One of the most important things in a young teenager's life is boys. If you miss your ex, read this article to find out how to get him back!
Steps
Step 1. Try to think about why you broke up
Maybe you are too clingy? Do you have too many requests? You should talk to him and discuss these issues. If you have done something wrong, just say sorry - it will help you keep your friendship. Also, try to think about why you want it back; if it was you who broke the relationship, first think about the reason and try to find a solution to the problem.
Step 2. Take a few days just for yourself
It will be useful for him too: you don't want him to think you're desperate. So, take care of yourself so when you meet again, you will look great. When it comes time to discuss your breakup with him, don't beg him to get back together. Simply let him know by subtly reminding him of the moments you spent together. This will show him that you still think about him.
Step 3. Don't manipulate it
When it comes time to show off your best weapons, don't make him uncomfortable. When he's with you, he'll want to have fun, so don't come up with serious talk. Save them, you can face them together at a later time.
Step 4. Although you may be tempted, do not resort to baseness
At this stage, you should be very close to getting your boyfriend back. However, if he already has another girlfriend, avoid arguing with her or sleeping with him behind his back.
Step 5. Do some sustain
Don't act like you care what they do or who they hang out with. Shower him with kindness and don't worry about the new girl - she's most likely just a replacement and trying to make you jealous. Eventually he will realize who he had. If he looks at you while they are together, give him a smile and if he still talks about you, enjoy the moment.
Step 6. If he has started ignoring you since the day you broke up, act like you don't care at first
Don't text him sad. Get close friends and family to tell him about you and see what he has to say. If he says he's got over it, act like him. Dress attractively, go to the same places he goes to, post things on your Facebook account, especially the ones you know he will read. Always try to be irresistible so that she will be amazed every time she gets a chance to see you. Be kind, beautiful and attractive.
Step 7. When you are with him and his friends, talk more with them than with him; this will make him jealous and he will realize that he no longer has as much power over you
This will only increase her desire to get back together.
Step 8. Don't change your behavior or the way you dress
If he really wants to get back with you, you'll just have to change what you were doing wrong. For example, if you were too clingy, stay away from him a little. Don't make the classic mistake of telling him you've changed - show him.
Step 9. Do what he does
If he ignores you, ignore him too. If he talks to you, talk to him too, but not too much. If he wants to go out with you, go out with him. If she flirts with you, try flirting too (or do the opposite: don't reciprocate, stay detached, but then flirt with him when he isn't expecting it, he'll pick up on the signal). If you are still small or a teenager, don't lose your mind, tell lies about him and brag. If you are an adult, stay calm and relaxed, but don't lose your head and start stalking him.
Advice
- You should know if you really want it back. Do you think about him all the time? Is it worth it? You may be thinking about him all the time and it can get you down. Don't let other people tell you what to do by letting them tell you it's not worth it, because you should just follow your heart and if you love it, try to win it back.
- If you've decided this is a relationship worth saving, do whatever you want to get it back.
- Think about what made you fall in love with him and why you want him back, but don't beg him to get back together.
- Don't put too much pressure on him. Don't constantly talk to him about old memories and that you want to get back with him. You will only push it further away.
- Dressing up to feel comfortable could lead your boyfriend to think that you are calm and relaxed and will not create awkward moments when you are around.
- If she's sick of your character, try being kinder and nicer, but don't change your whole personality.
- If he is happier now with his new girlfriend and nothing is working for him, try to be happy with someone else too: this will show that you are strong and that you can look forward. Don't dwell on the past, you will only hurt yourself.
- Talk about him, don't always talk about yourself. If he asks you a question, say "You first" and then you will have his attention. So maybe he will realize that you have changed and will be more attracted to you.
- Think about if you really want to win him back or if you are somehow deluding yourself because he seems unattainable.
- If your feelings for this guy are sincere, then maybe you should just take the weight off and tell him. Maybe he just waits for you to do it. It might be tough, but it will be worth it.
Warnings
- Do not plot behind his back - this will lead him and others to think that you are rude and immature.
- Realize that he may not want to go back with you and accept this possibility - remember that he may still have feelings for you.
- Don't beg him to get back together. It will not help your charm and will push it further away.
- If he has no intention of returning with you, remain friends. This opens up the possibility of friendship becoming something more in the future.
- Sometimes, it's just not worth it. You have to get over it and realize that there are other guys who could be a thousand times better than him.
- If he's acting like an idiot, be nice and point it out. Maybe it will stop, maybe not. Depends, if he's acting like a real idiot, just walk away. At that point he will realize that he has done something wrong.
