Taurus (April 20 - May 20) is an earth zodiac sign, dominated by Venus. Men of this sign are hard workers, faithful, reliable and practical. They always carry out their duty and their nature makes them excellent partners. Unfortunately, these characteristics can manifest themselves as obstinacy and make them unbearable. Thankfully, there are a few things you can do to better understand your Taurus mate and make sure your relationship is lasting.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Getting your attention
Step 1. Be patient and gain their trust
Taurus men are incredibly loyal, but only with time. It takes them longer than other people to open up. Don't give up and don't lose your temper: once you gain the trust of one of them, they will be yours forever.
- He may have a hard time talking about his emotions, preferring to turn to facts. This can lead to him ignoring you altogether if he isn't comfortable with you.
- Don't be discouraged if the guy doesn't seem to give you attention at first. You will quickly understand if he likes you, because Taurus men often make explicit gestures such as buying flowers or chocolates.
Step 2. Talk about your successes with passion
Taurus men attach great importance to their careers and love to complete projects. Talk about your passions and past successes and he will feel in tune with you and see you as his soul mate.
- Taurus men also love money. Knowing about finance and the world economy will make you more attractive to them.
- Be careful when talking about your successes. Those born under this sign prefer to provide for the maintenance of their family in the first person, so they do not appreciate women who are too independent.
Step 3. Ask for his advice and guidance
Taurus men love to be in control of the situation, impart their knowledge to others and be involved in all decisions, even on matters that don't concern them.
With a guy of this sign, you need to be vulnerable, even if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Ask him for help or tell him about a difficult situation you are in
Step 4. Make the first move and invite him on a traditional date
While some Taurus men like to take risks, most of them are more conservative than other guys. Rather than go skydiving, a boy of this sign probably prefers a more traditional outing, such as dinner and a movie or an evening spent at home.
- Usually, Taurus men are not as direct and abrupt as those of other zodiac signs. This means that you will have to be the one to step forward, even if you are not used to it.
- The more time you spend talking to a guy of this sign, the more he will want your company.
- Taurus men are often not very good at speaking, but they are excellent listeners.
Step 5. Dress and behave with class
Taurus men love the finer things in life and don't mind flaunting their luxurious lifestyle. Even if they still appreciate sexy physiques, don't be stingy or you'll push them away.
- They seek long-term relationships, not one-night stands.
- Minimize the use of dialectal terms and try to give yourself an intellectual tone.
Method 2 of 3: Doing Things Taurus People Appreciate
Step 1. Take an outdoor trip with him
Taurus men appreciate outdoor activities, such as camping, hiking or just a day in nature. If you want to make a boy of this sign happy, plan a camping trip or a surprise excursion.
- Other such activities include bike rides, picnics or rock climbing.
- Taurus men are strong and determined, so they will often take charge of pitching tents or performing other physical activities.
Step 2. Accompany your partner to attend a live music concert or see a symphony orchestra
Taurus men love music and appreciate going out at musical events. Find out which bands he likes and what his preferences are, then look for a show he likes. If you have the right budget, you can even plan a trip to another country or city for the event.
- Taurus men have expensive tastes and appreciate the best seats, regardless of the price.
- Those born under this sign, more conservative, prefer classical to contemporary music.
Step 3. Fulfill her physical desires and be sexy
Of all the zodiac signs, Taurus men are the ones who value intimacy the most. They enjoy physical pleasure more than emotional and can be very sensual in some cases. Try to satisfy your partner's wishes whenever you feel like it.
- Don't be difficult. He doesn't enjoy games like many other men.
- When making love, make sure the environment is sensual. Put some silky sheets and soft pillows on the bed to increase the pleasure.
- Taurus men are conservative, but this is often not true in the bedroom. Light some scented candles and you will get them excited.
Method 3 of 3: Maintain a Strong Relationship
Step 1. Make him feel in control
If you are independent and not used to letting another person lead the relationship, make sure your Taurus partner feels like they do. You can repeat things you agree with so that he thinks he has made the final decision, even if he doesn't.
- Don't change for him. If you don't really want to do something and your boyfriend is forcing you, talk about the problem or leave him.
- Many Taurus men try to control the family finances in a serious relationship.
Step 2. Stay faithful
Your partner's absolute loyalty will only remain so if it is reciprocated. Do not date other men besides him and avoid creating accounts on dating sites.
- When dating a Taurus guy, jealousy can become a factor, so make sure you always remind him how awesome he is.
- Infidelity can ruin your relationship forever.
Step 3. During the day, contact him via message
This reminds him how much you need him in your life and brings him closer to you. Taurus men appreciate when other people rely on them and the more you talk to him via text message, the more he will understand how important he is to you.
As in all things, remember to use moderation. Your partner probably appreciates the messages more than the average man, but everyone has a limit
Step 4. Make him understand in word and deed how important he is to you
Although many Taurus men prefer not to talk about their emotions, they constantly reflect on them. They internalize a lot of things they hear you say, so if you express how much you appreciate him, he will clearly understand that he has an important role in your life.
- He will want to give you gifts, but not receive them. Instead of material objects, choose sentimental gifts, which come from the heart. For example, you can take him on a date at the place where you first met.
- Don't let him fantasize, make sure he clearly understands your feelings.
Step 5. Don't cause drama and don't be unstable
Usually, Taurus men are conservative and appreciate stability. If you always find a way to fight or if you do nothing but go to parties, you are not compatible.