another similar compliment). This friend is likely to report everything to the person concerned. Of course, don't overdo it or you'll look desperate. Make sure it doesn't look like you're telling everyone that he's cute except him. Also try complimenting him directly. Another technique is to talk to your friends while he's around and say something like, "Don't you guys think [boy's name] is particularly cute today?"
Step 8. Smile when it passes by
Do it very casually. Send him a smile that shouts, "Hi, I can't talk to you now, but look for me later."
Step 9. Pay attention to her body language
If he looks at you often, it means he might be interested in you.
Step 10. Go out as friends a few times, show him how you are outside of school
Start by asking him if he can come to your home to help you study.
Step 11. Behave normally
Try not to look weird when he's around, and avoid flirting too explicitly.
Step 12. If he tells you what he likes about a girl, wait about a week and start following his preferences
If it's too much, Not to do it. If a guy really likes you, he'd never ask you to dye your hair or get a piercing. Only do this if you want to reflect their preferences too. Don't change yourself for him, it's not worth it.
Step 13. Don't pretend to be who you are not just to please him
If you know he's a huge video game fan and you've never even heard of Zelda, don't pretend. He would notice, and take you for an idiot. However, it's a good idea to learn about the things he likes and try to pursue some of his interests, as long as it doesn't take your time away.
Step 14. If he stares at your lips while you are talking, it means he likes you and wants to kiss you
Step 15. Get to know his friends
If you impress his friends, they might reassure him that you are the one for him, but if they don't, don't take it.
Advice
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Guys don't like girls who:
- They smell bad
- They are too direct
- They always complain
- I'm out of control
- They constantly talk about their exes
- I'm always on a diet
- They always argue about couple choices
- They don't know how to have fun
- They never play along
- They are not sure of themselves
- They always talk about the actor they have a crush on
- Go through things in a relaxed way. Guys don't like girls who want to be in charge at all costs, who are rude to other people, who make a tragedy of everything, etc.
- Be nice not the boys. Not TOO cute, but have fun hanging out with them and don't be rude. Be nice, smile often, laugh at their jokes, and most importantly, be yourself. Don't pass for someone who acts like crazy and makes a scene about the slightest thing, but try to pass for a sweet, quiet and nice girl.
- Don't feel embarrassed if you burp "by mistake" while you were talking, or if you did something wrong. They'll think it's nice, but Not do it too often or they will think badly of you.
Warnings
- Don't pretend to be what you are not. It is not attractive at all. You will surely find someone who likes you just the way you are.
- Always brush your teeth!
- Make sure he's the right guy for you and that he respects you before you slip into a serious relationship.
- Remember: all guys are different! What one likes may not like another. Being yourself is super important.
- Make sure you really like him before asking him out.
- Don't stick with him all the time or you'll look desperate, and that's something guys hate.
