If your boyfriend misses you, it means that he cares about you and that he feels the detachment, from a physical and emotional point of view. If you are in a long-distance relationship or are often far from your boyfriend, it can be difficult to keep your bond strong. There are a few things you can do to make sure you miss him when you are far away, such as improving the way you communicate, surprise him, and encourage him to feel more attracted to you.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Communicate Positively
Step 1. Listen to your boyfriend
Knowing how to listen is very important in developing a healthy relationship, but it can also be helpful in making your boyfriend feel more attracted to you. He will always seek your company and will want to see you when you are away. To listen well, you must:
- Avoid distractions, such as cell phones, laptops, and televisions.
- Maintain eye contact when she talks to you.
- Nod and respond with phrases such as "I understand", "Ah-ah" and "Go ahead".
- Repeat what he said and then make statements that clarify his point of view, such as: "It seems to me that you are very angry that your friend has borrowed your things without asking you."
Step 2. Support your boyfriend
Men are attracted to women who understand them. If you show empathy when your boyfriend shares something with you, he will get into the habit of looking for you when something is wrong. Listen to his problems and react by offering your support.
- For example, if he tells you that a colleague of his took credit for something he did, say, "But that's awful! He probably feels threatened by your skill."
- Don't neglect his feelings and don't ignore him when he talks to you about his problems.
Step 3. Say his name
Saying your boyfriend's name when you are with him can make him feel more attracted to you. You will let him know that you think about him and that you have nothing else on your mind. This can make him feel appreciated, even when you're not by his side.
Try saying his name at unexpected times, like when you're telling him a story or during a long hug
Step 4. Compliment him
Let him know that you want him and that you find him attractive, with praise and positive comments. This way he will understand that you like him and his feelings for you will intensify.
- Praise a particular skill of your boyfriend, or praise him for something he does particularly well, like cooking your favorite meal or cleaning the house.
- Compliment him as soon as you notice behavior that you appreciate or find attractive.
- Don't worry if he responds with a grunt or a smile. Your appreciation will reach his heart and lead him to develop more affection for you.
Step 5. Organize appointments in video chat
You can use technology to your advantage, especially if you are in a long-distance relationship. Call him in videochat at least once a week. This allows you to see each other and talk face to face, albeit through a telephone or computer.
Having a visual reference when he talks to you will remind him how much he misses you and will allow him to create memories that he can think of in your absence
Step 6. Send him a romantic message
If you're always busy and haven't talked on the phone for a few days, a short romantic message can remind him of you and why he likes you so much.
- You can write simple words, like "I love you!", "I miss you!" or "I'm thinking of you!".
- Sending sexy messages can be a dangerous move, and sending your photos over the internet is a risk that is almost always best not to take. If you want to be romantic and spicy at the same time, try texting him that you miss him and want him to. For example, try "I was thinking about our last night together …", or "I can't wait to spend another night with you …".
Method 2 of 3: Surprise him
Step 1. Surprise him with a gift or a special date
Creating unique and unforgettable memories with your boyfriend is a great way to make him miss you. You could surprise him with a special gift, like a dress he has always wanted, or arrange a special date at the concert of his favorite band.
Keep your romance spontaneous and exciting by planning surprise activities you can do together. This allows you to spend quality time together and create pleasant memories of your relationship
Step 2. Write him a love letter
Bring out your romantic streak by expressing your feelings and emotions in a letter that you will have your boyfriend find on the pillow, in his suitcase or in the car. Find some nice writing paper, then write as intimate and sincere as you can. Seal the envelope and leave it in a place where he can easily find it. When he opens it, he will think of you and he will miss you very much.
Send him "love messages" with your cell phone and remember to wish him good night and good morning, especially if you don't live together. This will help you maintain a strong bond and make your boyfriend realize that you always think so
Step 3. Do something nice for him
Find a way to surprise and spoil him from time to time. Prepare his favorite meal, give him a massage or give him time to focus on his hobbies and passions. You will let him know that you can be generous and loving. By giving him the chance to do the things he likes, you will remind him that your relationship is invaluable and that he will miss your attention when you are not by his side.
Make sure you don't neglect your own needs to meet your boyfriend's. Just find simple ways to surprise him so that he misses you even more
Step 4. Leave them something of yours
By "forgetting" a small item in your boyfriend's house, he will remember you when he least expects it. Try forgetting an earring, hair clip, or other small object that makes him think of you.
- Leaving an earring is a discreet and symbolic gesture. Earrings are a pair, so your message is that the couple (you and your boyfriend) will be reunited in the future.
- Avoid leaving very important items with him. You need your house keys, wallet and driver's license every day, so you would have to go back to get them back. You wouldn't give your boyfriend enough time to miss you!
Method 3 of 3: Make him feel more attracted to you
Step 1. Look after your appearance
Physical attraction is important in a romantic relationship, but that doesn't mean you have to be perfect. Men are more attracted to women who show that they care about themselves and who try to look their best. To show that you can take care of yourself, make sure you:
- Take a shower every day.
- Take care of your hair.
- Brush your teeth twice a day.
- Wear clothes that fit you well and make you feel attractive.
- Exercise at least twice a week.
- Trim and clean your nails regularly.
- Put on some makeup from time to time (optional).
Step 2. Show your personality
Physical appearance is important, but men are even more attracted to women who have a positive attitude. Make sure you show all your character qualities to your boyfriend.
You just need to be yourself to show off your character, but you can try to emphasize some of the traits your boyfriend finds attractive. For example, you can show your kindness by being polite to the waiters when you are out for dinner. Or highlight your optimism by always pointing out the bright side of things
Step 3. Look him in the eye
Staring your boyfriend in the eye for two minutes can make him feel more attracted to you (and vice versa). Always meet his gaze when you are together, so that when you are apart, he will remember the romantic moments between you.
Try to catch his eye for a minute as he passes you in the hallway. Or, during a conversation over coffee, try to make eye contact for longer than usual
Step 4. Wear red clothing
Red attracts men more than other colors. To take advantage of this trend, try wearing red clothes more often when you're with your boyfriend.
For example, you could wear a red sweater when you go to his office to leave him lunch, or keep a red scarf on hand and wrap it around your neck when he comes to your house
Step 5. Choose a perfume that characterizes you
Smells bring back memories, so be sure to wear a specific perfume or deodorant every time you're with your boyfriend. Over time, he will begin to associate that smell with the positive feelings he feels when he is with you and when he does smell it, he will miss it a lot.
- If you sleep in her house, sprinkle some of your perfume on her pillow before you leave. In the evening, when he goes to bed alone, he will smell your perfume and miss you.
- Try wearing one of your boyfriend's favorite sweaters for a couple of hours (with his permission, of course). Make sure you have your perfume on so that you can transfer it to the sweater. Return it impregnated with your scent.
Step 6. Maintain a social life out of your relationship
Instead of always being available to your boyfriend, it's important that you maintain relationships with friends and family. By acting independently and not spending all your time with him, you will make him appreciate the moments you will have together more.
- Go out alone with your friends, or spend a family night without your boyfriend. Encourage him to do the same. When you see each other again, behave calmly and make sure he understands that you want him to have fun when he's not with you.
- Avoid overwriting him when you are not together. Text him to ask if he's having fun, but don't insist on texting him.
- Don't abandon your plans to be with him. Your relationship will be much healthier and more rewarding if both of you are independent and don't spend all your time together.
