Do you like a girl who is a few years younger than you? Are you afraid of being judged if you were to date her? With a smart approach to the situation, you can make it work.
Steps
Step 1. Get to know her better
Before you are sure you want to date this girl, you need to know basic information about her (e.g. her birthday, color, favorite TV shows and music, etc.).
Step 2. Talk to his relatives
Ask for the consent of his brothers, sisters, parents. If they don't mind you, you won't be too worried about dating her.
Step 3. Don't be in a hurry
A younger girl will feel uncomfortable if you suddenly jump out and ask her out with you (you will give the impression that you are a pervert with a thing for little girls). Take some time and get to know her. So, when the right time has come, ask him. Also, don't say "I love you" too soon. You would scare her.
Step 4. Take her out on a date
Nothing too romantic. You don't want to give her the impression that you just want something from her: as a result, you will be dumped, or make her uncomfortable. A dinner and a movie will do just fine. In a public place.
Step 5. Keep the conversation on appropriate tracks
Speaking of sex, for example, you would embarrass her. Talk about sports, television, family. Something light.
Step 6. Spend time together
In his home it would be fine, but not in the bedroom! The living room, the kitchen, the living room are fine. Sofas are not very appropriate at first. Wait until you are more comfortable with each other.
Step 7. Don't rush to kiss her
Since she is younger, a kiss would make her feel weird and confused, and she probably won't have much experience. Self you exchange your first kiss early enough, then don't always be on top of her.
Advice
- Stay focused on the goal. Don't go after other girls if you and she are already dating. It would take a while before she recovers from the disappointment and she won't like you anymore.
- Take deep breaths and remind yourself that you are not interested in the opinions of others (including teasing and nicknames). If you really like this girl, other people's opinions don't matter.
- Don't act too much as an adult or a mature person, or she'll feel inexperienced and clumsy around you. He could leave you for a peer of his age. Talk about things that interest girls her age.
- If the two of you knew each other or were already in tune, it shouldn't be so weird to go out together.
- If you feel like she's not ready to go out with your friends, or she's the one who told you, wait. It's easier for her if you get to know her friends first. This will help her a lot to get used to the situation.
Warnings
- Remember that she is more vulnerable than you are, so Not hurt her in any way!
- Be careful around his father. Fathers are very protective of their young daughters. It might be a good idea to talk to him a little so that he gets to know and trust you. It will also help you make her feel calmer when you go out together.
- Behave correctly and appropriately during your appointments.
- Don't introduce her to your friends until you're totally comfortable and relaxed about dating. Things could get quite confusing.
- Do not rush.
