Have you ever seen girls doing wallpaper in a corner because no one wants to dance with them? These tips will help you look great at prom and maybe find a partner for a slow one. Commit yourself and you will succeed.
Steps
Step 1. Guys have a thing for girls who aren't afraid to hit the dance floor and move well
Step 2. Don't look desperate by trying too provocative dances
Don't resort to useless rubbing: if you think it might be sexy you're wrong, it's not a winning move for girls or boys.
Step 3. Don't be afraid to ask a guy to dance with you
Show him that you are determined and that you are not afraid of rejection.
Step 4. Don't worry
Even if he declines your invitation, it's not the end of the world. He's the loser, certainly not you.
Step 5. Learn to dance before hitting the dance floor
If you still don't know how to move well, ask your friends for help or follow some tutorials on the internet! With a little practice, the results will not be long in coming.
Step 6. Be outgoing
Talk to a group of guys, don't give your attention to just one in particular. And don't forget your friends.
Step 7. Decide that he will accompany you to dance
Show up with your friends, or ask a guy you like to come with you if you dare.
Step 8. Think about what to wear
Consult some fashion magazines for teenagers: you will find many proposals regarding clothes and hairstyles. Find out about the clothing required by the school and follow the rules to make your choices. Browse some catalogs of clothes, go to your favorite stores and rummage in your closet (or in the closet of an older sister or a friend if you don't have enough money to make new purchases - make sure you have their consent). If you can't decide, choose a skirt, if you want comfortable clothing, a pair of jeans is fine. If you want to add an extra touch, wear something unique and personalized that can make you stand out.
Step 9. Always be fresh and clean
Don't cover yourself in makeup, for a more natural look it's best to avoid it completely. Only cover face imperfections or pimples with concealer. If you go to prom with your friends, ask them to bring their own things and change together. In this way you will be able to observe the other girls and understand if you can improve something, for example your make-up, hairstyle, etc.
Step 10. Practice dancing so that you can feel comfortable and confident on the dance floor
If you are nervous, try not to overdo it, choose steps you know well. Ask friends, or the guy you like, to practice with you. If you notice that no one has the courage to start dancing, take heart and hit the dance floor with a friend or a boyfriend, and start having fun. Everyone will notice your ease and energy, no one will notice if you miss a step or are inaccurate.
Step 11. Smile and enjoy
Don't worry about the judgment of others, and if the music is boring and you don't like it (or you notice that someone you know isn't having fun at all), suggest that the whole group go out for ice cream together.
Step 12. Request a song you like, which you would like to dance to
Step 13. Don't be afraid to ask one of your friends to dance with you if you don't have a boyfriend
It will still be more fun than upholstery.
Step 14. Be feminine
Stand straight with your back, don't drag yourself, look people in the eye. Relax, to be casual you must first let yourself go.
Step 15. This is a dance, so be ready for anything
Bring a kit with you for all your needs, such as accessories for hair collection and styling, wet wipes, mints, deodorant and lip gloss! You don't want to smell like sweat or be disheveled just when you're about to slow dance with a guy you like!
Step 16. If you believe that you may regret what you are about to accomplish, sit down, have a drink and think about whether it is right or not
Whatever it is, think before you act.
Advice
- You smile! A smile is always a winning card for being attractive.
- If you feel comfortable in heels, you can wear them. If they're not for you, a nice pair of ballet flats or wedge shoes can also work.
- If it is a more formal occasion, you may want to wear high heels. But remember that you will have to keep them all the time, and being able to dance with a sore feet will not be easy! Many girls immediately regret the choice made when wearing heels on these occasions! Instead, choose flat or low-heeled shoes.
- Don't try dance moves if you think you might get hurt! If you want to experience something do it at home, out of sight of everyone on the dance floor.
- Don't feel uncomfortable about your physical appearance. Enhance your positives, such as your eyes or well-drawn lips.
- Try wearing a dress or a skirt for the occasion; if you don't feel comfortable, put on your favorite jeans and a nice t-shirt.
- Wear nice but above all comfortable clothes.
- Before starting to dance, look in the mirror and think about at least 10 qualities you have. Load up with self-esteem.
- Try not to stress yourself out. Even if you can't dance, it's still a time to have fun.
- Observe the people who seem to have the most fun - what impresses you the most about them? What is the most attractive look? Why is your attention focused on someone in particular? Do people who dance with friends have more fun or those who do it with their partner? Would you like to imitate someone's style, clothing or movements?
- Don't ask a guy to dance if he's surrounded by his friends. It will be embarrassing for both you and him. Don't come forward right away, wait for the guy to have opportunities to ask you to dance with him; if you manage to get an invitation it will be more fun.
- If it's a very formal evening, you might want to wear satin gloves; they are a very feminine accessory and the touch of your hands will become even more gentle. Gloves are classic, elegant and sexy, and wearing them won't make you feel uncomfortable if your hands are sweaty, especially if you're nervous and dancing with a guy you've got a crush on. While many would not like to admit it, guys like long silk gloves, they can turn out to be very sensual during a slow dance. Make sure you choose a pair that fits your size, they should be snug and fit like a second skin. To put them on and take them off easily, choose only gloves with a percentage of elastic fabric. As for the size, the golden rule is: the shorter the sleeves, the longer the gloves must be. If you have a strapless top or dress it is better to opt for “gala” gloves, that is about 60 cm long.
- Don't get mad!
Warnings
- Don't wear too much makeup. Exaggerating is never the right choice to be beautiful. Even if it's a formal evening, don't put too much eyeshadow on your eyes!
- Don't look desperate just to impress someone!
- If you really want a guy to invite you to dance, don't always be alone with your friends in the corner during all lenses. Be confident and walk in the direction of the boy or a small group. If you are alone, someone is more likely to invite you to dance.
- Put on your make-up by choosing only make-up that won't drip easily with sweat.
- Don't worry too much about what other people think. There are people who still find a way to gossip. Don't mind it.
- Some girls go dancing just to find a boyfriend. Even if you're not one of them, it is likely that failing to impress anyone can put you down. Think it will happen next time!
- Don't rub against your partner. It is a desperate gesture.
- Do not try to attract someone's attention at any cost. If he doesn't consider you, he doesn't deserve you, too bad for him.
- Don't think about boys and dancing all the time. If you fail to get what you want you may feel down. Take things lightly.
- Try not to be blocked by shyness.
