If you are attracted to a man and would like to get his attention, the success of your approach will depend on both how you connect with him and how you get his attention. If you are already talking to him, or intend to talk to him, it is important that you are yourself, showing your best qualities (without appearing presumptuous). When you catch his attention from a distance, your looks and body language will almost certainly play a role in this whole situation.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Preparing to Get His Attention
Step 1. Gain confidence in yourself
Before you try to attract a man by putting yourself in a position where you can meet his gaze or stand directly in front of him, it is essential that you have confidence in yourself. What seduces the most is to demonstrate self-esteem and awareness of one's personality. If you are confident, others are more likely to follow your example. Follow these tips to build self-confidence:
- Focus on your best features. They should include both the physical qualities and the character sides that you value most about yourself. This way you will feel more comfortable with yourself.
- Remember how beautiful you are. Consider what you have achieved and the amazing things you have done in your life.
- Think about how you can improve what you don't like about your person. If you don't like the color of your hair, consider dyeing it. If you don't like the fact that you get stressed out easily, use some relaxation techniques. However, always keep in mind that you should improve for yourself, not to please someone else.
Step 2. Dress to impress
Once you feel confident, both inside and out, you can start focusing on your ability to get a man's attention. Start with the clothes. It's best to wear something that you are comfortable with, but that makes you feel beautiful, or even sexy. However, don't get a guy's attention by wearing dresses with necklines that reach to the navel. On the contrary, choose a dress that highlights your figure and, above all, makes you feel fabulous.
- Highlight your neck and shoulders if you can. Many men consider a woman's neck and shoulders to be very charming and attractive areas. Instead of wearing a suit that barely covers your breasts, try an off-the-shoulder dress and a tucked up hairstyle to allow men to look down your neck.
- Don't forget to choose a nice pair of shoes. Again, the key is to wear shoes that you feel comfortable with (i.e. comfortable for walking). In fact, if you stagger on super high heels, you will give the impression that you have had a few drinks too many.
Step 3. Keep your hair and makeup in order
Once you've chosen alluring attire, it's time to move on to fixing your hair and makeup. There is no need to wear too much makeup, but if you see yourself beautiful with eyeliner and mascara, because you think they open your eyes, do not hesitate to use them! Once again, stick to what makes you feel the most confident and sexy, because when you have confidence in yourself you will definitely grab men's attention.
It can be difficult to choose your hair cut. It is important to keep in mind the shape of the face, but also the structure of the hair. To learn more about the choice of cut, click here
Step 4. Make sure you smell delicious
A man notices if he smells good. Likewise, it can detect if you have a bad smell. Therefore, be sure to use deodorant and give yourself a splash of your favorite perfume. Perfume can actually increase natural pheromones, making you more attractive to the opposite sex. The essences considered effective for grabbing a man's attention are:
- Pink
- Sandal
- Jasmine
Step 5. Wear an eye-catching necklace
To get a man's attention, it can be helpful to wear a necklace that draws his gaze to your neck. Many men consider a woman's neck to be an extremely feminine and captivating part of the body, so highlight your décolleté by wearing a necklace you give yourself.
Part 2 of 3: Getting Attention from Away
Step 1. Check that you have nothing in your teeth
A parsley-stained smile isn't the best way to get a man's attention, so be sure you don't have any leftovers in your teeth before you start dazzling him with your smiles. When you finish eating, chew a piece of gum to remove any food residue between your teeth.
Step 2. Make eye contact
When you find the man you'd like to get attention from, start making eye contact with him. However, don't stare - unless you are able to cast a truly seductive look, you risk unsettling him rather than flirting. Instead:
Stop your gaze on him. Wait until you can intercept his, keep eye contact for a second, then look away. If you want to be bolder, you might as well give him a smile while watching him (but only for a second)
Step 3. Use your brows to send a message
Once you've looked at each other a couple of times, the next time pause a little longer, move your eyebrows for half a second, before quickly looking away. This will let him know that you understand that he has noticed you.
This gesture could lead him to think that you already know each other. In this case, he will come to you and greet you
Step 4. Smile at him
After looking at him several times, don't hesitate to give him a smile. By smiling, you will show openness - and that's the idea you need to give if you want him to come and talk to you.
Step 5. Cross and uncross your legs when sitting
If you have a killer pair of legs, don't be afraid to show them off. Instead, grab his attention by changing positions every couple of minutes. These movements will help you catch her eye.
Crossing and uncrossing the legs can also be interpreted as a gesture for flirting. However, don't get too excited or you risk looking anxious or restless
Step 6. Go out with some close friends
Some men find it easier to try an approach with a woman if she is in the company of a small group of friends. Therefore, go get some friends to support you and go have fun. When a guy approaches, they'll know what to say to present you well and, when it's time, step aside.
- Your shoulder friend needs to be aware that you are trying to get a guy's attention and will do whatever it takes to make you look great.
- If you've been out in the company of a fairly large group of girls, occasionally try to break away with a friend to give the man you've been eyeing a chance to get close without feeling overwhelmed by the others.
Part 3 of 3: Maintain His Attention While You Talk To Him
Step 1. Be yourself
When he comes to talk to you, or you get close to him, have faith in yourself. Don't pretend to be who you are not - you are already awesome. If you pretend at first, but later realize you'd like to see him again, it will be much harder to set the record straight later, so just be yourself from the start.
Honesty is the best tactic, especially if you plan on seeing the man you met again. If she asks to introduce herself, be direct but don't try to brag too much, even if that makes you "confident"
Step 2. Prove that you are smart
Don't be afraid to sound a little witty. Intelligence is a quality that seduces. Being yourself doesn't mean making yourself trivial to get a man's attention. Trust your intelligence.
Talk about what piques your interest or that you are well informed about to show that you are not afraid to express your intelligence
Step 3. Don't be afraid to laugh
Whether you make him laugh or he makes you laugh, feel free to let your smile shine. A laugh can be a charming gesture, and a sense of humor certainly grabs (and keeps) a man's attention.
- Don't force yourself to laugh at his jokes just to make him feel comfortable. However, if that's not fun for your taste, don't be rude but try to change the subject.
- If the guy you're talking to doesn't like to laugh or seems unresponsive when you laugh, maybe he's not the kind of person to keep talking to.
Step 4. Talk about things you are passionate about
Passion is a very seductive quality. By talking about what interests you, you can highlight an important part of yourself: your mind, your thoughts and your passions.
However, don't dwell on one topic by doing a monologue. If you talk nonstop about your experiences as a rider for 45 minutes, you risk the other person losing interest in you or you may appear to be a little presumptuous
Step 5. Pay attention to what he says
While it is very important to discuss your passions and interests, it is equally important to listen to what the man you like has to say. If you show interest and participation when you talk to him, he won't take his attention away from you.
Make eye contact when he says something and laugh at his jokes (if you think they're funny). Ask him questions that show your attention to what he says
Step 6. Make physical contact
As you speak, break the "physical barriers" by placing a hand on his arm when you laugh, or brush his knee with yours if you are seated. Breaking this invisible barrier through physical contact can help keep her attention on you. Here are some other ways to break it, but don't be too explicit so it doesn't notice you're doing it on purpose:
- Touch his hand with yours when you hand him something.
- Touch his arm with yours as you walk side by side.
Step 7. Use your hands to tell something
When you are waving or holding your hands in front of you, you can unknowingly convey the idea of establishing a barrier with your interlocutor. To eliminate this feeling, put aside everything in front of you - whether it's a glass, a bag or a cell phone - and use your hands to describe what you are saying.
Advice
- Don't be afraid to approach the guy you're interested in. If you're confident, she won't hesitate to give you her attention.
- If he's not interested in you, you'll understand. You should leave calmly, without forcing the situation.
- If he still doesn't like you, leave him alone. Life is beautiful, and there are so many things to see.
- While perfume can help increase seduction, be careful not to overdo it, otherwise it could cause the opposite effect.
