Every teenager feels the need to have a best friend. If you don't have a special friend yet, and you don't know how to find her, keep reading this article!
Steps
Step 1. Identify an appropriate “goal”
Look for a girl who is presentable, kind, and who already has some friends. Don't run after the most popular girl in school. Consider your choices well.
Step 2. Give compliments
All girls love to be a little flattered. Try to compliment her choices often, for example tell her that she wears nice shoes, or that you love her hairstyle. If he is with the group of his friends, and you are too shy to say it in front of everyone, mention it as he is walking towards you. But make sure he can catch your words!
Step 3. If you are in the same class, pretend you missed something from the lesson
Go to her and ask her a question about homework, for example. After she replies, thank her, and if you feel comfortable start a conversation about a pleasant topic, such as movies, TV shows, a band, sports, or school events.
Step 4. Smile at her every time you meet her in the hallways of the school, say hello and wave at her
You will show yourself an open and friendly person!
Step 5. When you meet her, ask her if she has a cell phone and if you can text each other
If you both have a phone, preferably with internet access, ask for the number! But only if you understand she'd like it. If you are not yet in confidence, do not call her immediately, unless it is for a clarification on schoolwork. If you rush things too hard, you may feel pressured.
Step 6. When you get to know each other better, start approaching her while she is with her friends
If you plan on going out, try inviting her! But still wait some time before establishing a certain confidence between you, and averting the danger of rejection! If he doesn't want to go out with you, patience, it means that you have avoided making friends with a person who does not deserve attention.
Advice
- Ask her what her name is. Do not be shy. Be yourself, if you pretend to be who you are not, you will feel uncomfortable afterwards.
- Don't be too sticky. You don't want her to feel cornered or annoyed.
- Try to get to know her a little more before getting to know her. It may not even be the person you are looking for.
- Texting is the best way to break the ice. You will have more time to think about the most appropriate answers.
- If she avoids you, don't let her see you for a while, before trying again.
- Be interested. If you are nervous, if you look in another direction and if you do not pay attention to the person in front of you, you will not communicate the right signals!
- Try to find things that you have in common.
- Help her when she needs it. This way she can understand that you are a loving and kind person.
- If you meet her during your lunch break, ask her if you can eat with her.
- If he has friends, he also socializes with them.
- Always be presentable and open to making new friends.
