Doesn't your best friend pay you much attention? Do you happen to feel left out? Do you feel you don't like it anymore? Welcome to the club.
If you want your friend to appreciate you more - say he is older and you think he is more intelligent, beautiful, kind … - go to him and talk to him. Do not be shy! And if he thinks the same things about you, even better!
Steps
Step 1. First stop feeling sorry for yourself
Don't think that he will run to you as if nothing had happened. Most of the time, this friend wants to feel important. They are people who seek and receive importance from everyone, but do not understand that they must also reciprocate. Get up and go sit next to him. Try to use every opportunity to get close. Sit with him at lunch, ask him if he wants to go for a walk… People might say something like “Don't you think they're too stuck together?” Don't care. They are just envious.
Step 2. If the first point isn't effective, try phrases like this:
“So, who are you dating these days? We should see each other more often… what do you think?”.
Step 3. If you can, try to talk to him about it, but not more than once, or you will look desperate
Step 4. Don't get too attached to him
If you call him, try to be a little detached. Basically, show him personality but not too much. For example, if you call it it should go something like this: Hi… (Hi) So, how are you? Etc. Then after a quarter of an hour say something like "Oh man I have to go, see you soon!". In this way he will be left with the desire to talk to you again.
Step 5. If he needs anything, like carrying bags or buying a book when he's busy, see if you can help him
Step 6. In any case:
don't say anything behind her back, not even positive things, because it could backfire.
Advice
- To get someone's attention, sometimes you have to stop giving them. Keep your distance for a few days … He will be curious to know what you are doing. Just because he's not considering you doesn't mean he doesn't want to have you around!
- Invite him to places he likes, to build new pleasant memories together!
- Make him laugh. Think about how you made him laugh in the past!
- Try to share some hobbies with him, and pretend to be surprised when you meet him at the same class as you, like "Hey, I didn't know you joined the gym!".
- Be weird. Believe it or not, it really works. If you're weird, it's easier for you to notice yourself and ask you to spend time together. It works, especially when in company.
- Do you want to attract someone's attention? Then read on. You have to talk a lot. You can't just say "Hello". That's all? And you should act like you are in your own home. Do not be shy. Make him laugh like you make your brother or sister laugh. But if you are an only child, then make him laugh as you make yourself laugh all the time.
- Try to watch the same movies or shows that he watches, and to hear the same music; and make sure you are well looked after if you go out together.
- Be kind all day, and your life could change forever.
