3 Ways to Date a Virgo Man

2024 Author: Samantha Chapman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 09:13

Virgo men can be shy and not always easy to get to know in depth, but they know how to be great friends and boyfriends: their perfectionism makes them pretty unforgettable dates! Did you find one and it hit you? It is not difficult to understand why: they are intelligent, loyal and genuine. Here's what you need to know to date one of these men born between August 23 and September 22.

Steps

Method 1 of 3: Part 1: Lay the Foundation

Step 1. If you are interested in a Virgo man, first become his friend

Men of this zodiac sign are not passionate creatures and ready to jump on you. They prefer to know exactly what situation they are getting into. They are not caught in a flurry of romance. So, make sure you are friends first! Show him that you are the right person for him and his interest will ignite.

Step 2. Make him respect you

The traditional Virgo man needs a woman of class. She must be intelligent and very mature for her age and know how to look after herself. It must be composed. She shouldn't be addicted to gossip or banal chats that only serve to give your mouth a breather. Don't try to lure him through lust (Virgo man knows it's something ordinary); you have to prove yourself a person worthy of his respect.

• A nice gloss, shaking your hair back at the right time and blinking won't be enough. Show him who you really are. Show him a great person who knows he is. Be real with him. This is the only way you can truly earn her respect and loyalty.

  

Step 3. Be bold

Virgo man is not the most direct and bold sign there is, at all. You should give him some not-so-subtle clues to let him know you like him. He may need to know this is a sure thing before he takes action. How to blame him? Nobody likes being rejected!

• Virgo man responds well to both sight and touch. So instead of touching his arm like any other girl would, give him a look that screams "Kiss me". It will melt in the blink of an eye.

  

Step 4. Prepare for perfection

If there is one thing that characterizes this man, it is his being a perfectionist. He notices every little detail and expects this trait to distinguish the others as well. He makes sure the linen closet is organized by color, size, date of purchase and yarn count. He realizes when picture frames aren't exactly centered, when a curry lacks the right amount of spice. This has its advantages and disadvantages, so focus on the advantages!

• He is the kind of person who will notice if you have gained half a pound. He's the kind of man who will look at your hair and tell you when you have one out of place. Give him the benefit of the doubt - he's just trying to make everything perfect. He is also the type of man who will make sure your time together is spent just the way you like it. That makes up for the fussy comments, right?

  

Step 5. Expect class

Do you know what they say about perfection? How can things be perfect if they are not the best? Virgo man expects things to be beautiful. Not necessarily the most expensive (actually it should be the opposite, you will know more by continuing to read), but absolutely well matched to each other and carefully thought out. She can take a simple t-shirt and a pair of jeans and make the look classy because she thought about it before she put it on. This is how the relationship will go!

• Because he thinks meticulously about everything, your appointments will be planned and extravagant in their own way. He will take you to a restaurant he knows the quality of and will know exactly what to order and what to say to the staff to get the best table. He will plan an evening with such perfect detail that you will wonder how he does it to make everything seem natural.

  

Method 2 of 3: Part 2: Being Compatible

Step 1. Keep the look simple

Bring simple hairstyles, clothes, makeup and jewelry, stay away from ALL excesses, because Virgo men like natural beauty. Seen that practical side that characterizes them? Here it manifests itself here too. They don't appreciate flashy or artificial things. What a breath of fresh air!

Virgo man wants his partner to be real. Who wouldn't want it? Although he likes beautiful things, brands mean nothing to him. He prefers simple and chic looks, which appeal to him much more than those loaded with accessories and expensive. You should be what shines more than anything else, not that shiny bracelet on your wrist

Step 2. Be clean and tidy

Maintain your personal hygiene and self-care as much as possible. And, just like your body, your home should be tidy and clean too! If a Virgo man walks into your home and finds piles and piles of unidentified garbage everywhere, he will never go back. Try to base your entire life on the mantra of cleansing.

If you're not like that, you risk finding him arranging your bedroom floor, suggesting a new soap you could try to get rid of that bad smell, and throwing out any expired sauces you have in the fridge. These are conversations that should be avoided

Step 3. Don't be eccentric and wasteful

Let's go back to that ubiquitous practicality. Virgo man knows exactly what he needs and exactly what he no longer needs. Just as he doesn't make blatant displays of affection, he himself isn't like that at all, and he wants his partner to have a similar mindset. Things don't need to be complex and useless. For him they would only represent extra worries and thoughts to sift through his mind!

• If a Virgo man makes dinner in your kitchen and finds six packs of paprika, five of them unopened, he'll wonder if you've been too lazy to check your pantry before going to the store and think you're wasting your money. So do yourself and your budget (and the environment!) A favor and get this thought out of your head!

  

Step 4. Be stable

Virgo man, having an earth sign, expects his partner to be stable too. The fact that you are temperamental and prone to anger or mood swings is not ideal for him. He likes life to be simple, remember? The drama must have no place in his world. Emotions are fine when they are in appropriate doses. Going crazy, gossip and drama no!

• This doesn't mean you shouldn't tell him how you feel when you have a bad day. Just try to be rational and logical about it. Instead of calling him, crying because your best friend is more beautiful than you are today, back down. Go out with him that night and talk about your struggle with your image. He will see that you are calm and receptive rather than fickle and incomprehensible.

  

Step 5. Prepare to be pleased

While you shouldn't expect big shows or intense, theatrical demonstrations in this relationship, you should expect to be smug. Virgo man likes everything to be perfect and therefore will make sure you are happy. He does not know how to operate if you are not! If you give him something to do, he will do it perfectly and then review him to make sure everything is okay. Don't miss out on such a partner!

• He may not be impatient for your relationship to become serious, but know that he is probably thinking about it. When he opens up easily to you, trusts you and allows you to be his rock, you know you're on the right path. You may not do extreme romantic gestures, but you will get constant love, which is eternal.

  

Method 3 of 3: Part 3: Make It Last

Step 1. Remember this is an earth sign

Virgo, in fact, with Taurus and Capricorn, is characterized by this element. This means, in principle, that it is very stable and resistant to changes. Like the Earth! She is solid in what she does and knows what she wants and what she needs. It is usually slow to open, but once it does, it is permanent.

Virgo is a mutable sign, which means that these characteristics are not irrefutable. But, in general, you will find that these are solid, down-to-earth people with a foundation upon which they build everything (thoughts or plans) and who give their best when they are in balance

Step 2. Know that he may need reassurance

Virgo men are often prisoners of their heads. Because of this, they can lose some contact with reality, resulting in an unconscious tendency towards insecurity. When this time comes, he may need reassurance. When he is acting inhibited towards you, let him know there is no need (not necessarily verbally). Be absolutely welcoming to him. It may need an extra boost.

Take this trait of hers and appreciate it. Instead of wishing him to be more open and confident, try to understand that this quality makes him concrete, modest, loyal and anything but exhibitionist and megalomaniac, contrary to the sign that precedes him, Leo. This sense of insecurity that sometimes heats him up can be a relief

Step 3. Don't consider him a know-it-all

Since he notices every little detail, many people may consider him to be pedantic. One glance at your pie chart is enough to tell you that you made a mistake with a very small percentage. Not only does he notice it, but he also says something about it. This can be annoying if you don't understand that he's just trying to make everything as good as possible. And why shouldn't it?

The good thing about the Virgo man is that if you know your stuff too, he's willing to accept it! He is open to debate and loves to talk about the things he has learned and experienced. So, next time your man corrects you for something, don't hesitate to say “No! I did it so on purpose! " and to explain why

Step 4. Understand why he hesitates to take action

Virgo man, as described above, does not jump into the void, from relationships to conclusions. He needs to plan everything, how else would he know if something is perfect and, above all, acceptable? So when he doesn't immediately give you that great manifestation of love that you expect, don't let your heart stir. It needs time. Give it to him.

Your relationship may be slow at first. This Is good! It is only the way of acting of the man of the Virgin. It is not an indicator of lack of passion or something negative. It will open in due course if you are patient. Good things are worth waiting for after all

Step 5. Understand that he is more practical than poetic

When it comes to romantic gestures, your Virgo man won't write songs on the smallest toe of your left foot. It wouldn't do any good according to him. Why would he waste his time doing it? But he'll offer you his sweater when you're cold; will open the door for you; it will make you the perfect gift on your anniversary because those things are really meaningful. All of this is positive anyway. Who wants a poem about a toe?

• This can be frustrating when you are looking for affection and are feeling particularly sensitive. He will not reciprocate and he will not seem to understand it. If that's the case, you need to relax. Take a step back and try to understand that he just doesn't act that way. He will show you his feelings in other ways and you will soon notice.

  

Advice

• Clean up your house before inviting a Virgo man for a visit. This sign he hates dirt and clutter.
• Beware of your language! Virgo men easily feel repulsed by excesses of profanity and will not tolerate it!
• Watch your manners, including those at the table!
• Virgo is the most perfectionist sign of the zodiac. Forget it if you are NOT a perfectionist yourself!
• They hate when people pretend to be what they are not. But let's face it, who likes it?
• Take a Virgo man to dance. He can relax from his constantly running thoughts and have a nice, carefree evening.

Warnings

• Like Virgo women, men do NOT tolerate those who behave in a selfish and rude way!
• Like Scorpio men, Virgo men can be EXTREMELY reserved, jealous, and even bad tempered.
• Virgo men can be highly critical and have strong opinions. Keep this in mind if you are prone to insecurity.