Do you want to build a more intimate and emotional relationship between you and your girlfriend or boyfriend? Here are some tips and ideas.
Steps
Step 1. Show your affection
Touch her, hold her hands, hold her arm, kiss her, cuddle her, sit next to her, make her sit on your legs, put her head on your shoulder, hug her etc. Make physical contact and learn to be comfortable in these situations. It is important to know that the other person agrees.
Step 2. Talk to her
Talk about feelings, points of view, your social life, work life, family life, ideas, hopes, dreams, insecurities, fears, goals, ambitions, desires, needs, fantasies, your past, your childhood etc. Talk about the big things and the little ones. Talk to her about everything.
Step 3. Share things with her (clothing, food, drink, feelings, emotions, etc.)
). For example, try wearing your boyfriend's jacket if you are cold (forget yours on purpose and ask to be allowed to wear his), and when you eat together, share food and drinks. For example, if you order ice cream, ask for a cup and two teaspoons, and if you order a drink, ask for a glass and two straws, or share a plate if you are eating together (always ask before taking some of his food or drinking from the his glass). Share what you feel with each other, and don't be afraid to show them your feelings. Share blankets, baggy sweaters, phones, etc. Remember the saying: "What's mine is yours". So share everything!
Step 4. Do things for each other
For example, if your girlfriend wants a drink, offer to go get her yourself. Listen to her when she talks to you; be open; be thoughtful and romantic. Surprise yourself from time to time with something you want.
Step 5. Other ideas
If you're in the movies, rest your head on your boyfriend's shoulder and share popcorn and sodas. At the restaurant, sit on the same side of the table and walk in. If you are at home watching TV, pamper yourself and hold hands.
Step 6. Make your presence felt when your partner has had a bad day with hugs, kisses, comforting her, and listening to her
Really listen to what she says, and if she doesn't feel like talking, leave her alone and don't be pushy. Wait for her to open up. Offer her a massage or other treat.
Advice
- Make sure you trust, respect and support your partner, stay by her side, be honest with her, communicate, leave her space, arrange romantic dates, spend time with her, and develop a more intimate relationship. and close, in all possible ways.
- Say "we", "our" and "there". Show everyone that you are a couple and are together. If your boyfriend bought you jewelry, wear it, particularly in his presence. If your girlfriend bought you a hat or wallet, always carry them with you.
- You often find time to be alone. Do something special and unique together. Arrange a weekly appointment just for you. When you see yourself, take care of your appearance. It also leaves room for spontaneity.
