Breathe! It's okay to be a little nervous when it comes to your first date. Here are some simple tips and tricks to look great and feel your best!
Steps
Step 1. Take at least an hour and a half, or maybe two, before your appointment
Make a list of everything you need to do to get ready, and calculate how long it will take (example: take a shower, dry your hair…).
Step 2. Listen to music
Something that energizes you, your favorite bands, or something in the background that makes you feel positive.
Step 3. Take a shower / bath
Shampoo, rinse, then apply conditioner and let it sit for 20 minutes before rinsing. Wash your body to get rid of dirt and smell good. If necessary, in the shower, shave your legs, armpits, etc.
Step 4. Dry your hair in the air or with a towel, do not comb / brush until partially dry
If, on the other hand, you use a hairdryer or a straightener, don't wait for your hair to dry too much. Put on some gel for a healthy look and comb with your fingers so as not to ruin the style.
Step 5. Read magazines and helpful tips online from people with dating experience
Take quizzes, Google dating tips, talk to friends about them (try “I mean” and “Top Girl” for dating tips for teens).
Step 6. Drink lots of water
To add some flavor, add some lemon or orange juice. Try to avoid sweet or greasy things before your date so you can eat through the evening and still look great.
Step 7. Meditate
You don't know how? Sit on a nice sofa, armchair, floor, rug… in a comfortable position but not with a hunched back; choose a place away from people, a private and quiet place, close your eyes, and think about happy things. Don't think about the date, and don't analyze you or him. Think of something relaxing, something that makes you feel good. It doesn't have to be mushy, but it has to be comforting. Do this with classical or new-age music in the background, and do it before you get dressed.
Step 8. If you are applying nail polish, use a color that matches your outfit
Do something creative and whimsical, or simple and essential. When it comes to nails, you can hardly go overboard, and it's a good way to be expressive and communicate without being judged.
Step 9. Choose the right clothing based on:
- Circumstances.
- Your style and your personality.
- Weather.
Step 10. Be aware of yourself
When you choose a dress, you know what excites you, and what makes you feel more confident and comfortable. Also, depending on your age, if you are a young teenager (12-13), wear something modest, and don't overdo it by trying to be extremely provocative: this is not good for all ages, but this one in particular is wrong. If you're older, showing some skin isn't bad, showing off lightly is sexy. If there is a part of your body that you don't like, cover it up a little, but put more attention on one of your best parts (examples: I hate my nose so I focus on my hair making it very beautiful and stylish. fashion; or I hate my butt so I wear black pants to look more curvy and wear a V-neck top to focus all attention on my well-formed breasts).
Step 11. Choose underwear wisely too - it may look ugly, but we all want to look good under clothing
Even if you don't really need it (at least I hope you are still a teenager), wear comfortable underwear, something that doesn't show signs on your clothes, which are not very pretty to look at. Wear something close-fitting and your size. Wear a bra if you need it, ask a friend or a woman in your family if you are unsure whether to wear it or not, and ask them to be honest. Wear a push-up bra only if you are below a C cup, otherwise it will be noticeable, unless that's what you want.
Step 12. Match the makeup to the situation and your taste
Will you only go to the cinema? It will be dark, so don't wear too much. If it's raining or very hot, or if you think you'll be swimming, you will need to take care of your make-up and use water-proof products. Be careful not to overdo it, or you'll give a bad impression of insecurity or wanting to try too hard. If you are very young, make sure your parents agree that you are wearing makeup.
Step 13. Put on makeup to highlight the best areas rather than to cover up the flaws
If you have beautiful eyes, put on some eyeliner and mascara, simple makeup is always preferred. If you have big eyes, don't wear too much makeup, because of course people will notice them more, and you will look funny. Finally, if you want, put on the lip gloss and bronzer.
If you have a pimple, or on a problem area, use a small amount of oil-free makeup, distribute a little, and do not touch again. Don't cover the freckles, guys find them cute
Step 14. Decide how to wear your hair
Most people prefer to wear their hair down on dates, but you can also try wearing it up. They make you look taller and slimmer, highlight your eyes and make you look bigger. Or don't always blow dry them: wavy and curly hair is fun, original, and makes you look like a natural beauty. If you have curly hair, a ponytail seems the best choice, and with a pair of earrings you will be perfect.
Step 15. Choose good shoes
If you know you will have to walk quite a bit, wear shoes that match your clothing but are comfortable and comfortable. Only wear high heels after age 14, or you will look silly, and make sure you can walk in them.
Step 16. Brush your teeth
Bad breath is really bad, and it's especially helpful to brush your teeth if you want a goodnight kiss at the end of your date. Brushing and flossing regularly is all it takes. If you're still unsure, get some sugar-free peppermint or gum - but these are no substitutes for cleaning your teeth. When you're done, rinse your mouth.
Step 17. Perfume / cologne
Use something appropriate for your age. Try Victoria Secrets. Spray once on one wrist and then rub both wrists together. You can also do a couple of sprays in the air and walk in it. But don't overdo it, it's not pleasant.
Step 18. Consider wearing deodorant
Perfume is not a substitute for deodorant. Deodorant is much more important than perfume. Put an extra deodorant in your bag and go to the bathroom to put some on your appointment.
Step 19. Organize your purse before you leave the house
Cell phone, iPod (if there are no embarrassing songs), keys, erasers, mints (one every hour), deodorant, tissues, money, lip gloss (apply it every half hour, not in front of him).
Step 20. Go easy on the jewelry, but use the accessories well
Wear matching bracelets and necklaces, 1-3 rings are fine, earrings are always fine too. that go down). Wear a nice belt, or a pin to make the outfit special, but it is precisely with these things that you may actually overdo it. Don't get too tacky, cliché, or out of date, especially if you're only going to the mall.
Step 21. Remember that he too will likely be nervous
Don't talk about being nervous, it sounds good but ends up being weird. Good luck!
Advice
- Keep calm, but laugh when necessary and join the conversation.
- Be confident, repeat to yourself that you have been expressly invited, in the sense that you are liked the way you are, even before this date. Be proud of yourself - it is never a bad thing to show who you are and what you are proud of.
- Use your body language, smile when something nice is said, accidentally bump your knees into his, or brush his hand… but don't go any further, make it seem almost casual and cute. Don't try shamelessly, and don't look desperate.
- Don't reveal everything about yourself on the first date, don't be too exuberant and don't be tough about the date: he has already asked you out and you accepted, there is no need to be difficult.
- Don't be afraid to eat in front of him. It is a demonstration of confidence and serenity, which many people find exciting. But don't overdo it, and don't order a deluxe burger at Burger King if he only ordered a salad from the organic bar.
- Be yourself, he's sweet but if you want a chance with him …
- Do not write text messages during the appointment, especially not in secret. If you know you will be receiving a lot of calls that evening, turn off your phone. It is not polite, and it is annoying for the boy. If you need to make an emergency call, apologize and go to the bathroom to get it. Try not to take more than a few minutes or he will wonder what you are doing.
- Don't pretend, if you don't want to go out with him again, and no goodnight kiss. Act like a friend, and if she says something embarrassing, such as that she loves you, tell her kindly and gently that the feeling isn't mutual.
- If he's an idiot, or just doesn't take anything between you, relax, live this date, and tell yourself that if you really don't like it, then there won't be a next time.
Warnings
- Try to avoid foods with strong smells or foods that easily get stuck between your teeth.
- Make sure you don't sound too emotional. It is more natural to smile at a joke than to laugh excessively.
- Laugh with him, but try not to offend him or overdo it with any jokes.
- Only seek the kiss if you are really ready, never under duress or out of courtesy, because it is a deception, and if it were your first kiss it would also be a waste.
