If you've had a fight with a boyfriend, whether he's your boyfriend, your best friend, or any friend, below you'll find some steps you should follow to see if he still cares about being your friend (or being your boyfriend, whichever comes first. era) and hanging out with you, finding out if you still hold a special place in her heart.
Steps
Step 1. Check if he ignores you
If he does, it could simply mean that he doesn't know what to tell you because he doesn't want you to know he wants to make up. Maybe he wants you to take the first step.
Step 2. See if, once you get in touch with him, he says you bother him or responds with phrases like "Don't talk to me" or "Stop texting me."
If he does, he may want to take a dig at you and hide his feelings… unless you've really texted him a lot or searched for him too much, really bothering him. In this case, you should just leave him alone, as he has probably gotten sick of your insistence. Let him calm down, and at that point you will see that he will come to you and feel guilty or sorry for treating you badly. Little but sure!
Step 3. If she sees you interested in other guys, try to spy on her reaction
If he sees you with other guys, does he seem jealous or indifferent? Does he do anything to get your attention? Or does he ignore you?
Step 4. If you see that you hang out with other people in general, how do you react?
Are you impressed? Angry? Or does he seem to feel guilty because he cares about you and wants you to get back together? Be careful of his reaction!
Step 5. Find out if he avoids you
If he does, he may not be prepared to talk to you or he is thinking of a way to make peace without you noticing: avoiding you could be a ploy to make you end up obsessed with him.
Step 6. Check if he talks badly about you to other people
If he does, he may have gotten jealous because you paid attention to others and not him: perhaps he is talking badly about you to make them drift away and don't want to hang out with you anymore.
Step 7. If you don't pay attention to him, does he seem impressed?
This is the fundamental step, the most important thing you need to check. How does it behave when you ignore it? Even if it's only for a day or two, or even weeks or months, be careful of his behavior.
Step 8. Now you can find out if he really still wants you in his life
Step 9. Always remember:
"In the end, the truth always comes out, no matter what happens."
Step 10. Also remember:
"The more you hate someone, the more you love them …". True: this saying always fits.
Step 11. Good luck
Advice
- If he doesn't want you to be a part of his life again, then obviously he doesn't realize how special you are! Cheer up!
- Stay cheerful and positive regardless of everything else - don't let this guy get you down!
- If he's mean and says unpleasant things, don't take it badly - he's probably insecure or nervous, and can't show his true feelings!
