Do you want to have a secret relationship with someone? Keep reading this article. Note: Don't use this article to be unfaithful to your partner; its purpose is to help you keep a legitimate relationship secret.
Steps
Step 1. Always use a code name for the person in question
Step 2. When he calls you, go to another room, privately
Step 3. If a parent catches you while you are texting, say you are using a friend's username
Step 4. Try to address any motives that force you to keep the friendship a secret, and try, if you can, to bring it out
Step 5. Make sure the other person takes the same precautions as you do regarding secrecy
Otherwise your secret plans could be revealed by your partner's ignorance.
Step 6. Delete this link from your computer's history
If anyone finds out you've read this article, they may be suspicious of you!
Advice
- Do not tell anyone. One person who knows is another mouth who could be a spy. It doesn't matter how reliable it is; he might not even tell anyone, but betray himself in other ways: involuntary hints, body language, looks, etc.
- If you see this person on a daily basis, behave normally. Make sure he (or she) does the same too.
- When you go on a date, say you're dating friends. If you are being followed, make sure you are with a few friends so you don't get caught.
- Find a place where you can meet safely. It doesn't need to be a particular home or place, it just has to be for the two of you.
- When you are in a secret relationship, at least make sure it is with a good person, not necessarily good-looking in any particular way, but who is unique, and also nice. There is no reason to hide if that person (and the relationship) is like everyone else.
- It would be beneficial to create a new email address and instant messaging account.
- Guilt has a strong power. When people look at you, you may think they suspect something. Most of the time this is not the case, but your guilt could betray you, as well as an overly hostile attitude towards another person. Act as if that person is a nice lady you met on the street, a grandmother who lives next door, or a family doctor. Don't betray yourself.
- Don't ignore your friends. If your social life seems to be falling apart, your parents will get suspicious.
- This kind of relationship is more effective and secretive with a person who is truly trustworthy, caring, understanding, and sincere, and not with someone who talks about themselves all the time.
- If you see that person in public, act as if you don't know them. Don't risk making contact.
- Think of valid excuses for whatever you do with that person, in case you get caught. Never stop thinking. It's better to have more than one excuse, in case one ends up not working.
- Buy a new phone so your parents won't see you having any contact with that person. Find an affordable one, with a low-cost subscription. It doesn't have to be anything special - it's secret, remember.
- When it comes to relationships, try not to say anything so your friends don't get suspicious.
