If this is the first time you meet your in-laws, or if you have known them before, surely you would always want to make a good impression in front of them. Not only do you wish they could appreciate you and understand what a person you are, but you hope that a good relationship will be created between you in the future. They could be types of people with whom you are already used to confronting yourself, or a very formal and elegant couple, or completely extravagant. In any case, you will need to be prepared.
Steps
Step 1. If you are a woman, don't overdo your makeup
If you wear too much makeup, at first glance you may seem like a little authentic person. Don't wear eyeliner, choose a "girl next door" make-up. Show off your natural beauty and you will impress your mother-in-law, who will begin to imagine how beautiful her grandchildren can be.
Step 2. If you are a man, don't overdo it with cologne or aftershave
Nobody wants to sit at the table and have to inhale industrial quantities of your spray. The same goes for women who wear too much perfume. Moderation is the key to success.
Step 3. Choose casual clothing
For a man, the ideal clothing is jeans and a shirt; if, on the other hand, you show up with the tracksuit, white socks in plain sight and sneakers, your mother-in-law will begin to hide the silverware.
Step 4. Casual clothing is also the best solution for a woman
For example, a nice pair of pants and a blouse, or a dress - but not too short or provocative. Heels shouldn't be too high, and it's advisable not to overdo the accessories unless you want to imitate a Christmas tree.
Step 5. Speak kindly
Pay attention to what you say. Always say thanks. Even if the dinner your mother-in-law cooked is inedible, try not to point it out.
Step 6. Don't drink too much alcohol in their presence
Better to avoid it in front of the in-laws. On the other hand, if it is offered to you, take a little and sip it rather than drink it quickly. It would be embarrassing to get drunk and start saying nonsense, or maybe come up with personal details.
Step 7. Don't stick to your partner in front of in-laws
Always holding hands, cuddling and kissing is not nice, rather it is irritating, especially for others who are watching. Also avoid comments to emphasize that that person "belongs to you", especially mothers to their children, or fathers to their daughters, will not be happy to hear you say it.
Step 8. Do not give the impression of being a hero, a genius, a vain, presumptuous or spoiled person
Modesty, on the other hand, is attractive. Nobody, absolutely nobody, is perfect.
Step 9. Compliment your in-laws' home
Even if the walls are peeling, if the curtains are torn or there was an invasion of rats. Whatever the condition of the house, be sure to compliment, take into account the love you have for your partner.
Step 10. If you are insulted, belittled or laughed at, smile and bite your tongue
Unless you are able to quickly think of an acceptable comment that contains a double meaning addressed to your in-laws, the only thing to do is to remain calm and keep quiet. Avoid a discussion.
Step 11. Without exaggerating, say nice things about your partner
Let him know how much you love him but don't appear too obsessed. He appreciates his talents, for example: "He is a very good player, I go to football matches and I think he has talent". Don't say anything like “Oh my God, he's great !! I massage his feet even with sweaty socks as long as he can play football every day!”. Silence is better than such a sentence.
Step 12. As you leave, thank you for a nice evening and let him know that you have been very well
You smile. Always smile.
Advice
Respect your in-laws: Always remember that they are the parents of the person you love
Warnings
- If your partner's family doesn't really like you, leave it alone. Don't try to change their point of view at all costs. Recognize the facts and move on! Those who can't accept you for who you really are don't deserve your time.
- Don't swing, don't yawn, don't complain about your mate in front of his family. Remember that your partner loves their parents, so your comments may be offensive. Also accept that you won't be able to change his family.
