This article tells you how to get a girl to leave her boyfriend and go out with you. It can also come in handy if you're trying to hook up with a single girl.
Steps
Step 1. Find a way to stay connected
Enter his circle of friendship; a good way would be to join his little group of friends at school. Find a job in the same place as you (if you are in school this does not count). Go to the shop where you work as a customer. There are many ways. Find one to be a part of his life. But remember, it's about her, not you. If he doesn't want you around, then go away.
Step 2. Find a way to contact her privately (phone number, email)
It will be the basis of your personal relationship. Remember to keep it on an "innocent" level. At this point, you are just friends or acquaintances. Don't let her know you want more
Step 3. Be patient
Attend her calmly to show her your strengths. She works to understand what her thoughts are about her current boyfriend, highlights his flaws and slowly exasperating them, without however appearing absurd or obvious. It will help you approach and encourage doubts about her current relationship whenever possible. For example, make a comment about something you didn't like about your ex and see if she agrees or identifies with a situation in her history - you might say "I couldn't stand her when she was jealous". This way you can influence her and make her boyfriend look bad. Not aggressively, let her know that you like her and would like to give her everything she lacks.
Step 4. Make your move
Remember, timing is of the essence. This step is the most important of all; one false move and you're out. But if you play it right, the girl is yours.
Step 5. Let her cook in her feelings of guilt and doubts, until she gets rid of them
And she also gets rid of her boyfriend. After that, it's just a matter of time. You just have to wait and not make a mess. Good luck, and remember to treat her well and be a better boyfriend than she already has.
Advice
- Pull her friends over to you. Make them adore you. It will help a lot because they will advise her to leave her boyfriend and hang out with you.
- Remember that if she leaves her man, she might do it with you too. It all comes back.
- Look for the guy's enemies, remember they don't like him so they might help you.
- Don't fight or be mean with her boyfriend or you will play it.
- Don't offend her boyfriend, or he might tell him.
Warnings
- After you get together with her "don't" tell her that it was your intention from the beginning.
- If the guy senses your intentions, stay away from him and only contact her when he's not around.
- Don't let the guy know your intentions. "It's not hard to understand how he'd react if he found out. Even if you think you can beat him, don't try. Most girls don't like violence, and openly challenging him won't work in your favor. Be prepared to face the consequences of her reaction if she finds out about your intentions. In a peaceful way.
- If she is confident and has high self-esteem, she is probably fine with her man, and you have no hope.
- This is one way to get what you want, but there are those who think that a more cautious approach would be to respect their story, let them know what you feel appropriately, see what they respond to and rely on fate.
- A deciding factor will be what she really feels for he. Remember that if she still likes you, you don't have much chance of them breaking up, even if she likes you a little too.
- Remember, if he leaves it for you, he may leave you for someone he thinks is better than you. It often happens in such situations.
- Another thing to think about is that you are psychologically manipulating the girl you like out of your selfish desire.
- Many guys are very territorial when it comes to their girlfriend or the one they like. If they see another guy getting comfortable with their girlfriend or interest, it could end badly, so better approach her safely.
- Remember that you may find yourself in the friend zone if the girl isn't attracted to you.
