Many people believe that friends make perfect couples. You've also often seen in weddings the phrase "Today I'm Marrying my Best Friend." If you're dating a friend you already know, you'll avoid the initial awkwardness common in relationships between two people who don't know each other. Nonetheless, starting a relationship with a friend can be like skating on fragile ice. What if she considers you more like a brother than a lover? What if he doesn't want to risk losing your friendship and rejects you? Is it worth it?
Steps
Step 1. Be direct
If you want to go out with a friend you like, don't waste time and invite her. Don't worry about his reaction. Take the first step, that's all you'll need. People often don't have the courage to do this. He doesn't have the courage to say how he feels about someone who will find a person to be with sooner or later. Never keep your feelings inside, declare them. Do not postpone what you can do today until tomorrow, unfortunately we never know what the future holds.
Step 2. Wait for the right time
You don't want to talk to him about it when he's in a bad mood. Remember that a human being is more likely to accept when he feels good. So it's important to do it at the right time.
Step 3. Be original
Talk to the heart. Let me know what your feelings are. If you express your feelings honestly, it will be difficult to say no, but try not to overdo it so as not to force the girl to accept your proposal.
Step 4. People who give so much love receive more
Follow the same strategy. Tell her you know that not all friendships turn into romantic relationships and that you have feelings for her that you can't change.
Advice
- Never go out with a friend of hers or she'll think you're an idiot and say no.
- Don't be afraid if you are rejected. Many people can't even ask for fear of being rejected. Freely say what's on your mind. Otherwise, you may regret it for the rest of your life. Furthermore, if you are rejected, the friendship does not necessarily have to be lost. At first the situation will be a bit strange but then things will return to normal.
- Be funny and play with her often by teasing her, she might fall in love with you.
Warnings
- If she often tells you that she wants to be your friend because you are a "special guy", it means that you won't be able to have a romantic relationship with her.
- If you love her don't give up, don't rush, it might seem difficult but there could also be a reason why she turned you down. Find out and try to change things if possible. A fantastic relationship could also arise between you.
- If he refuses you, don't take it personally.
- He may refuse you.
- You could jeopardize your friendship.
