Has your wife made you suffer in the past? Do you want to know how to regain lost trust? The truth is that this journey begins within you. If you don't love yourself, how could you ever love others? If you don't accept yourself, how can you accept others? If you don't forgive yourself, how can you forgive others? If you don't trust yourself, how can you trust others? It takes time to learn to trust a relationship. And this time can become infinite when it is broken. It is not impossible to recover it. If you and your wife are having trouble in this area, here are some tips that will help you rebuild the relationship.
Steps
Step 1. Trust yourself
Learn to positively recognize your role in marriage. Trust the place you are in, the moment you are living and the experiences that are happening to you. Each event teaches you to become a better person. If your wife cheated on you, lied or stabbed you in the back, trust yourself: you are a strong man. And you are because you can handle the situation. All past experiences have taught you something. Each life lesson has allowed you to transform into the person you are today.
Step 2. Trust in life
Remember that everything happens for a reason. Living means loving, savoring every moment, learning, growing and giving your best to become the person you've always dreamed of. Don't worry about all the challenges you face, trust yourself: you can overcome them. Life gives you lessons because you need them. Trust your abilities to face difficulties and find a solution. You have the power to create the world you want. When you don't trust life, you lead a life filled with fears, doubts and worries. As a result, you limit yourself and fail to grasp all the beautiful things you encounter along the way. When you trust life, you know you can survive any complicated situation. Suffering doesn't last forever. Some relationships end. Material things don't last. What lasts forever? Trust in life and what you have in yourself: remember that you will be able to face everything that comes along the way thanks to love, strength and courage.
Step 3. Trust your wife
Give yourself the chance to trust her again. You can start by asking her to do little things for you. For example, he may call or text you when you prefer him to. After she learns to respect your needs, you can move on to the next step, proposing that she make a bigger commitment.
Step 4. Open up and embrace life
If you want to regain lost trust in your wife, it is important to be willing to come out of the shell and embrace your existence. When you are open to new opportunities, you are even more open to life and all it has to give you. It is full of wonders. Explore something new, never tried before. Take your time to get to know your wife again. Show that you have an open mind towards his ideas, listen to his needs. Go out together more often and fall in love with her once more.
Step 5. Be patient
It takes time to regain trust in someone. Don't expect too much of yourself. Don't demand too much of your wife. First, try to trust yourself. Later, regaining trust in your wife will come by itself.
Step 6. Be there
If your past wounds haven't healed yet because your wife has broken the trust you placed in her, it's important to learn to live in the moment. Where are you now? Where do you want to go? Do you want to be with your wife? Do you want to regain the lost trust? If your answer is yes, it is crucial to let go of the past and experience current emotions. Each day offers new opportunities and can mark a new beginning. Live now with your wife, remember the first time you fell in love with her. Start a new day by falling in love again. Life must be lived now. Breathe, feel your heart beating. Enjoy this precious moment.
Step 7. Forgive your wife
To forgive is to truly love. It will allow you to heal. If your wife has broken your trust in the past, it is vital to forgive her. Because? If you're just holding on to past pain, guess who will suffer from it? You. If you are angry with your wife and hold back anger, who will be affected? Always you. If you make a mistake, forgive yourself. If your wife has cheated on you, lied to you, or cheated on you, forgive yourself for harboring these negative feelings about her. In order to really move on, it's important to forgive both of you. Did she have a lover? It is essential to forgive him too. Forgiveness will free you from all negative thoughts, emotions and feelings. As a result, you will become a brave and big-hearted man. A man who deserves love and respect. You will get rid of all negativity and be ready to take the next step, which is to trust again.
Step 8. Be grateful
Feel gratitude for all the experiences you have. Accept all the benefits they offer you. We learn quickly in the face of challenges, disappointments, broken hearts and wounds. Let experiences offer you the best lessons in life. Without them, you would not have become who you are now. You are a wiser and stronger person. And most importantly, you have learned to trust yourself and life even more. The more grateful you feel, the more trust you will have in your heart. The more you trust your heart, the more you will trust others.
Step 9. Celebrate life
Recognize the important milestones you have been able to go through to become a great husband.
Advice
- Ask specifically what you want. Ask your wife to make a commitment to do something concrete.
- It takes time to regain lost trust. It is important to be patient with yourself and your wife.
- Celebrate when your wife achieves real results. Celebrate your love.
- Take it one step at a time and acknowledge every single success you have made along the way.
