Have you lost someone's trust? Have you made too many mistakes? Whether you've cheated or cheated on someone, or lied to your parents, trust is hard to win back. It will take some time.
Steps
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Step 1. Put yourself in the other person's shoes
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Step 2. Do you think they are right not to trust you after what you did?
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Step 3. Promise him that was the last time - and keep your promise
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Step 4. If you had already said this the previous time, then it will be even more difficult
If you keep losing their trust, they will probably never trust you again.
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Step 5. This time, KEEP your promise SERIOUS and never do it again
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Step 6. The best thing to do is never lie again
And don't treat them as badly as you did previously. Love them as if they were going to die the next day.
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Step 7. If you are a teenager and your primary method of communication is Facebook, messages, email
What’s App, etc.
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Step 8. This may help you as calls and texts are usually easier to deal with
Call and write them throughout the day so they know what you are doing. Tell them even when they don't ask you! That way they won't worry. But if they need their space, give it to them and they will probably miss you after a while.
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Step 9. When calling or texting, don't be afraid to communicate or send more than one message
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Step 10. If these people still talk to you after you have lost their trust, it means that they care about you
Don't think they hate you, because if they were they wouldn't talk to you.
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Step 11. When you are on the phone do not interrupt your call or text all of a sudden
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Step 12. Apologize by telling the TRUTH
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Step 13. Respect them
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Step 14. Love them
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Step 15. Think about them
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Step 16. Be a better person
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Step 17. Don't act suspicious
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Step 18. This will make them angry
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Step 19. Welcome your friendship / relationship / etc with open arms
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Step 20. Make them feel special
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Step 21. When you have regained their trust do not change
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Step 22. Always remain a loving person
If you go back to the "old you" they will regret it!
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Step 23. If after what happened you remain friends or are still engaged, your relationship should become stronger than ever
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Step 24. Always remember that you or the other person may no longer be there tomorrow
You never know what can happen.
Advice
- Don't ignore them. And if they ignore you, don't reciprocate. Persistence is what matters.
- Make heart gestures for other people.
- Filling them with gifts may not work.
- Ask them how they feel.
- An occasional gift to show your affection is enough, but don't overdo it.
Warnings
- You cannot fall in love with someone until you trust him / her.
- If you get angry you may lose the person permanently. End.
- Avoid being rude and cold.
- If you lie again and don't admit it you will hurt yourself. And the other person will find out sooner or later. It is karma.