The term girly refers to a girl who wholeheartedly embraces her femininity, without sacrificing her personality or strength. She pays a lot of attention to behavior, style and appearance, but she is never self-centered or mean, she is just herself. She is the girl all the others are inspired by and they would like to be friends with. Being a girly girl is a personal choice, so no one should push you to do something that makes you uncomfortable. However, if that's your goal, all you have to do is adopt the right behavior and appearance.
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Taking Care of Your Appearance
Step 1. Wash every day
Girly girls care about their personal hygiene! So, take a shower every day, washing yourself thoroughly with soap and water. If you want to be even more feminine, try purchasing scented shampoo, conditioner and body wash.
Step 2. Use a moisturizing cream or lotion
Smooth and soft skin is a great prerogative of women who are attentive to their femininity. So, you should apply a moisturizing cream or lotion to your face and body every day, even if you have oily skin - moisturizing products prevent excessive sebum production. The choice is up to you, but first check the label to see if they are suitable for your skin type.
If you suffer from acne, don't get discouraged. You can always become a girly girl! Try drinking plenty of water and using benzoyl peroxide on the breakouts. If you can't get rid of it, don't make a big deal out of it. Many people have pimples
Step 3. Don't neglect the manicure
You don't have to change your nail polish every day, but you just need to have your nails neat and tidy. Shorten and file them so that they are even, eliminate dirt residues that accumulate where the nail bed begins and check if the enamel is damaged.
- If you like to change the color of your nails, try to match it with your outfit.
- If you'd rather not change it often, apply a clear polish. It will be equally elegant and feminine and you can wear it without too many thoughts.
Step 4. Take care of your hair
You must have a flawless hairstyle. Make sure there are no knots and tangles and that your hair is always neat and tidy. Find a hairstyle that suits your needs so that it stays in order all day.
- Depending on your hair type, you will probably need to wash it every day. If they look flat and greasy at the end of the day, you may want to shampoo them daily.
- You don't have to wear an elaborate hairstyle. Just stand in line to the side and use a hair clip! Alternatively, you can try the braids, ponytail and bun.
- If you don't know how to style your hair, ask a friend or your hairdresser for advice.
Step 5. Use the deodorant and perfume
All girly girls smell good! Then, apply the deodorant every day. You can also add a few drops of perfume. Many women carry a fragrance that sets them apart. If you're not used to it, start with a scent with floral or fruity notes.
- Deodorant and perfume do not replace the shower. So, don't neglect personal hygiene, otherwise others will notice.
- Use enough and only on the points where the blood flows most to the surface, i.e. on the neck and wrists. Choose a delicate fragrance, noticeable only when someone approaches. Avoid too strong essences that impregnate the air as you pass.
Step 6. Brush your teeth
Girly girls don't neglect oral hygiene. Therefore, use your toothbrush and floss every day, as well as mouthwash and mints to keep your breath fresh. Bring dental floss with you and use it after every meal or snack.
Don't worry if you don't have a perfect smile or if you wear braces. Just don't neglect the cleaning of your teeth
Step 7. Apply light makeup
Try wearing makeup for a girly girl look. A light make-up will give you a more feminine air and will be much easier to apply than a more sophisticated make-up. Keep trying until you find a color combination that you can apply comfortably and that gives you a natural look.
- For starters, try using just mascara and a lip gloss.
- Go for eyeshadow and blush in neutral shades, such as pale pink or beige.
- If you want to use foundation, go to a perfumery to be sure you choose a product that matches your skin tone.
- Don't rule out the possibility of wearing a more sophisticated make-up! Just make sure you've done some testing first.
Part 2 of 4: Dressing Like a Girly Girl
Step 1. Put on clean, ironed clothes
Girly girls never use dirty, rumpled clothing. Therefore, wash the clothes you are wearing and do not bring stained clothes, even if they have been washed. Iron them before putting them on.
- Read the instructions on the garment labels. Some do not need to be ironed at all or can only be ironed at low temperatures.
- If you don't feel like using the iron, try hanging clothes once they are dry or put them in the dryer by programming the anti-crease cycle.
- If there is a stubborn stain, don't throw the garment away! Wear it around the house or when you need to do something that could ruin the clothes you use to go out.
Step 2. Buy clothes that fit your figure
Do not choose clothes that are neither too tight nor too loose. They don't have to be tight enough to pinch you, let your underwear show through, or make it difficult for you to wear. Plus, they don't have to be large enough to force you to tidy them up all the time. Try on your favorite clothes to make sure they fit you correctly and if not, don't use them anymore.
Step 3. Buy women's clothing
To be a girly girl, you don't have to dress up every day like you're going to a party, but just wear something feminine every time you go out. Long dresses and skirts are always an easy choice, but you can also opt for cigarette pants, capri pants, shorts and jumpsuits. Instead of t-shirts, try blouses and button-up shirts.
- Classic feminine colors turn pink, purple and pastel shades, but if you don't like them, any color can be feminine, as long as it's matched in the right way.
- You don't have to follow fashion or dress like all other girls if you are careful in your choice and a feminine bearing.
Step 4. Wear women's shoes
If you want to have a girly girl look, avoid sneakers and flip flops. Heels and wedges are excellent for highlighting your femininity. However, if you don't want to wear high shoes, try a pair of flats. Make sure any type of footwear is clean and has no signs of wear!
If you can't walk in heels but want to wear them, try placing your heel on the ground first and then the rest of your foot. Practice before going out
Step 5. Add a bag to your outfit
Girly girls always have plenty of things to take with them! If you've never used a bag, start now. It doesn't have to be designer or expensive. You can choose it in the color and style of your choice, as long as it is in excellent condition and roomy enough.
Try buying one that is neutral in color, such as black or brown. You will be able to combine it more easily with your clothing
Part 3 of 4: Creating a More Feminine Environment
Step 1. Choose soft and bright colors to decorate your spaces
Whether it's your bedroom, your locker in the locker room or your desk, any personal space can bring out your feminine side. Choose soft and bright shades, such as pink, light purple, light blue or yellow. You can buy some furniture, paint the walls or just use fun accessories like bows, posters and stickers to make your spaces more feminine.
Step 2. Keep your things neatly arranged
Girly girls don't carry tons of paper instead of notebooks and they don't leave the containers and residues of what they eat on the ground. Get into the habit of cleaning when you use something and putting everything back in its place. Organize and keep school supplies in order.
It is an excellent opportunity to buy more feminine accessories to arrange your spaces. Binders, boxes and containers will allow you to show your feminine side
Step 3. Buy a vanity unit or some mirrors
You will need a space to check your makeup, try out new hairstyles and make sure your outfit is perfect. So, get a large mirror for your bedroom and a few smaller ones for your closet and purse. You can even buy a dressing table if you are able to do your makeup!
Step 4. Unleash your creativity
Girly girls aren't afraid to be creative. Decorate your personal spaces with cute designs, cards for friends and some crafts. Buy some brightly colored markers and embellish photos and posters, or learn to sew or learn the art of decoupage to make your own creations.
Part 4 of 4: Behaving Like a Girly Girl
Step 1. Walk and sit gracefully
Girly girls are not frantic and do not fidget when sitting. So, learn to walk and sit with composure. Try to acquire a posture that communicates confidence by taking small steps without lowering your head. When you sit down, keep your back straight and your arms at your sides or in your lap. Do not cross your legs and ankles, even if this position gives it a touch of femininity.
Step 2. Be friendly and polite to everyone
Try to be nice to everyone you meet. Look her in the eye, introduce yourself if you don't know her, and call her by name. Ask her how she is and, if you can help yourself in something, offer your help!
- This does not mean that others have the right to treat you badly. If you have to tell someone to stop or leave you alone, be clear and purposeful.
- Don't swear and don't be vulgar. It is a sign of rudeness, so you will not be feminine at all if you behave this way.
Step 3. See the more romantic side
Girly girls are tender dreamers, but that doesn't mean you necessarily have to get engaged or get dragged into situations that make you uncomfortable. Try reading romance novels, watching romantic movies, and talking to friends about your crushes.
Some girls follow bridal magazines even if they have no plans to find a husband yet. It's a fun way to express your romantic side and keep up with fashion
Step 4. Catch up on trends
You don't have to follow fashion, but in most cases girly girls have an idea of the hottest styles, even if they don't get involved. So, try to figure out which clothes, music genres and movies are the trendiest, so that you can compare yourself with your friends.
Step 5. Date other girls
It's normal to have male connections, but you should also surround yourself with female friends to hang out with and talk about female topics. If you don't have close friends, start paying compliments to your classmates on the choice of makeup or clothes. This is a great way to establish an understanding!
Step 6. Be polite when you eat
By knowing the manners that govern table etiquette, you will learn to behave like a lady. When you eat, do not chew with your mouth open, do not rest your elbows on the table, and do not lean towards the plate. Practice taking small bites, keeping your hands on your legs when you're not eating, and chewing and swallowing with care and discretion.
Step 7. Study hard
You don't have to act like a happy goose to be a girly girl, in fact girls who are attentive to their femininity are brilliant students who care about their preparation. So, focus in class, study hard, and try to commit yourself to all subjects.
