Did they trample you, used you, ridiculed you without mercy or did you suffer through the fault of others? Well, it's time to change and become a bad girl. Note, however, that being a bad girl won't make you popular, and people won't like you if you're always mean and mean, so don't overdo it.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Go Bad like Regina George
Step 1. Examine the role
Regina has the power. Part of the reason it's given to her (they have to give it to you, you can't just take it) is because it's beautiful and always, always, always elegant. As much as it sucks, the world looks at you and labels you for how you look from the outside. So if you want to be naughty, you have to have the right look. You have to look like someone who is intimidating. And what scares girls? Beautiful girls.
- Be stylish. This doesn't necessarily mean being a sheep and following trends, but creating your own. Examine your clothes carefully to make sure they fit you perfectly. Create a look that gives you an identity.
- Always carry a cosmetic bag with you. You'll keep the tricks there. Even at gymnastics Regina George brings cosmetics with her. Its success comes from handling the details. The gloss, the accessories: she is always prepared.
Step 2. Be super cute.
..only with a lucky few. If you are mean to everyone you will just be a total witch that nobody will like. You must act as if your approval is difficult to obtain - only a few are worthy of your praise as a sophisticated person. When others find that they don't meet your standards, they will try even harder to make it happen.
With those few, be openly nice. Others have to see that you can be really sweet, if anyone deserves it. Choose the lucky ones wisely and stay consistent. They will be your closest friends
Step 3. Take it all
If anyone wants something, take it anyway. After all, why not? Someone would take it, so it might as well be you. If that something is a boy, great. If it's someone else's job, that's great.
- Okay, don't take someone else's job. But if you "forget" to do yours and the partner next to you will surely get a 10, tell her that your puppy was sick last night and you didn't have time, couldn't she let you copy?
- If people don't offer, you ask. Create opportunities that make others feel closer to you. Ask a girl about nail polish - she'll love the fact that you want to look like her too. If you forget your lunch money, mention it to a nice guy - he's sure to come to your rescue. In short, take every little opportunity.
Step 4. Always reply
Regina is always ready for a stinging and poisonous retort - though not too obvious. If someone gives you a hard time, you respond in kind. Be subtle, though: whoever provokes you doesn't have to understand if you really meant what they thought you meant.
If someone accuses you of being malicious, simply reply, "I'm not trying to be, I'm just defending myself. There's nothing wrong with that. You should try it too every now and then, I bet you can't stand being a target anymore. easy. After all, nobody likes to be. " Enhance your digs to confuse them
Step 5. Flirt
When it comes to guys, your personality needs to get more refined. You still have to expect everything (and take it), but you have to do it shyly and with a smile. Guys need to feel honored by your attention, so give it carefully. After all, who is worthy enough of you?
You smile. No bad guys smile, right? Be happy when you meet and talk: by not seeing her right away, people will overlook your meanness
Step 6. Pretend nice at first
Remember how Regina George stops the girl in the vintage skirt in the hallway and tells her how much she likes it? Then he turns around and makes a cry like "yuckhh"? That's right, so. The girl with the skirt leaves thinking she is the best and that Regina is very nice. And so Regina has the power.
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Let's say you behave exactly like that. Suddenly, the girl in the skirt comes back to you and asks you if you'd like to go to the gym together since you're in the same class. You might reply, "Are you sure we're in the same class? I've never noticed you before. I'm sorry: I have to meet Greta."
Those magic words "I'm sorry" keep the girl in the skirt from making a scene. Plus, you've turned your dig into a question. It may look cuter, but it's not if you don't want it
Step 7. Deceive the adults
If you get carried away by your meanness, adults will oppose you. When the authorities don't play your game, you have a problem. So make sure the grown-ups don't see this side of you.
Be a good student. If you behave correctly at the school level, it is difficult for teachers to come to terms with the idea that you are a bad girl. And if you are nice to them, it will be even more difficult
Step 8. Expect the world
Sometimes when you expect a lot from people, they aspire to please you. The idea is that no one wants to disappoint you, on the contrary: everyone must want to overdo it to please you. Without ifs or buts.
Let's say you have to do an Italian project with some girls who are not your friends. One claims she'll bring the billboards on Monday but forget them at home. Could you meet after school to finish it all? Obviously not. You have commitments. She should have remembered, it's her fault that the whole group falls behind. It's up to her to work late tonight to make up for it
Step 9. Never take the blame
To balance the badness, the other side of you has to be a true angel. The girl who never does anything wrong, and if she does, she has a good reason. Never accuse yourself of anything, always have an excuse or a scapegoat ready.
So: Carolina heard you were going to tell Greta that her butt is getting huge. Oh, no, no! Everything is wrong. It was Greta who told you that Carolina was turning into a ball of fat. He couldn't stop talking! So to make her shut up you agreed on the size of the butt, but in your opinion the rest was always the same. Actually, you'd like a butt like that too. Then suggest that Carolina go out for a yogurt smoothie because you want to make her feel better
Step 10. Be forgetful
Even if you've met someone 50 times, forget their name. Or pretend. You actually know you've been in the same class or school for many years now, but she doesn't have to come and find out at all.
This really pisses people off. If this happens ("Are you serious? You asked me for my homework last week. What's the matter?"), You will have to agree with the speaker. Call it a momentary slip and brand it as a trivial matter. Your nonchalance will make them believe they have probably overreacted
Method 2 of 2: Cultivate your innate wickedness
Step 1. Be confident
You are a talented and beautiful person in spite of what people say. You won't be perfect, but nobody is. Learn to be, act and appear confident. You will be amazed at how much power such a simple attitude can bring.
Think of it this way: when kids sneak into a movie theater, who are the ones getting caught? Those who giggle, look around and move too fast. The cool, calm and composed ones get away with no problem because they appear as if they are comfortable. When you are confident, you can get away with it in far worse situations
Step 2. Enforce your independence
Learn to do things on your own and only ask for help if you are desperate. You don't need anyone. To depend on someone is to need them, something you want to avoid.
Being independent and doing it alone will make you stronger by leading you to not need the approval of others. When you are less concerned with what others think, a world opens up in which you can do whatever you want
Step 3. Say what you want and speak frankly as much as possible
People may not like it, but they will respect you for it. If you stick to the truth it will be difficult to find a counter.
Prepare to be treated the same way. If you don't have manners or don't know etiquette, others will notice and feel comfortable acting accordingly. If you say "It is obvious that you did not pass the exam, you have below average intelligence" (as far as that may be true), the other will immediately feel hurt and will probably take revenge on you with something ridiculous like "I'd rather not pass the exam than walking around with a face like yours that only your mother can appreciate." Prevent people from talking to you behind your back
Step 4. Make friends with other bad girls like you
They will boost your self-confidence and the way you stand up for yourself, the opposite of the shy ones who endure any abuse. You will need some support, as this new change will be hard to maintain day after day.
Being consistent with these girls will be hard. You will need to let them know they have your approval - but only temporarily. If they behave badly towards you, in fact, they will in turn have to be turned away. Be strong with them but keep them close. "Did he say you're fat? Okay, you need to lose some weight but I'd like to do it too. Let's work on it together."
Step 5. Don't be afraid to challenge the bitches
We all know who they are and how destructive they can become. NEVER be nice to them, better ignore them. Let them know that you don't like them and that you are not afraid of them.
You don't have to be bad towards them unless you are aware of what it implies and that the consequences suit you. If you go too far you will go deep, and one of them will take your place. If you can, ignore them. Treating someone with indifference makes you feel worse than being hated - with hate at least you get enough feeling to make someone spit on you. If you treat them indifferently, however, it means that you really don't feel anything … And that sure hurts
Step 6. Be unpredictable
If you constantly change moods and choices, people will become wary. They could also get tired, so dose everything well: the right thing at the right time. This means being mean and really cute.
In moments of tenderness turn off the meanness - it will completely destabilize people and their reactions will be funny. Stop a girl in the lobby to tell her that you really enjoyed her summary of the book. Tell another that she played really well during last Thursday's volleyball match. It may sound like a silly teenage comment, but when everyone else has been negative, it's exponentially more powerful
Step 7. Don't be too young
Giggling, wearing only pink, and acting like a little girl won't work. Be what you want to be, but show your potential to everyone. You're a bad girl, not a moody high schooler.
Being mean will only work if you are mature enough. Being a spy is not a sign of wickedness but of stupidity, people do not tolerate it. If you are mature, honest, decisive and can't stand idiots, those around you will hardly find fault with it. Be smart about this new hostility of yours
Advice
- Don't let your guard down. Be tough or they'll think you're a bad guy.
- Try to make friends with the guys. They can become your allies when you need them.
- Fight for yourself as well as for your friends. They will respect you and like you even more.
- "Bad girl" is a wrong definition. What you want is to be strong and purposeful. Learn the difference.
Warnings
- Even if you become very popular, there will be people who will despise you for what you do. Try not to take advantage of your popularity or you will become a bulla, not a popular girl!
- Being a bad girl does NOT mean being a bulla! Don't always misbehave with everyone, try to have more confidence. React when someone hurts you, fight for yourself without fear.
- Don't confuse "bad" with "moody". Smile, laugh and appreciate things.
- Regina George was not a positive person. He manipulated others and had no real friends. Be prepared to be very lonely indeed.
