Sometimes women can seem mysterious. But once you get some useful information, like the ones you find in this tutorial, you can start to understand them better and be more able to make them happy. If you are looking to make your girlfriend or sister happy, you can rest easy! Read on and you will know how!
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Treat Her Right
Step 1. Respect it
The most important thing, even if you limit yourself only to this, is respect. Basically you have to treat her as you would like to be treated. If you love someone, this is the most important thing you need to do. There can be no true love without respect.
Value her opinions, give her the opportunity to express her thoughts, don't belittle or insult her, don't judge her: you have to understand and appreciate her for what she is, be honest with her
Step 2. Love her unconditionally
An important thing to do to respect her is to take a step back and allow her to make decisions on her own. Make sure she knows you love her, even if you have to tell her every day, no matter what choices she makes for herself. She is the same as she is also for her decisions. If a man places conditions on the love he can give to a woman, based on the choices she makes to please him, it means that in reality he only loves himself. And a woman deserves more.
Don't make her feel like she has to choose between you and a job that would make her satisfied, or between being attractive to you and the discomfort associated with pubic shaving or waxing. She should know that these are choices that don't preclude your love, no matter what she decides
Step 3. Listen to it
It's not enough just to be quiet when she talks, you actually have to listen to her. Active listening also involves asking questions and interacting proactively in the conversation. This way she realizes that you are really paying attention to her, but you can also focus more and remember what she says.
Sometimes, when you hear someone talking to you about a problem (or something real they are experiencing), you may feel the need to step in to say something or offer solutions. But this is not always what people need. When someone expresses their feelings or moods to you (regardless of whether it is a man or a woman), what they need is to be heard, so limit yourself to this. Once he's done talking, he may even ask you for advice. If he doesn't ask you anything, you can still say your opinion: the important thing is to accept his feelings and not want to take control of the conversation
Step 4. Don't act stupid
Take full responsibility for what you say and how you decide to interpret what you hear. When you make a mistake, acknowledge it and try to fix it. Don't be selfish in your behaviors or in your relationship as a whole.
- Avoid the most common non-excuses. This is a sneaky way to apologize, because you express regret not for your action that generated suffering, but for the fact that the person is suffering: this means not taking responsibility for your actions. An example is: "I'm sorry you feel this way." This is a typical way to make women unhappy.
- Even if you've done something that seems normal to you, like watching a beautiful waitress and your girlfriend gets mad at you, you need to realize that doing so hurts her feelings. Whether you're cheating on her or not, the seed of doubt is heavy and can kill a woman's ability to feel good about you.
Step 5. Never take it for granted
Appreciate everything he does for you and let him know. Never assume that she is bonded with you, or think that just because she loves you you don't have to put in the effort to give her more. You can also let yourself go physically, but you should never let yourself go emotionally. In this case you would start taking her for granted and she could start looking for other guys.
Step 6. Don't be a burden
This is the fastest way to make a woman lose interest in you. You don't have to be another "child" he has to take care of. You are his partner, not his son. This means that you have to behave like an adult, be trustworthy and responsible. Take care of your financial matters, make your contribution around the house, be there when she needs help and keep your promises.
Step 7. Be loyal
The woman you are with is not struck by how gallant you are with other women, on the contrary, you will plant the seeds of distrust in her mind and you will only make her understand that you are an irresponsible fool, even if you have never cheated on her. So be honest and never give her any reason to doubt you.
- Spend more time with her than any other woman, don't look at or comment on others, and make her happiness your priority.
- You should also stop straggling to attract other women. Don't wear specific clothes to be charming with other women. She simply wears what you know she likes. You already have a woman, so you shouldn't worry about others wanting you, right?
Step 8. Be careful
Observe what he says and does. Pay attention to her when she "wants" something or talks about wanting to do something. You should also be able to notice how he wants to spend his time. This will help you understand what is important to her. There are some things that are fundamental for you, but that she finds boring, and the situation is reciprocal: the important thing is to comply with some of her wishes, even if they don't interest you. Also, if you don't pay attention, you may miss a detail that is actually very important.
Step 9. Be his partner in life
This is what we all look for in a relationship: someone who is present with and for us. Help her solve her problems if you want to help her and if you are able to. Don't just work them out for her, though, and take control of the situation. Instead, give her the tools she needs to have her fix them herself.
- This could mean doing some extra chores around the house while she tackles big problems at work, for example.
- Another example would be going with one of your family members to do something fun if you notice that there is a tense situation in their home. For example, take her little sister shopping at the mall while she helps her parents cope with a family problem, or take her grandmother to lunch if you see that she often stays alone.
Step 10. Be yourself
Your woman wants to see you for who you really are. This makes her feel more in tune with you. If she experiences you as if you were just a stranger, you will never be able to make her happy. So show her your true self. Open yourself completely to her so that she can also see your vulnerable side and the things you don't like about yourself. That way he can only love you more.
Step 11. Remember that women can experience sex differently
If your partner doesn't want to have sex with you, don't take it personally. When you understand that a woman needs more "time to get aroused" than a man and that she needs to be warned when you are about to orgasm, so that she can anticipate it, things become much easier. It's not about you. Very often she just wants to be close to you, she needs pampering. Of course, whenever this happens you think about sex. Keep your instincts in check, don't speed things up too much! When a woman approaches you doesn't always mean she wants to have sex. If you persist in this, he will eventually start avoiding you. Your behavior scares her. Take it easy; take your time. When he gives himself completely to you, he will enjoy it more, and perhaps even more than you, but patience must be your key word.
Part 2 of 2: Make Her Fall In Love With You Quickly
Step 1. Cook for her
A great way to show her how much you want to take care of her is to make her a meal. Bring her breakfast in bed, make her dinner after a long day at work, bring her a surprise lunch in her office - do whatever makes sense to the two of you. Getting started cooking, especially after a busy day, can be really stressful. By avoiding this additional commitment, you will give her a smile.
In wikiHow you will find tons of great cooking articles that you can follow! Often these are easy recipes that even the worst cook can prepare without problems
Step 2. Give her some thoughtful and targeted gifts
A gift, of course, is always a great way to make her happy. But avoid necklaces and rings: it could be a gift that goes for any girl, right? Instead, find something special that is truly "just for her". It could be tickets to his favorite concert or a giant, expensive stuffed toy of his favorite pet.
Step 3. Compliment her appropriately
With compliments you are sure to make a woman happy, as anyone would be happy, but it is important to get them right. You do not have to compliment her appearance, because she may start to get excited at the idea of not being pretty. Also, you shouldn't focus on things like hair or eyes. Everyone has hair and eyes. Instead, compliment the things she has control over: excellent taste in dressing, a highly skilled skill or talent, a good sense of humor, and so on.
Step 4. Share things with her
Your woman loves spending time with you… that's why she is with you, after all! If you're always busy or can't see her very often, it's important to spend time together instead. Do things that give you a chance to really talk, like having a dinner date or going for a walk in the park. She will likely tell you her ideas about things she would like to do, so inform yourself and let her express her thoughts!
Step 5. Tell her how you feel
Women need to be told they are loved. Erroneously, men often think that just working and supporting a family are enough ways to communicate their love. They are often convinced that the more they work, the stronger the message of love. This is a mistake: nothing can replace an intense look and the words "I love you!".
Step 6. Focus on your skills in bed
Improving sexual relations is a good goal for everyone. Even if you think you are king, you certainly still have some room for improvement. Study the female anatomy and erogenous zones. Better yet, ask her to make you understand her needs and what she wants to feel amazing. She will love to let you know how much she likes it.
Step 7. Encourage her
Encourage her to pursue her dreams and goals in life. If she finds something that makes her happy, give her the space and tools she needs to make it happen. She would do the same for your happiness: this is the way of relating in the couple!
Step 8. Make her feel like she is who she always wanted to be
Every little girl has ideas of what she would like to do or become. Maybe your woman wanted to be a good mom, or maybe she wanted to become an experienced and knowledgeable problem solver at work. Regardless of what her wishes were, let her know that with you she can achieve those goals. This means giving her opportunities and stimulating her by encouraging her to do the things she wants.
Step 9. Be fun
Everyone wants to have someone around who makes their life more interesting. Nobody wants a boring partner! Strive to be the source of fun in his life by managing different activities in a special way. You both sign up for dance classes that are organized in your city. Take her on a weekend excursion… anything that fits her personality and makes you want to do new things together!
