We all know how hard it can be to discover that the person we like, or love, does not reciprocate our feelings, and for some it can be more difficult to accept it than for others. But the truth is, you have to learn to accept the situation, because no one, not even the people themselves, can decide who to be attracted to. To deal with that uncomfortable feeling, follow the advice in this helpful guide.
Steps
Step 1. Smile
Even if it is the smile of a suffering heart, think positively and smile at the world. It may seem very difficult, or even impossible, but try it and soon your real feelings will be infected.
Step 2. Eat healthily and drink plenty of water
You should do it anyway, but if you eat right you will look good and if you look good you will feel good! Everything helps.
Step 3. Accept the situation and move on
As harsh as it may sound, just accept it. It may take some time, but thousands of people are rejected every day, this is just one of those times. This does not mean that you are not a nice, funny or good looking person, you are simply not the right partner for that particular person.
Step 4. Girls:
Listen to songs that talk about independence and argue that it is not necessary to have a man to feel complete. I Don't Need A Man by The Pussycat Dolls is a perfect example of this. A bad example is Stephen of Ke $ ha, because in this song he looks desperate. She wants Stephen to call her back and stuff like that.
Step 5. Distract yourself
Distracting your mind will go a long way in making you feel better, read a book, play games, draw, play an instrument, watch TV or do whatever else may engage your mind elsewhere. Time will lessen the feelings of suffering.
Step 6. Don't show your sadness
The last thing you want is for the person you like to feel guilty for not being attracted to you. Be cheerful and positive in his presence, to show that you don't care.
Step 7. Find someone else
The ocean is full of fish! And in case this pain has completely removed you from wanting to have a partner, just laugh and have fun with friends and girlfriends. Either way you will be able to feel better!
Step 8. Remember it's not worth it
If that person hasn't been awake enough to realize how awesome you are, obviously their mind needs control. Don't cry for those who don't deserve it. Look around you, you will meet a person who will appreciate you for who you are much more quickly than you think.
Advice
- Just remember that this is not the end of the world.
- Don't look sad and don't persecute the person who rejected you, you don't want them to feel upset.
- Another suitable song is Charice's 'Louder'.
