Don't feel embarrassed if you have a thing for your partner's sexy and seductive feet. There is a way to confess to someone, which is special to you, about your foot fetish relationship without causing a stir. If you want to know how to admit your passion for feet, follow these simple steps.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Part 1: Set the Foundation
Step 1. Don't confess your passion right away
If you want your partner to accept your fetish interest, the worst thing you can do is immediately blurt out everything. If you're on your first date, or your first kiss, say "I'm a fetishist!" will probably make your night fail. If you want to reveal to your partner that you love feet and get the best results, you have to wait for the right moment - when you get to know each other a little better.
- It would be better to wait until you are in a sexual relationship before talking about your foot fetish. Otherwise you run the risk of putting too much meat on the fire.
- On the other hand, there's no need to wait "too long" - if you let too much time pass before admitting your lifelong obsession with feet, you can get in serious trouble.
Step 2. When you feel ready, start touching your partner's feet
When you feel more comfortable with the person you care about, it's time to take their pulse. If you are in bed and more or less undressed, you can try kissing the other person on the stomach, legs and then lowering to the feet. Don't go straight to your feet or you could scare your partner. You can start touching his feet while watching TV, giving him / her a sexy massage.
Don't start licking or sucking your partner's feet just yet - again, that would be too much meat in too short a time
Step 3. Pay attention to how he or she reacts
How does your partner react when you dedicate yourself to his feet? Do you hear murmurs of approval, perhaps a phrase like "oh I like this", and see a pleasant, relaxed smile on her face? If so, things are going well. If the other person walks away, or somehow says they don't like their feet being touched, it's time to stop.
If your partner reacts negatively, don't be discouraged. You can still change things. This does not mean that you can resume focusing your attention on your feet until you have addressed the discussion
Step 4. If your partner reacts positively, compliment him on his feet
Don't overdo it - just say "You have such sexy feet" or "I love your feet". Don't make it clear that it's fetishism yet - just tell him that he or she specifically has wonderful feet. This will make it easier for your partner to accept that in addition to their feet in particular, that part of the body in general has a special attraction for you.
Also, if you are a guy and you are with a girl, you can compliment her on her feet when you go out at night. You can say "Your feet look great in these shoes". Just don't overdo it
Method 2 of 2: Part 2: Admit foot fetish
Step 1. Choose the right time to do it
What is the right moment to admit a fetish? There is no golden rule but you probably shouldn't do it on your first few releases. Instead, pick a time when you and the person you're interested in are already dating and enjoying each other - even in intimate moments. You can talk about it when you get home or before you leave.
Confessing in the middle of an outing or cuddling moment could cause a reaction you aren't prepared for and disrupt a mood (although it won't ruin it forever!)
Step 2. Act with a little nervousness
Even if your fetish has been going on for years and it seems totally normal to you, you need to take your partner's emotions into consideration. Surely you think feet are sexy - so many people share this thought. Nonetheless, for a person who has no fetishes, this novelty will come a little unexpected. So don't give this information in the natural tone you would say you think it's going to rain.
- Start by saying, "There is something I need to tell you …" and give your partner time to understand that you have something important to say so that you can get their attention.
- Don't act "too" nervously or you'll make your partner nervous too. Only act with enough agitation to make your partner think that you care a lot what he thinks about it.
Step 3. Spit the toad
Be honest. Just say, "You know, I have an interest in feet." Or "I want you to know that I am a foot fetishist". That's all. There is no need to explain why, how long you have this interest or how much you love attractive feet. Just say it, let them know, and listen to the relief you feel inside at finally confessing. Look him in the eye, wait for his reaction.
If it doesn't tell you anything, you can ask "What do you think?". But it's generally a good idea to give your partner some time to process the news
Step 4. Respond appropriately to your partner's feelings
There are a few ways this news can be received. The best case is when your partner says "Really? How bizarre. I don't care at all!". However, your partner is more likely to want more information or don't know how to react. The worst case is when your partner does not accept your fetish at all and thinks that the feet are a rough and not very sexy part of the body. In that case, you have done your part and now is the time to be mature and relate to your partner's reaction in a calm, adult way. Whatever happens, you can be proud of yourself for being honest.
- If your partner accepts your fetish immediately, great! Get ready for a night of perverted fun.
- If your partner needs some time to accept this, take it easy. Don't try to touch his feet too much in the next sexual encounter - wait for your partner to give you the green light.
- If your partner is bluntly against it, there's no need to force it. This will only make things worse. It's your time to decide if you can live in a relationship that doesn't allow you to indulge in fetishism.
Advice
- If she likes nail polish, tell her that she might try a certain color or that a certain color would look good on her feet. This should work to fascinate her. Over time she will notice that you are always looking at her feet and will start asking questions. If you're lucky you won't find it strange.
- As soon as she gets back to her apartment / house, don't just take off her shoes to devote yourself to your feet. In most cases this will cause you problems.
