All girls love guys who are sweet to them. Still, some guys have no idea how to behave, dress or talk appropriately around girls they like. Is it about you? Then read on!
Steps
Step 1. Smells good
Body odor is not good. Take a shower and, if you want, put on some perfume. Use just a little, you have to make her wonder what that wonderful smell is, not make her feel like it's on her head.
Step 2. Talk respectfully, directly with her but also when you are in her presence
Guys who swear and swear words don't make a good impression.
Step 3. Try to say clever things from time to time, but don't be afraid to joke sometimes
A deep voice is a great thing, especially when you are on the phone.
Step 4. Be confident, but without arrogance
Security is great, and if you even make her laugh, you'll have a winning combination in hand.
Step 5. Shave
A bristly beard is not good. Take care of your skin. It gives you a neat and tidy look, not overlooked. Sweet girls tend to prefer well-groomed guys, not messy ones. Alternatively, some girls like a wild, "one who just got out of bed" look. Find out what attracts your girlfriend and work to get it.
Step 6. Show your interest
Ask her what her favorite films are, food, flowers, books… everything, in short. After asking simple things, learn about her on a deeper level. This will let her know that you are truly interested in her. Don't forget that sweetness isn't her only characteristic (but don't be too pushy or aggressive - leave sexual issues out of the conversation, as well as any overly controversial topic, such as religion and politics). Don't tell her too soon about other girls you've dated, in the past or now; do not go chasing other girls in front of her, for example by letting your gaze wander to take a look at the others who are present at that moment.
Step 7. Be yourself
No matter how sweet the girl is: don't pretend. Once you have her, you will want to like her for who you are. Girls have different tastes, just like boys. Don't pretend you're a "bad boy" or any other stereotype - just be honest and feel comfortable in your shoes.
Step 8. Don't be obsessive or in need of attention
If he shows you need some space, take a step back and give him it.
Step 9. Forgive your mistakes
After all, we are all human.
Step 10. Be creative
Find different ways of telling her how much you love her. It's the little things that matter! Sure, a two-meter plush toy or diamond necklace would be great, but the little things here and there are what she'll really notice. Don't be afraid to be creative: a "do it yourself" gift will certainly be able to show her that you love her.
Advice
- This guide is not about sex, it's about good relationships!
- Not all girls are the same, not even the "sweet" ones. Each has different tastes. So while your sweet girl might go crazy for those who get good grades, she might not care about that scruffy beard you wear. It depends. Not all girls who look sweet online will be sweet in person as well; avoid finding it on the internet, and instead choose it very carefully: to improve your chances of success, choose the one you really want.
- Above all, it's about having confidence in yourself. Improve your confidence and confidence in engaging in personal conversations with women by dressing smart, dignified and masculine, and avoiding wearing shoes and clothes that are too big and baggy. Be careful: get ready to pass the four major tests a girl puts her potential lover through; it will test your strength, confidence, intelligence and determination.
- Many girls find it cute that even the most masculine guy, when faced with some situations, blushes and is shy. For example, anyone would be nervous about admitting "I can't dance". It's possible she isn't either, so you could learn together, or find an alternative.
- Physical activity makes you look good. Stay active and fit; why not? You will attract the kind of girl who has the same lifestyle. Don't be too obsessed with it anyway. Remember that some girls find the media image of perfection boring. Also, usually sweet girls, due to their personality type, don't pay attention to physical imperfections.
Warnings
- The worst breakups happen when a person fakes something (interests, personality, or is interested in another guy) and ultimately can't handle the shame anymore.
- When you tell a bad joke, don't be ashamed or angry! Direct an insult to yourself, but don't be too harsh - it'll make you look like an idiot or make you think you're too ashamed!
- Don't change who you are. If you end up becoming a completely different person, you won't be happy.
- Don't try too hard.
- Don't overdo the perfume.
