Hurting each other is inevitable when you have an important relationship with someone. Unfortunately, some relationships are not made to last. Here are some tips that will help you save your relationship if it is in crisis or is already winding down.
Steps
Step 1. Try to understand if the other person also wants to fix things
It makes no sense to try to save the relationship if you are the only one who strives to succeed. If this were to be the case, the best thing to do is move on.
Step 2. Talk to the person you are in a relationship with
Very often, a relationship crumbles or goes into crisis because the parties involved are unable to communicate effectively with each other. Remember to discuss it calmly, though. If the atmosphere overheats, tell her it is better that you talk about it another time and leave.
Step 3. Give it some time if you don't feel like talking about it yet
Just because you feel ready to discuss it doesn't mean she is too.
Step 4. Forgive each other
You will not be able to overcome the problem if you feel mutual hatred and are resentful. Forgive yourself now and do it every day. However, you need to understand how long you are willing to forgive their mistakes and if you have the ability to forget what happened.
Advice
Don't wait too long to try and fix things. Time heals all wounds, but leaves a scar behind
Warnings
- If the other person does not want to fix things between you, do not annoy or bore him. Go on with your life and forget it.
- Remember that mending a relationship takes a lot of effort. You will both have to put all your effort into it if you want to get through this phase, but if you love each other and are willing to try hard, you will be able to make it in the end.
