Few men have the script with the perfect words to seduce a woman. To know what to say and do to win a woman's heart, you need to listen, trust your instincts and get to know the fair sex in every aspect. In this article, you will learn some methods of making a woman melt. You will continue to be the most important man in her life and make her feel special like no other.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Treat It Wonderfully
Step 1. Take the initiative to help her
Define roles in housekeeping, dividing the work equally. When you move in together and build your love nest, here are some ways that will allow you to spoil your lady:
- Bring her breakfast in bed on the weekend. You can also prepare dinner or breakfast for the whole family. If you are not already the house cook, make this a habit. Find out about his favorite dishes, think about the ingredients you need and, when you go shopping, automatically put them in the cart. He will feel the shivers of joy running down his spine!
- Do things without being asked. Vacuum, walk the dog, or wash the accumulated dishes in the sink. Provide for minor home repairs.
- Take care of the children for a day. Take them out and tire them out so they come back exhausted and don't bother her! Alternatively, organize a day of games and have them eat at home, allowing them to relax and enjoy the voices of their children laughing and having fun. In this way, his heart will inevitably melt: you take care of the children while they laugh joyfully.
- Take care of her when she gets sick. Prepare special dishes, get the mail, fluff her pillow, massage her back, regulate the inside temperature of the house, rent her favorite movie and, if you have children, tell her not to worry because you will take care of everything.
- When she's tired, give her a warm bath with scented oils or give her a relaxing massage. Take her to bed when she falls asleep on the sofa.
Step 2. Use your creativity when you want to give her something
Original, thoughtful gifts are a loving way to tell her how special she is.
- At the beginning of the relationship, think of something more traditional, like a soft toy or a piece of jewelry. After some time has passed, start considering a more personal gift to let her know how much you care about her.
- Personalize the gift. For example, you can have a special phrase written on a mug, shirt, or bracelet. Then prepare a card that says: "I want to let you know that I appreciate everything you do. I should probably tell you more often. I think you are perfect. I give you this bracelet to show you how much I care about you." It will melt.
- Do not buy the first bouquet of flowers that the florist offers you. Work on finding her favorite flowers or something less common, like violets or freesias. You could even pick them up yourself and give them away. It will undoubtedly melt.
- Buy handcrafted chocolates in an exclusive shop or, if you are able, make them yourself!
- Remember anniversaries and celebrate them by organizing something special. Shock her by referring to an important date before she does!
Step 3. Try to charm her with the right words
The things to say depend on his personality and your degree of confidence. While there are no magic formulas that apply to every situation, it will help you to have a repertoire of sweet phrases to use to make her feel better. Here are some to try:
- Recognize their sense of humor. Tell her it makes you laugh.
- Ask her how your day went. It is surprising how much people forget this attention. Yet it is very important because it openly invites people to talk about themselves. Ask her specific questions about work or how the children behaved.
- If you stay away for a few days, tell her you miss her; for example: "I can't wait to hug you again. It seems like an eternity has passed since the last time."
- If you've been neglecting the romantic side of your relationship lately, tell her, "Honey, I'd like to add a note of romance to our life."
- Tell her that no one is like her. She is unique and no one else in the world would be as perfect by your side as she is. Everyone likes to be told how special they are. This will help encourage her if she feels insecure. If you are testing the waters to ask her to marry you, say, "I can't wait to spend every moment of my life with you."
Step 4. Call it with some term of endearment
The nicknames you use reciprocally serve as a reminder of your love and it is important to continue this habit even when the relationship gets on the rails of habit.
- Call her by a pet name. Some of the cutest names that women like are: puppy, love, sweetheart, sweetheart, beauty, joy, princess. It may be a good idea to come up with a cute name to make her feel unique.
- Tell her often that you love her. Few couples declare their love to each other. For example, when you are in public, you might say "Honey, I love you" loud enough for people around you to hear, then kiss her. Alternatively, call her or text her just to let her know how much you love her.
Step 5. Plan a romantic getaway
Book everything, create a small presentation of the trip and ask her to close her eyes, open them and see where you take her as you hand her the itinerary. If she has to work hard and is worried that she won't have any days off, try talking to her boss first as long as you have the chance and don't put her in trouble.
Part 2 of 3: Appreciate it
Step 1. Tell her how much you appreciate her
Never underestimate the power of appreciating a person for who they are, especially if they are the woman in your life. If that's not enough, tell her you're grateful for her and explain why. Details are important because they affect the very essence of his personality and the way it is reflected in your eyes.
- Highlight everything she does to help others, including you, and tell her how much you appreciate her generosity and kindness. Emphasize that you admire her for her selflessness and concern for others.
- Pay attention to her changes in appearance. Tell her you like her new haircut or that she looks great in her new dress.
- Appreciate the little things. When you notice a detail that highlights its quality, tell it instead of just thinking about it.
Step 2. Don't be sparing with compliments
To let her know how much you love her, give her compliments. You will need them to immediately lift her spirits and remind her how much you love her. Don't overdo it, or she'll start doubting your sincerity, but at the same time don't forget to give her the attention she needs.
- Be specific. Instead of generally commenting on her beauty, emphasize details that surprise you, such as her eyes, hair or smile. It is much more effective to emphasize a special motif that stimulates love or attraction to a person than to speak in a general way.
- Ask questions that conceal compliments. For example: "Where did you find these wonderful earrings? They match perfectly with your dress". Such a question demonstrates attention to him, that you like his appearance and that he has good taste.
- Be honest. If the compliments or comments aren't true, they won't convey an authentic message. Whoever is by your side will realize that you are not sincere. Dale Carnagie once said, "Flattery comes from the mouth. Sincere appreciation comes from the heart." Therefore, try to say only what you feel in your heart and that you firmly believe.
Step 3. Respect her physically
Tell her what you like about her physically, like, "Honey, you have a great body. Are you sure you've given birth to three children and we've been together for 10 years?" Let her know she's beautiful, but be specific. Don't just say she's the most beautiful woman in the world, because she won't think you're sincere.
Part 3 of 3: Communicating with you
Step 1. Listen to them
You need to listen to her seriously so that you learn about her deepest fears, beliefs, desires, and hopes. Remember what she says to you and do something every now and then to show her that you really understand what she wants.
- Always be prepared to consider his point of view. Even if you disagree, try to understand his speech to reach a compromise. Ask questions to establish a dialogue, not to receive laconic answers ("yes" or "no").
- Listen without arguing, correcting or responding. Avoid contradicting her when her trust in you leads her to open up.
Step 2. Use physical contact to melt it
Remember that physical contact (even without sexual purpose) is a very important element for women, so use it every time you see each other.
- Massage, stroke or simply touch his arms, hands and neck. A simple juxtaposition before going to the bathroom can do wonders.
- Stroke her hair. If it's windy, remove a few strands from her eyes and face.
- Stand behind her, wrap your arms around her waist and hug her. You can kiss her neck, whisper in her ear, or bite her. Keep your hands on his hips.
- When she turns over to sleep, kiss her between the shoulder blades. It is an erogenous zone.
- Squeeze her hands three times, as if to say "I-love you".
- Kiss her eyelids or use your lashes to "kiss" her cheeks.
- When introducing her to friends and family, put your arm around her. If you are talking to a friend, hold her close to you. Kiss her hand when you are with your friends to show her that you care.
- Hug her. It's a great way to cheer her up, say hello, and reassure her if she's feeling jealous.
- Give her unexpected kisses.
Step 3. Flirt discreetly in public
A public display of affection and love will let her know that you are proud to be her man.
- If you are looking for generic phrases to impress women, try to select them and eliminate the most trivial, abused, sleazy, inappropriate and insignificant ones. You know your other half well, so avoid expressing yourself with clichés and clichés, but sincerely communicate your love to them.
- Keep flirting for the rest of the months and years you'll be together. Don't let the passion fade away.
Step 4. Ask for his help
By doing so, you show her that you trust her so much that you let your guard down and show yourself vulnerable. It is a gesture that will melt her heart.
Step 5. Call her when you feel sad or a little depressed
He will appreciate that you seek comfort in his love. If, on the other hand, you hear her crying on the phone, reach out and comfort her up close.
Step 6. Be fun and bright
Humor easily melts a woman's heart because it shows her that you are able to relax and see the bright side of things. It also indicates that you do not take yourself too seriously and that you are ready to face the challenges that arise with a smile on your face. Laugh whenever you can, but also give her warm smiles. When she feels sad, do your best to cheer her up.
Step 7. Try to get together and have fun
At times, you may be tempted to approach the relationship more seriously or leave behind the lightheartedness that characterized it to conform to the expectations of society, thus giving up your spontaneity. Always find time for an injection of lightness and fun, regardless of the length of the relationship.
- Do what interests her. Sharing whatever amuses her is a surefire way to make her melt. Put aside what you'd like to do and give it your time, even if it means seeing a romantic movie once in a while.
- Take her to a game of your favorite team. If necessary, explain the rules of the game to her instead of just watching.
- Every now and then do some splurge to spice things up a bit. Unexpected surprises will thrill you!
Step 8. Respect his intelligence
By doing this, you will show that you have a high regard for her. Put aside banal phrases, sexist jokes, or sarcastic criticisms. Compliment her on her intelligence just as you would on her beauty and sensuality, and you will melt her.
Step 9. Show her your friendship
The feeling of true friendship is a test of alliance and union that goes beyond the dimension of a couple. It also shows her that you will stay by her side for better or worse, that you are worthy of her trust and that you trust her blindly. Women believe that friendship is the foundation of any relationship, so you are her best friend, you will win her heart too.
Advice
- Play with a lock of her hair when you are watching a movie or reading a book and curled up on the sofa or bed.
- Never ignore his text messages or calls.
- Be nice to her pets and be objective - they are not your rivals.
- Ask her if she can show you a photo from when she was a child. Ask her if she can show you the whole album!
- Cook sweets for her. Brownies and cookies are easy to make.
- Some women melt when they hear a particular accent. For example, the Spanish or French cadence can be very charming. It can only work in your favor if it's natural, although faking a different accent can be a fun gimmick for a few hours.
- Sing for her. The serenade is a very old tradition that conquers a woman's heart. Even better, ask her to dance with you.
Warnings
- Avoid flirting with her friends and women in her family. When you are with her, give her all your attention.
- Forget the stereotypical gestures. Compliments and gifts work at the right time. However, don't shower her with trite flattery, grand displays of love, and generic gifts, like flowers and jewelry. These gestures lose their meaning over time.
