The path of true love is never smooth! Sometimes it happens that the guy you like doesn't even know you exist - he still doesn't know! Don't listen to anyone who says “Wear something nice! Abound with makeup! Be provocative! " or "You have to act differently". Not the right way to get his attention. If you want to get the guy you like, just be yourself! Sure, it may seem like a cliché, but it's the truth, because being yourself and smiling show your interest in him.
Steps
Step 1. Find out who they like
If he is busy with another girl, being in competition is never healthy, since jealousies and distrust can arise. Knowing who they like and knowing something about their relationship will help you decide if you really want to compete with the other. Is this a serious relationship? Are they happy together? If so, you certainly don't want to be the trigger for the hassle and annoyance between them. Conversely, if you find that they are just good friends, the door to hang out with him without any worries may be open.
Step 2. Also try to get to know him better
In case he is interested in some other, you will need to get to know each other better considering that he could choose you instead of the other. Therefore, try to get close to him. If you are in the same school or class, look for an opportunity to do a project or study together. Find out what he likes to do after school, his hobbies and interests and see if you have anything in common.
Step 3. After getting to know him and his potential girlfriend, decide if he deserves you
If he has serious intentions with the other, consider the problems that could arise if you try to go out with him. This is the best time to prevent someone else from getting hurt or grievances arising.
Step 4. Make your move, if you are convinced that he has no serious intentions with the other girl
Suggest a place where you would like to go or that you think they might be interested in.
Step 5. Make sure yours are innocent suggestions
Don't allude to places that sound like "lovers hangout" or something blatantly romantic.
Step 6. Don't be too pushy and don't make suggestions all the time, as this behavior could warn him
Occasionally point out some evening event that you think will be fun for both of you. It could be a film, a sporting event or an event that takes place in the city and that can arouse the interest of both.
Step 7. Don't rush
Depending on the relationship he has with the other girl, it could only be a matter of time before a breakup occurs between them and it is advisable to be in a favorable position from which to intervene.
Step 8. Learn about his hobbies and favorite sports
If he is interested in art, show him your drawings or look for an exhibition near you. If he likes football, follow just enough to have a conversation with him.
Step 9. Try to be friends with him, regardless of whether or not he asks you to go out with him
It means avoiding insults or misunderstandings about his current girlfriend, but also hypocrisy about what you like just to impress him.
Step 10. Be honest with yourself
It means admitting to yourself why you intend to date him. If you're just jealous of his girlfriend or have a simple passing attraction, your efforts won't be in good faith.
Advice
- You can be cool, but don't overdo it. He must love you for who you are.
- Make eye contact, but don't overdo it.
- Be yourself! You will want him to like you for who you really are.
- Smile a lot and be friendly.
- Don't appear too eager to receive his attention. Don't forget that you have a life ahead of you to live.
- Don't act to him as if you know everything. Try to let yourself be "inspired" by him (even if you already know it), but don't overdo it. He might think you're a little bit stupid.
- Don't make it seem too obvious that you like it.
- Be yourself.
- Be persistent and never stop hoping.
- Don't be jealous of him.
- Just be nice to him!
- If it's not sincere, why should you be? Get your revenge! Flirt with someone else. What you give, you receive. So, get moving. Take a breath, swallow the morsel and give him a cake.
- Be gentle.
- But if he is really in love with the other, don't try to ruin their relationship. * He will seek his revenge once you and him start dating.
- If he already has a girlfriend he's happy with, leave him alone.
Warnings
- Don't hurt anyone.
- Don't get mad at him.
- Don't try to make him jealous, as he may think you're not interested.
- Be nice to your current girlfriend, because it could hurt you.
- If he doesn't like you, he doesn't deserve you.
