Beauty is a quality that every girl would like to possess. Beautiful women are usually the ones who stand out thanks to their impeccable style, designer clothes and elaborate makeup. Read on to find out how to be a beautiful girl in middle school without being a model.
Steps
Part 1 of 8: Valuing Strengths
Step 1. Look in the mirror
Identify your strengths and make it a point of pride! Do you have long, silky hair? Leave them loose on the shoulders. Do you have big, deep eyes? Illuminate them with mascara. A slim and graceful body? Wear clothes that flatter your shapes. Choose your favorite physical features to accentuate them and distract attention from what you don't like.
Step 2. Find ways to hide or divert attention from what you don't like
Do you have wide hips? Wear a black dress or belt. Do you have big thighs? Wear a bold print shirt or top. Do you have small breasts? Wear skinny, colored jeans. You can mask the things about yourself that you don't like, but always remember that you need to be confident.
Part 2 of 8: Being Beautiful Outside
Step 1. Find out your style
Are you feminine? Wear floral prints, pastel colors, skirts and dresses. Do you prefer classic clothing? Try wearing polo shirts, chinos, capri pants, knee-length skirts and dresses, Oxford shoes. Do you have a rock style? Opt for leather jackets, mini skirts, short and tight dresses, band t-shirts, lace skirts and skinny jeans. Shop at stores that sell clothes you like, not just the ones that are in fashion. Dress in a way that flatters your body and according to the season. Going to the snow in a miniskirt would be a bad idea, isn't it?
Step 2. Try to have a soap and water look
Don't wear too much makeup or wear too tight or short clothes, after all you are still small. Many girls go overboard with makeup, trendy clothes and high heels just to be accepted. But avoid copying them if you don't see yourself. Express yourself! Do you like music? Wear guitar-shaped earrings. You like art? Wear paint smeared jeans. Be yourself!
Step 3. Make an effort to be nice in your own way
Don't stop showering, washing your hair, or using deodorant just to "be yourself" or "prove something". It is unhealthy. Don't neglect personal hygiene.
- Shave if you have permission and deem it necessary. Don't shave just to do it, but only if you feel the need to. Shaving is a choice and it is not mandatory to do it to be beautiful.
- Wash your hair as often as you feel is most appropriate for your needs. Do you have doubts? Ask your hairdresser, your mother, or a trusted friend (who has well-groomed hair) for advice.
- Trim your hair every six to eight weeks to prevent split ends and avoid styling with electric tools as much as possible.
- Use deodorant, antiperspirant, or a combination of both every morning and after PE class. You can also use perfume, but be careful not to overdo it.
Step 4. Ask your mother if you can wear makeup
Don't overdo it in case he gives you permission. At the media just use lip balm, clear lip gloss and concealer. Don't apply too much, otherwise you risk doing heavy makeup.
Part 3 of 8: Being Beautiful Inside
Step 1. Use body language
Body language is the tool you use to communicate with others without speaking. Use it in such a way that it appears courteous, open, warm and friendly. Nobody likes unpleasant, snobbish and superior girls. When you sit down, place your feet firmly on the ground and place your hands in your lap. Avoid crossing your arms or sitting sloppy, lazy, or as if you have no interest in your surroundings. In this case, people may think that you don't want to be bothered and that you don't want to talk to anyone, which would be counterproductive.
Step 2. Look people in the eye
When someone talks to you, look them in the eye. You will let him know that you are paying attention and that you are listening. But try to look away from time to time, otherwise you risk making him uncomfortable.
Step 3. Follow the lessons carefully
Teachers appreciate students who are careful in the classroom, as this is professionally rewarding. Raise your hand when they ask questions, but only if you know the answer, otherwise you may feel embarrassed if you make a mistake.
Step 4. Be carefree
Don't care what people think. Just have fun! Remember: you have friends who love you for the way you are, so you don't have to listen to the opinions of snobbish and snooty people.
Step 5. Be kind
Don't look down on people other than yourself. Just like you, they are expressing themselves too. Also, don't argue with "popular" people if they make fun of you. Responding in kind would mean going down to their level. The best thing you can do is let them go. Be superior.
Step 6. Learn to take risks
Don't be afraid to dare. Accept challenges, as long as you don't jeopardize your own safety. Try bungee jumping, rock climbing, skydiving or scuba diving.
Step 7. Be responsible
Do your homework and avoid dangerous situations. However, don't criticize or blame others. When you run into someone who is doing something wrong, walk away without saying anything and talk to an adult. Don't go to the person in question and tell them to stop.
Step 8. Behave yourself
Doing good will benefit you a lot more, so don't get in trouble.
Part 4 of 8: Other Ideas for Valuing Yourself
Step 1. Keep your room, backpack and workspace clean
Decorate your room with cute posters, pillows and blankets. Decorate notebooks and diary with stickers, washi tape, stickers, pictures and postcards. In the classroom, take out everything you need for the lesson (such as binder and notebook) out of your backpack, while leaving the other things inside. Clean your room and backpack regularly. This will make it much easier to find everything you need.
Step 2. Use trendy electronic devices
Get a cell phone, a tablet, an MP3 player (perhaps an iPod), a laptop, and an ebook reader. Use cute cases for devices, like animal-themed ones, snacks, and other things you like (like Minions, for example). Upload them regularly. You certainly don't want your computer's battery to run out while you're doing your homework!
Step 3. Get nice stationery items
Buy binders, notebooks, pencil cases, folders and containers in bright colors (such as pink, blue, yellow, orange and green) and cute prints (such as kittens, polka dots, stripes, zigzag and geometric figures).
Step 4. Enjoy
Share enjoyable activities with your friends and don't take things too seriously.
Part 5 of 8: Taking Care of Your Skin
Step 1. Use the facial cleanser twice a day, in the morning and before going to bed
Make sure it fits your needs, whether it's oily, dry, acne-prone, pimple-prone skin or that needs to be protected from breakouts and blemishes. If you don't use the cleanser at least once a day, your face will soon be covered with blackheads and other impurities.
Do you have sensitive skin? Use products like the Simple brand, which help protect even the most delicate skin
Step 2. Make a mask every three days or once a week
You will thus have a natural complexion and protect the skin from contaminants. However, don't overdo it - let at least three days pass between treatments, especially if the mask has exfoliating properties. Otherwise you risk stressing the skin and causing blemishes to appear.
Step 3. Hydrate
Look for a good face moisturizer and apply it every day to protect it from dirt residue that could clog your pores. This product also leaves the skin soft, smooth and silky, so it offers many benefits!
Moisturizer can also be used as a substitute for BB cream and as a makeup base
Step 4. Use a cream after a shower
Apply it on arms and legs for naturally glowing, smooth and silky skin. Spread it on your shoulders and neck as well. In summer, creams with integrated SPF protect from the sun without leaving any annoying sticky sensation or unpleasant odors.
Step 5. Apply lip balm
Wear it regularly to prevent your lips from drying out and bleeding. Apply it every night before bedtime and upon waking, especially in winter. Always carry it around during the day.
Part 6 of 8: Taking Care of Your Hair
Step 1. Choose a shampoo and conditioner suitable for your hair type
Nowadays it is practically impossible not to be able to find a suitable product for your needs, as there are natural heat protectors, moisturizing products, products designed for fine hair, specific products to protect dyed hair, natural lighteners, etc. In short, on the market it is possible to find really everything! Just remember not to be afraid to combine various types of products. Do you have frizzy, double hair? Combine a shampoo that gives body to the shaft and an anti-frizz conditioner for a satisfying result.
Do not use a two-in-one shampoo-conditioner, as the shampoo should only be left on for 10 seconds, while the conditioner should stay on for longer. Since they are products with different functions, it is better to avoid the two-in-one ones
Step 2. Avoid styling tools unless absolutely necessary
Do not use a hair dryer, straightener and curling iron. Do the styling only if you are unable to tame certain strands of hair (for example to straighten the bangs) or on special occasions (such as a birthday, a wedding, a funeral).
There are many methods to naturally dry, straighten, curl and wave hair. You can find them on YouTube and wikiHow
Step 3. Don't dye your hair
Dyes can permanently damage them and alter the stem over time. They are therefore unhealthy for the hair, despite washing it properly and using nourishing products. As beautiful as a dye looks, it's not necessarily good for your hair. Be careful!
Step 4. Use a dry shampoo and leave-in conditioner
Dry shampoos fight frizz and also keep hair smooth and disciplined. Leave-in conditioners help keep them healthy, soft and easy to manage, without frizz. These products contain essential vitamins and nutrients for the hair. Although they are ingredients that are also found in regular shampoos and conditioners, the results offered by rinse-off products do not actually stay on the keg all day.
Part 7 of 8: Put on makeup
Since you attend averages, this section is only about the basics of makeup. At your age, you don't need to do heavy makeup to be beautiful. You will also look gorgeous with light makeup or a soap and water look!
Step 1. Apply a moisturizer or BB cream
In the first case, squeeze a small amount of product on your fingertips, massage them together and apply the cream evenly on your face and neck. In the second case, squeeze some BB cream into the center of the forehead, nose, cheeks and chin. Then, massage it with your fingers for a smooth result. Do not neglect any area, otherwise patches will remain on the skin.
Step 2. Apply foundation and powder
Look for a foundation that is slightly lighter than your complexion. At the time of application, pat it on problem areas (pimples, red spots, dark circles) and massage it with your finger. Don't blend it out - just use it to cover up imperfections, even if the result seems unnatural for now. Then, apply the powder. This product should be the same or similar to your complexion. Spread it all over your face, even on the areas where you applied the foundation. Passing the powder on the foundation allows you to blend it and get a natural result.
Step 3. Apply a product to your lips
This step is quite simple - all you have to do is fill in the lips. Color the surface with the thick lip of the lipstick, while using the pointed end to fill in the lips at the corners. In case of small or thin lips, take a dark lipstick and create the desired shape using the pointed edge. It might seem strange to you, but this trick actually helps make them optically more meaty. You would have to look very closely to see the difference.
Bright and nude colors are used more in warm seasons, while dark colors are used more in cold weather
Step 4. Apply Mascara
You can use a light or dark one on the upper lashes and a clear one on the lower ones. Remove the pipe cleaner from the tube and rub it on the edges. Stand in front of a mirror to be precise. Take the brush and swipe it over your lashes the same number of times on both eyes. Then, holding the brush vertically, massage it into your lashes to prevent them from clumping.
Another way to keep them from clumping? Hold the brush horizontally and move it from left to right on the tips of the lashes
Part 8 of 8: Taking Care of Your Personal Hygiene
Step 1. Choose shower gels that have a fragrance suitable for the season (optional)
A tropical forest-themed fragrance is not suitable in the winter season, while products that taste of cinnamon, peppermint or chocolate are not the most suitable in the summer.
Step 2. Brush your teeth
In addition to brushing them, it is good to use a mouthwash to make sure you remove all bacteria. Floss regularly to keep your gums healthy.
Go to your dentist regularly to make sure you have beautiful and healthy teeth
Step 3. Wash your hands
During the day, germs and bacteria can accumulate on your hands. This is far from hygienic, especially when the flu is circulating and the risk of contagion is high. Wash your hands regularly, especially after coughing or sneezing, to keep them clean.
Also, touching your face with dirty hands can cause breakouts and acne. Keeping them clean helps prevent this
Advice
- Try to have a soap and water look.
- Buy organic cosmetics and personal care products. They will cost even more, but give excellent results.
- Apply the pencil to the inner rim of the eye instead of at the lashline to further highlight it in natural light.
- Choose a soft lipstick for an elegant effect.
- Always keep in mind that you don't need to use makeup or cosmetics to be beautiful.
- Always strive to look your best.
- Always smile: it's the best makeup you can wear and it's free!
- Always remember to keep your shoulders back, stand straight and smile. If you shrug or slouch, others will think you are shy and insecure.
- Do not be influenced by your peers who apparently seem "better" or "more beautiful than you" because each has its own beauty and personality.
